"That mother can tell you now, according to your father's analysis, within half a year, there will be gunsmoke again. Mrs. Yun said lightly, her face seemed to be calm when she said it, and it seemed to contain helplessness.

Yun Tiantian was also stunned for a moment, and then quickly understood, so he nodded and asked, "But what does this have to do with whether I am married or not?"

"You. Mrs. Yun knocked on Yun Tiantian's head with a smile, and then said: "If it is gunsmoke, the person who is leaning and marrying must not be a general, when the time comes, you are not ......" to stay alone in the empty room for a while?

"There are also young people of appropriate age among the Chinese courtiers. Although Yun Tiantian didn't want to marry so easily, he was also curious after all.

Mrs. Yun sighed when she talked about this, and said, "Tilt, if it really comes to that time, Wenchen may not be able to relax." ”

Yun Tiantian thought that her mother had personally experienced a war, and these must have been experienced by her, so she didn't say more. Even so, she doesn't have to worry about it anymore, in fact, she doesn't want to get married so hastily than her mother, she doesn't want to get married now.

"What, do you want to get married?" Mrs. Yun tilted her head and smiled, "Is it really a woman's misfortune?"

Shaking his head slightly, Yun Tian said, "No, I wish I could accompany my mother for the rest of my life." ”

"Where can that? Mrs. Yun smiled again, then looked at Yun Tiantian, stroked the tips of her hair, and asked, "What's on your mind?"

"I can't tell. The clouds poured.

"If it's because you can't go out, you don't have to work so hard. Mrs. Yun said.

Still shaking her head, Yun Tilt thought about it, what she thinks about most these days should actually be getting married, on the one hand, looking forward to it, worrying on the other hand, and more unwilling to pass such a mediocre life, so Dao Yun Tilt truthfully informed Mrs. Yun of her thoughts.

Mrs. Yun was thoughtful after hearing this, but seemed to be able to understand, and said: "Tilt, your mentality is actually quite similar to that of your mother, I think every woman is also looking forward to it at first, but she understands this world, so she can't help but worry about her future fate." ”

"So what should I do?"

"It's not that you can't get married in the past two years. She also wants to keep her daughter for a while, and the daughter of the General's Mansion, if she really reaches the age of 29 and 10, she will not worry about finding a good family.

"But after all, it was only temporary, and it was difficult to remove the irritability in my heart. Yun Tiantian said helplessly, more often than not, she couldn't control herself not to think about it.

Mrs. Yun didn't know how to teach this, the situation was not the same as she was at the beginning, at least she was lucky to meet her husband, but she obviously didn't have anyone to admire, but for a moment, Mrs. Yun thought of Su Luo, who was often mentioned by Tilt some time ago.

"Mother?"

Coming back to her senses, Mrs. Yun said: "Everyone's life is different, and what my mother summed up may not be applicable to every woman." ”

"That is to say, my mother actually has an idea in her heart, why don't you talk about it and listen to it?" Yun Tiantian quickly found what she wanted in Mrs. Yun's words.

Helplessly, Mrs. Yun shook her head, and then let out a long breath and said, "If a woman has someone she likes, she will naturally not worry about this." ”

"That's not necessarily, how many women have expectations for their husbands before they get married, and they have long heard of his name and secretly promised their hearts, and in the end, in the deep palace compound, they retreated one after another. ”

"Then you have to like each other. Mrs. Yun felt that she and her daughter were still a bit far-fetched to take these things, her understanding must be different from Yun Tiantian in many aspects, and in some aspects, her views were more worldly, because she had experienced the world and seen too much worldliness.

Yun Tian listened for a long time, but did not find any key points, so Mrs. Yun said: "Tilt now, can there be someone you like?"

Hearing this topic again, Yun Tiantian was at a loss more than he expected, and he couldn't help but have a headache that he was born in the General's Mansion, where would other people ask the girl such a question?

"There are only a few men I have contacted, what can I like?" Yun Qian thought about the men he knew these days, Su Luo, Qingmo, and Tie Qiu, at best, there were very few, not to mention that except for Su Luo, the rest were only a few faces.

"What about Mr. Su?"

Yun Tingtian felt that under his mother's question, he had almost nowhere to hide, and when he mentioned Su Luo, the whole person felt indescribable, and said: "I don't know, he and I should be regarded as ......" friends, this sentence, now Yun Tiantian finds it difficult to say.

Just friends, why are there so many intimate manners?

Just friends, it doesn't seem enough to explain it all.

"Did you often meet him when you went out every day a few days ago?" asked Mrs. Yun again.

Except for nodding, Yun Tilt didn't do anything else, not only often, but almost every time.

"That tilting wants to go out, are you also looking forward to meeting him?" Mrs. Yun's words gradually became as aggressive, because Yun tilting couldn't deny it, looking at the tenderness between her mother's eyebrows, Yun tilting closed her eyes and nodded.

Mrs. Yun's eyebrows were finally dyed with sadness, looking at her husband's appearance, she didn't seem to want any relationship between Su Gongzi and Yun Tiantian, but although her daughter may not have a deep relationship with him, she must have some feelings.

is also a woman, she hopes that Yun Tiantian can marry someone she likes, but as a mother, she hopes that Yun Tiantian can marry someone who knows her roots, so that she can be sure-footed, but she knows almost nothing about Su Luo, so Mrs. Yun decided to take the time to ask her husband about Su Luo's situation in the past few days.

"Okay, leaning, don't think about it, these are all very normal, at your age, whoever is close to you and close to you, you will be extra attentive to whom, everything...... Let it be. Madame Yun finally gave an ambiguous answer.

Yun Tiantian then nodded, thinking about it, since this is the case, then ...... It's okay to follow the fate.

"You're going to embroider something here with me today, you've been lazy and haven't done embroidery for a long time. Mrs. Yun caught a glimpse of her half-embroidered clothes, and remembered that now, she should also teach some embroidery methods of other kinds of Yun Tilt, and said, "It just so happens that my mother will teach you some new tricks." ”

"Good. Yun tilted his head, thinking in his heart that he should do something to calm down.

Mrs. Yun also picked up the embroidery work again, and asked, "Tilt, do you know why women want to learn from women?"

"Shouldn't it be a woman's must learn?" Yun Tiantian obviously didn't understand this, but he knew that he had to learn, and he had to learn, so he had to learn. As for why, who has said that? At best, it is dignified.

"Hey. Mrs. Yun shook her head and sighed with a smile, but obviously, she didn't agree with Yun Tiantian's opinion, and blamed her for not mentioning it before.

So Mrs. Yun said: "In the past, there was no differentiation between the rich and poor classes, and for women, female celebrities were more about making money. ”

"Isn't it a woman who marries her husband and teaches her children?" asked Yun Tiantian.

Mrs. Yun shook her head, and then said: "That's just people with better economic conditions, but in fact, most of the people don't have such good conditions." Women are equally required to work as men. ”

This is why ordinary people are able to be monogamous. Madame Yun raised her hand to cover her mouth and yawned, and then said, "Because their labor is in half, there is no woman dependent on a man. ”

"That's why my mother said, do women need to be excellent more?"

"It's kind of like that. ”

Yun Tingtian still felt unfair when he thought about it, so he said: "But in a family with better economic conditions, men are officials or businessmen, but women can't do this. ”

Madame Yun then felt that she was thinking too much, and in some aspects, she was indeed difficult to explain, because these were all potential rules, although it was not fair to think about it carefully, but it had become the default common sense. Including civilians, although most of them are not able to bear three wives and four concubines, aren't there many people looking for flowers and asking willows?

"That's because the education received is different, the woman is not suitable, and she is also doing well. ”

"Isn't that well done, okay?"

"It's hard to say. Mrs. Yun felt quite a headache, Yun Tiantian was still too naïve, knowing that the world was unfair, she would still fantasize a lot, but she always wanted to say it from the good side, Mrs. Yun said: "Just as you proposed that women join the army, didn't you be allowed in the end?"

Yun tilted his head, but when he thought about it again, he sighed.

Mrs. Yun then said: "Tilt, there is never absolute fairness in this world, the world is like this, if you don't conform to it, and it is difficult to change it, you will only continue to torture yourself." ”

"Okay, mother, I say it as if I'm complaining all day long. Yun Tiantian chuckled, and then pressed against Mrs. Yun's shoulder.

Mrs. Yun shook her head with a smile, and finally had to say helplessly: "Sit upright, let me embroider in the wrong place." ”

"Okay, good, mother's biggest. Yun Tiantian hurriedly sat upright, and then picked up the embroidery sample quite casually, while watching the embroidery method of his mother.

"You're going to be glossy. Mrs. Yun snorted lightly, and then continued to concentrate on her hands, when the war will spread, everything is unknown, but half a year is just a particularly conservative estimate, in fact, if you don't have a spring, you won't be able to give birth.

Her husband is a general, how can she not be worried at all, but after many years, she can no longer be by her side during the war years when she was young...... There's no going back.

And Yun tilted inadvertently, Mrs. Yun suddenly sighed and mentioned.

"If one day you can't avoid marrying a husband who can't devote himself to you, then don't be easy to be interested in him, and concentrate on being the mother of your family. ”

Her daughter will inevitably marry someone else as a wife, and if there is no happiness, a stable life can be regarded as a ...... Nice ending.

【Happy Reading】