Affection 41: Kindness is not necessarily recklessness
"Are you mentioning to your father about setting up a porridge canopy, have you thought it through?" Mrs. Yun smiled lightly, and her words were almost to the point.
Yun Tiantian said silently: "No, it's just a moment's heart." ”
"Isn't it reckless or wise to make a decision without deep thought?" Lady Yun stared at Yun Tiantian's gaze softly but not softly.
"I ......" Yun Tiantian was somewhat surprised and puzzled, staring at Mrs. Yun Shaoqing, vaguely feeling that his mother meant something.
Mrs. Yun's soft gaze did not change, and she looked at Yun Tian and said, "You think you are doing a good deed, right?"
"Definitely. That's what she thought, and it turned out that she did good things, but this morning...... The troublemaking thing is still vivid, and it is not a taste in my heart after all.
Mrs. Yun naturally didn't miss her daughter's thoughtful loss, so she hesitated and made a decision. In the end, she needs to make a friend of the way of life and survival in this world, simple kindness, far from being right, people who have been on the battlefield and witnessed life and death will understand this truth.
If those generals and talents have mercy on the lives of one or two people, how can this battle be fought?
She said: "Tilt, you must know that there are many poor people in the world, and your so-called charity is only to improve their lives within the scope of their ability, but how can they solve the fundamental problem?"
"My daughter also knows, but after all, she can't see a little help. "What my mother said, she is not ignorant, Yun Tilt said, "I am a small man, but if there are tens of millions of people, I can save hundreds of millions of people." ”
With a slight straight eye, Mrs. Yun nodded in agreement: "That's a good word, but don't you think you're too single?"
"Single?" she thought her mother nodded, thinking that she was right.
"You see, man is the most discontented. Mrs. Yun seemed to be quite touched when she said this, probably thinking of some of her early experiences, and said: "If parents and officials in all parts of the world organize to build tents and soup kitchens, people in the world will be able to eat enough?"
Madam Yun sighed and looked speechless, and continued: "But at that time, did you ever think that they would be able to eat enough without much effort, so would they be satisfied?"
"No, they won't, they will go one step further on what they already have, and if the state can feed them, why can't they have a decent job, a daily income, a wife and children, etc......., etc."
"This ......" Yun tilted his face hesitated, is this so?
If you have some, you will take it for granted, so you will ask for more, and people's greed can never be measured.
Yun Tilt is at a loss after all, if this is the case, what can be done?
She couldn't help but bow her head and meditate on the reckless second son, the true definition of the short word, the word redemption, and the true intention of sincerity and single-mindedness. Is the world too chaotic and she hasn't seen it yet, or is her heart too small and only sees the side in front of her.
But apparently that's not really a problem......
If you can't rely on other people's national parents, then, who do civilians rely on? Yun Ting's eyelashes kept stirring up and falling, as if he understood whether he understood or not.
Mrs. Yun said at the right time: "There is nothing wrong with greed, people can only be motivated if they are greedy, but this progress should not be given unconditionally by others, but won by their own efforts." The state can only try to give them a peaceful and favorable system, as well as some appropriate assistance, nothing more. ”
As soon as he finished speaking, he was like an empowerment, making Yun Tilt smile: "That's right! ”
"But ......" Yun tilted and then still hesitated, for the question: "According to what my mother said, this porridge is going to be demolished?"
If it is dismantled, not to mention how much it costs to prepare things in advance, it will not come in handy later, and she is not happy with her selfishness.
Mrs. Yun shook her head instead, and said: "That's not necessary, these years of state affairs have made the emperor take care of the people, and for fear of losing the hearts of the people for a long time, it may not be bad for the general's mansion to come forward to give porridge." The key to my so-called recklessness lies in the fact that you have not thought deeply. ”
"Mother is saying that I only care about myself and want to do a good deed for a while, but I haven't thought about the effect when it costs money?"
Mrs. Yun nodded, obviously satisfied when she heard this: "Exactly, if you were not born in the General's Mansion, and your mother and your father were just ordinary people, could you still have money and things to buy these for you?"
I really didn't think much of that at the time. Yun Tian looked a little helpless after speaking, "Then I realized that I only said one word about this matter, and I neither contributed money nor effort, let alone considered whether it would bring a financial burden to the General's Mansion." ”
"You know the truth, so don't say much about your mother. After hearing this, Mrs. Yun also felt that this was enough.
Over the years, the General's Mansion's protection of Tilt has cultivated her simple kindness, but Su Luo's appearance made her know that she couldn't control her daughter, her person, or her heart. She didn't want her daughter to be like her at the beginning, and she didn't believe the truth until she witnessed the cruelty.
Speaking now, maybe she doesn't understand deeply, but as a mother, I hope she can remember it.
After thinking about it for a while, Mrs. Yun added: "Tilting, my mother said this today, just to tell you that the impulse of a passionate heart is not impossible, but it lacks thoughtful reason. Reason is not indecisiveness, but the ability to see the pros and cons of things and then cut them. ”
"Got it. Yun Tiantian also knew that her mother was good for her, and said with a hippie smile: "Isn't it the old saying 'everything has an opposite'?"
"And laughed. Mrs. Yun nodded her daughter's forehead, but her expression was not reproachful.
Yun Tiantian took the opportunity to put his head close to his mother's shoulder, nested there and was very satisfied, and looked at his mother after being silent for a while, and asked: "Mother, you rarely told me this before, it seems that before and after, you and your father have changed." ”
Mrs. Yun was a little stunned after hearing this, and said with a sigh of relief: "Mother is still mother, father is still father, what will never change is to have a heart that loves you." ”
"If it really says that it has changed, it is that it has grown up. That's why she would say something else, or ask something that her daughter hadn't thought about before.
Because those things have to be experienced sooner or later. A woman's intuition may not be absolute, but she will always secretly identify some things, just like every time Mrs. Yun looks at her beautiful eyes when Yun Tiantian mentions Su Luo, she will have a premonition that the woman is not left......
At this time, Yun Tilt was also thinking about something.
These days, many people will mention, so she is probably true, and she can no longer hold the carefree attitude of eating, drinking, and enjoying himself, because she also has a lot of things to do.
So, still, I've grown up......