Chapter 13 Take the Critical Places in Life ~ Point the way

Seeing him angry, Lao Li smiled, just like an old man who had been full of vicissitudes looking at an ignorant naughty boy, "First of all, you don't have perseverance, what are you coming to Dragon City for? You can't stay for only two months, so anticlimactic, no perseverance, if I were your girlfriend's parents, I wouldn't agree, think about it, if you leave, her family will look down on you even more, people don't agree, and they will hand over their daughters to you?"

Wen Guangyao was a little silent, Lao Li looked at him, and continued, "Of course, you have advantages, and a lot, you are affectionate, talented, kind, and capable, and you are also quite authoritative among young teachers, but there is one that can make you achieve nothing." ”

Wen Guangyao saw him praising himself, and was about to be modest, but Lao Li suddenly changed his tone again, and he was stunned for a moment, "Which one?"

"Proud!" Lao Li's eyes were like a reckoning, and then he said, "It may be that you are young, sometimes you find that you don't, your control is not enough, you can't hide your feelings, you respect the teacher you like from the bottom of your heart, and the teacher you don't look down on will bring out a perfunctory expression, everyone is not stupid, and everyone will see it after a long time, which makes some teachers and school leaders very disgusted." ”

Wen Guangyao was stunned for a moment, just thinking that Lao Li's words were not unreasonable, Lao Li then said, "This time you will be assigned to ponder by yourself, and you will figure it out." His tone and demeanor were very different from what they used to be.

Wen Guangyao was taken aback, "Did someone say bad things during the inspection? I didn't conflict with anyone." "This question is like a thorn in his heart these days, and it hurts him from time to time.

Lao Li picked up the fly swatter, swatted a fly that fell on the table with a "snap", and touched the fly on the side of the trash can, and the body of the fly rolled down into the bucket, "When something happens, we must first find the reason from ourselves." If I were a leader, this kind of person would not be recruited to the city-level organs, let your talent be greater than the sky. ”

He looked at Wen Guangyao, and then said, "In the school, a place where intellectuals gather, there is no wind and there are three feet of waves, and your every move will turn bad as soon as people with ulterior motives amplify it." ”

Wen Guangyao asked anxiously, "Did Principal Xu tell the inspection team?"

Lao Li hated iron and steel, he sighed, "I have no direct contact with Principal Xu, and I don't know him, but if it were me, I would be the principal, I would also say this, this is the responsibility of the first-level leader, and it is also responsible for the superiors, and you are responsible for it, you can't complain about anyone, you can only blame yourself." ”

Lao Li's words were a little ruthless, Wen Guangyao couldn't help but be a little silent, Lao Li drank his saliva, stopped talking, and let his heart collide fiercely.

After a pause, Lao Li continued to strike while the iron was hot, "No matter what you do in the future, where you go, there will always be a leader above you, you are the section chief, there is a division chief above, there is a department director above the director, there is a provincial governor above the department director, and there are people above the provincial governor, no one can do what he wants, he gets angry and confronts the leader, it is better to meet an open-minded leader, but how can there always be such a good thing?"

Wen Guangyao somewhat agreed with Lao Li's words, "Then what do you say I should do?"

Lao Li looked at him, "You have to learn to control your own feelings, you have to learn to respect the leader, if you are too angry, you will make wrong decisions, and it is easy for people to take advantage of them." There was a pained look on his face, but it was fleeting.

Wen Guangyao didn't notice Lao Li's feelings, "The shortcomings can be changed slowly, but I feel that I am not suitable for township cadres." ”

Lao Li took out a cigarette and handed it over, Wen Guangyao subconsciously took it, "China?"

Lao Li didn't explain, but took out a lighter and lit it for him, "Whether the shoes fit or not, you won't know until you wear them? How do you know that the township is not suitable for you? New shoes have to be worn for four or five days before they fit." ”

"The ten years after you officially set foot in the society from the day you walked out of college are the key to your life, and in these ten years, the sooner you can get rid of your shortcomings and adapt to society, the sooner you can succeed. At the township level, you can quickly grind off your edges and corners and smooth out your personality, and for you, it is not necessarily a bad thing to be in the township. ”

"If you can do your best to get rid of this kind of grievances and get rid of your shortcomings, you will be mature, otherwise, if you are not in the township and return to Liangang City, you will also be confused and wavering, and the confusion and swing of the first ten years will cause panic after ten years, a struggle after twenty years, and even a lifetime of mediocrity, so don't waste a minute or a second, and choose the right path to go on firmly." ”

At this time, Lao Li could no longer see the appearance of a conveyor master, but he seemed to be the head of the department who specialized in students' ideological work in college.

His words had a great psychological impact on Wen Guangyao, and when he walked back to the dormitory, he was still reminiscing about his words, "If you can't make up your mind yet, you can ask the person you trust the most, hehe, the person you admire the most, and listen to what he has to say." ”

Yes, why don't you call the head teacher Zhou Jianhua, Wen Guangyao is a little excited. In the four years of college, he not only served as Wen Guangyao's class teacher, but also served as a counselor in the department.

When Wen Guangyao was a sophomore, he was rated as an associate professor, and he was only 28 years old when he graduated, and on the eve of graduation, there was rumor that he might become the deputy head of the department.

And the head of the department, Guo Shaogui, wanted him to stay in school so much, but he came to Longcheng, he still felt a little shameless to face this old man who was also a teacher and a father.

He looked at his watch, the hour hand was already pointing to eleven o'clock, forget it, let's call again tomorrow morning.

He knows Zhou Jianhua's work and rest habits very well, and he must go to the playground to run in the morning, and he often tells Wen Guangyao, "Fitness is a quality." Fitness represents a thriving culture. Whether a country, a family, or a person is energetic or not, just look at how many people are fit and whether they are fit. ”

In the morning, Wen Guangyao also came to the playground, and after running a few laps with the students, he dialed Zhou Jianhua's phone.

Zhou Jianhua answered the phone out of breath, and he was still very happy listening to the voice.

Wen Guangyao briefly talked about his situation in the past two months, and poured out his depression, and Zhou Jianhua's breathing was even.

"Do you remember Liu Hongyun?"

"Remember," Wen Guangyao immediately replied, Liu Hongyun was two terms higher than him, and he was also in the student union of the department, and he had a good relationship with Wen Guangyao, but after graduation, he directly went to Tibet to teach.

"Last week Hongyun wrote to me, I also told me about your situation, she sent me Hada and rattle, from the photos in the letter, she has adapted to the environment in Tibet, living a good life, you know, I very much encourage you to go to the grassroots, to the difficult places to temper yourself. Zhou Jianhua's voice is like gold and stone, very textured.

"Although the township level is the grassroots, but in the eyes of those people in the national ministries and commissions, Longcheng City is also the grassroots, and even Hong Kong City is the grassroots, the general trend of the country is that all cadres need to have grassroots work experience in the future. ”

"Do you think I'm suitable for politics?" Wen Guangyao was still a little hesitant.

"Yes, the student union will come out, and the organization and coordination skills will definitely be fine. Zhou Jianhua replied affirmatively.

Hearing Zhou Jianhua say this, the doubts in Wen Guangyao's heart couldn't help but slowly disappear, "Teacher, what should I do at the grassroots level in the township?"

Zhou Jianhua said with a smile, "You are not an official staff member now, just a secondment teacher, and you must first solve the secondment status, whether it is to take the civil service examination or other channels." ”

"Second, you are already a staff member, the habits in the school cannot be brought to the society, you are no longer the president of the student union, you can't just command others, you have to lay down your body to do everything, you have to rush ahead of everything, you have to do it well, you have to take the first place, the first place is impressive, and the second place will not be remembered by too many people. ”

"Third, it is to go deep into the grassroots. Mr. Fei Xiaotong wrote at the beginning of "Rural China" that from the grassroots level, Chinese society is rural, you can deal with the people, you can deal with anyone, and the skills you learn at the grassroots level will benefit you for a lifetime, do you believe it or not?"

Wen Guangyao nodded hurriedly, "Believe, believe, I believe." ”

Zhou Jianhua continued, "There is a lyric in "Journey to the West" that sings well, dare to ask where the road is, the road is at your feet. Now, in Longcheng, it can be said that you have no relatives, you are a road in Huashan, and you must go on. The knife should be sharpened by stone, the steel should be pressed, and people should also be trained, hardships and hardships can best temper a person's will, and you have survived in the most difficult time, and no difficulties will crush you in the future. ”

Wen Guangyao seemed to be back on campus, as if he was under the poplar tree of the Normal School again, Zhou Jianhua was talking to him, his thinking had been completely swayed by him, and this kind of influence was from the bottom of his heart to recognize and admire the opinions of others.

"Although the road of life is long, there are often only a few steps in the critical place, especially when people are young, glorious, you see you, graduated from college and entered the school to teach, this time the selection and transfer into the agency, and started from the township, this is a critical place, even your first day of work yesterday, it is very important, you are walking well, adjust your mentality, every step of the critical place must be well grasped, your life will be very different......"

There will always be some words in a person's life, meet some people, they come suddenly, inadvertently move you, and then change your life, before you meet them, you live without understanding, such as traveling in the dark, once encountered, such as meeting the soulmate of the guide, life or a certain stage of life is living in these words.

When Zhou Jianhua hung up the phone, Wen Guangyao was still pondering his words, "When you are busy with work, you have to study, read more Chinese studies, and look at the party's theories. ”

These words are very similar to what Lao Li said, Lao Li also said, "You look at Wang Yangming's book, and then read "Mao Xuan", both are comprehensible, and you will be invincible......"