Affection 69: Women need to be excellent even more
When Yun Tilt was squatting, she liked to think of something else to divert her attention, so she thought that she remembered that her father actually had some opinions about Su Luo at first, and it was very unreasonable.
So, today's anger may be because she knew that she stayed with Su Luo for a day, Yun Tiantian suddenly found that her mind was a little messed up, if this is really the case, then what should she do?
If you want to cut off the connection with Su Luo because of this, and break off the friendship for half a month, everything that should have happened has never happened, haven't you met Su Luo, and haven't you encountered so many things?
She asked herself if she couldn't do it.
She couldn't have thought of it as if everything was back half a month ago. She didn't know the vicissitudes of the world, and then she believed that there would be many beautiful things in the outside world.
Or I believe that there will be a kindness in people's hearts. Only now, she had to ask herself, would she still think so?
The answer is yes, yes, but she seems to understand that the truth and goodness in people's hearts are not open to everyone.
Yun Tiantian found that some of the experiences of these days had made her lose all the silence she had before, and her heart began to become a mess, as if she had been loaded with too much, but she obviously didn't make any name for it.
So, for his own cognition, Yun Tiantian couldn't help but sigh again.
So, what is she busy with? As the days go by, when you think about it, you really wake up and think about what she did.
In the second half of the night, Yun Tiantian gradually found that he was not a little sleepy, and he was hesitating whether to continue to walk.
In fact, she knew that most of what her father said was just angry words.
And at this moment, there was a 'squeak', breaking all the silence.
Yun tilted his eyes, and saw his mother pushing the door and walking out, and then glanced at her, and seemed to shake his head helplessly.
"You've been standing here all night. Madame Yun regained the deepest gentle smile and peaceful demeanor in Yun Tiantian's memory.
Yun Tian pursed his lips when he heard this, and then whispered: "Lest you count me down again in the end." β
"You're still as angry as a child. Mrs. Yun looked at Yun Tilt, and her eyes softened, because there were many shadows of her past on Yun Tilt's body.
Yun Tilt disagreed, and said: "A few days ago, you and Daddy clearly said that Tilt has grown up. β
She said not to grow up at first, but later, she found that she didn't want to admit that she hadn't grown up yet.
Yun Tiantian suddenly thought like this, so he sighed at the rapid change in his mood.
"It's grown up. "I started to be curious about everything out there and desperate to know more. Mrs. Yun said to Yun, "Otherwise, I wouldn't have gone to the Charming Building, would I?"
Sure enough, knowing that she went to the Charming Building, Yun Tian's heart tightened, so why did her mother come so late at night?
"I ......" Yun Tiantian didn't know what kind of answer was the most appropriate, she could only bow her head slightly, and then whispered: "Not next time." β
Mrs. Yun said the same as Su Luo's usual reply, and then asked, "Tell my mother, why do you want to go to the Charming Building?"
"I ......" Yun Tiantian hesitated, she didn't know where to start, how to say it, so that her mother could understand her mentality. Because she found that the more she grew up and the more she had her own ideas, the more she would conflict with other people's opinions.
It's like she will find that she and Su Luo usually look at things from different angles.
Mrs. Yun looked at it and really planned to investigate it to the end, so she asked, "Is it because your father has been worried about the affairs of Liuyue Pavilion recently?"
Listening to her mother's answer, Yun poured out and said, "Neither." β
As a result, Mrs. Yun became more and more incomprehensible to her daughter's thoughts, just like her mother-in-law always did not understand her thoughts when she faced her.
"What's that?" Lady Yun stopped guessing and chose to listen to Yun Tian.
"Because I had some unpleasant experiences last time I was dragged to the Charming Building, I sometimes wake up at night and suddenly have a ...... After being afraid. The clouds poured. This is her real reason, the most essential reason.
Mrs. Yun was a little stunned, seeing that her daughter was still smiling every day after these days, she once thought that it might be just a special experience for Tilt, but now it seems that she did not have an in-depth understanding, but made her daughter panic every day.
It was she who ignored the psychological side of her daughter.
"What about now?" Mrs. Yun's heart raised slightly, she didn't want to have a psychological shadow because of her temporary inaction, and her life in the future was still long, and she had a nightmare all the time, how could she do it?
Yun Tilt gave a vague sigh of gratitude, and then said, "I don't know, but I feel that I should face them and defeat them, so I went to the Charm Building." She wanted to take a closer look at it, and then be able to tell herself that it wasn't that scary.
"You're right. Mrs. Yun appreciated her daughter's idea, and under her careful teaching, Yun Tiantian had an independent mind, which made her very happy. She used to be young and frivolous, and even now, she still doesn't think that women are destined to do anything.
"Now, my good daughter, go get some sleep and see if you'll have nightmares tomorrow morning. Mrs. Yun said with a smile, but the ultimate goal was to persuade Yun to go back to sleep.
She had a little stiffness with her husband tonight, and her heart couldn't be calm, and it was difficult to fall asleep after tossing and turning, and in the second half of the night, she suddenly remembered that her daughter's temperament might be stubborn and walk in the yard all night.
"I don't want to sleep yet, I can't sleep now. Yun said, "I like to chat with my mother, why don't we say something." β
"I think you can talk to anyone. "Mrs. Yun is helpless, when she was young, Yun Tiantian was extremely precocious, and she was not like other children who were arguing with her mother to tell stories or coax her to sleep every day, but when she grew up, she had to pull her mother to stay up all night to discuss.
Just thinking about it, Mrs. Yun also wants to understand Yun Tiantian's concept, whether children are good or bad is the work of their parents, and no parent hopes that their works could have been flawless but stained.
The imperial city is mixed, and it will inevitably bring some negative feelings to people, so that there are some prejudices against the world.
Yun Tiantian sighed, and did not deny Mrs. Yun's words, when she wanted to speak, she had to speak at that time before she was willing, she said: "Mother's views on women always seem to be different from others. β
"How?" asked Madame Yun, her way of education was indeed different, but she believed, at least it was all positive.
"Although my mother will tell me about the three obedience, four virtues and many rules, she will not give her daughter a ...... like other people's parents" Yun tilted his head and thought, "My daughter's family was born to spill out water, so there is no need to pay attention to it." β
After Mrs. Yun heard this, her willow eyebrows frowned slightly, she didn't actually notice so much, she just taught according to what she thought was right, so she said, "Other people's opinions are not my opinions." If a woman doesn't think more and more about making herself better, she will only die in the end and no one will bury your bones. β
"Huh?" Yun Tingtian felt that his mother's opinion was a bit exaggerated.
Mrs. Yun patted her head, and also felt that what she said was a little too much, so she said: "Actually, you can think that maybe even if you are not good, someone will like you, because everyone has their own good." But on the other hand, it's actually very passive, and if you're good, then someone will appreciate you. β
"Just like if your father didn't appreciate me at the beginning, I wasn't good, and I didn't plant a deep shadow in his heart, now you may have a bunch of aunts and brothers and sisters like the children of other people. β
Yun Tiantian felt that it made sense, what woman didn't fantasize about having a couple in her life, but how many of them really did it?
Yun Tian said: "I understand, but there are also many excellent women, but in the end they failed to find their own good home. β
If there are many people who appreciate you one day, then you need to think about which of these people you also appreciate. Mrs. Yun said.
Hearing this, Yun Tian was inexplicably puzzled, and paused for a while to ask, "That...... Is it okay for men and women to just appreciate each other? to become partners, not to say that they want to love each other, and so on. β
Mrs. Yun hesitated, she didn't know whether to tell Yun Tiantian about this, and felt that Yun Tiantian should know this, so she said: "That's not it, mutual appreciation does not necessarily lead to love, but if two people become husband and wife, but they can't see each other's good, then they can only dislike each other and quarrel for a lifetime." If you want to say the so-called love ......"
"You haven't experienced much, and you probably won't really understand these things, but you have to know that time is the best way to test feelings. β
Yun Tiantian nodded, silently writing down what his mother said tonight.
"Alright, let's go to bed. Mrs. Yun disturbed like this, forgetting all the business, afraid that Yun Tiantian would not be happy, and added: "You have to get up early tomorrow." β
"Wake up early? Why. "Going to the porridge and going to the pharmacy depends on her mind, and there doesn't seem to be anything certain that she needs to get up early.
Mrs. Yun remembered that she hadn't had time to say anything, so she said, "Your master has been coming to the Imperial City for a few days, and I have decided to let you stay with her for a few days." β
"Is it because of today's events?"
"Not exactly, your master also hopes so. β
Yun tilted and sighed, even if he knew, suddenly the appearance of the master appeared in front of him, and he liked to wear white clothes like Su Luo, but what she wore was indeed a different temperament.
It was a lonely and arrogant woman who could squint at all beings with cold eyes.
is a different legend from her mother, except that she never let her call her master, only let her call her teacher.
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