Chapter 872: This Generation
The planet chief finally nodded helplessly and said, "Okay." Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info Okay. Everything is up to you. ”
After speaking, he finally stopped arguing, explained the details of the use of privileges to Shoubo, and said, "Then can I cut off contact now?"
"That's it. Planet Grower, I've made a note of how to tell your subordinates about this. "That Shou Bo said.
The planet said, "Okay. Then I cut off contact. But before I do that, I want to ask again. Is it true that we have only one remote phone call between us? In the next time, I want to use the private matter of our children's marriage as an excuse, and I can't contact you?"
"Of course not. If it does, I won't be me, but you. Anyway, in a month's time, we will meet, wouldn't it be better to discuss marriage at that time? I will explain everything clearly this time, and bring my son by the way. You should also bring your daughter with you.
Just enough for the two of them to meet. Your daughter lives with you on Destiny, but I guess you should live in a different place. When the time comes, wouldn't it be better for you to take her out and we meet together than to talk remotely?"
The planet said, "Of course it's the best. It's just that I think since the two of them are going to get married, why can't they get in touch through remote communication first? I think in this way, they can get to know each other in advance.
Even if you can't see each other's faces, you can always listen to each other's voices first. Of course, it's easier to understand the heart because you can't see the face, isn't it? We can let the two of them talk about the heart first. ”
"No, I can't. The two of them should never be allowed to come into contact in advance. Have you forgotten the agreement between the two of us? We have to do this secretly, and persuade them in advance that we should not let them contact unless they are married on the day of their wedding. "That Shou Bo said.
"Why?" said the planet, "I don't understand the reason for this. Now is not the past era of earth civilization, and before marriage, the two parties are absolutely not allowed to meet. We are all Federation people, I don't know how many years have passed compared to the period of civilization on Earth, how can we still abide by such old rules? This kind of rule has long been eliminated, isn't it?" There was a puzzled look on his face.
"You're completely wrong. Planet grown-up, this is not an old rule. It's just our plan. Don't you understand the plan? We have already made the most perfect plan, and now you have changed your mind halfway, and you want them to contact them in advance, what if something happens?"
The planet chief swore solemnly, "Nothing will happen." Commissioner Officer, don't you have confidence in your own abilities? Probably not? Since you don't have self-confidence, if we work hard, we will definitely be able to accomplish it. It's just that it might be slower than you think.
Of course, if you are lucky, it will even go smoother and faster than you imagined, which is also possible. How could there be any contingencies?"
Na Shoubo said: "The planet grows up." Do you know why you can't give them early access? Because people are fickle. How can you be sure that the two of them must have similar interests, what if they have completely different interests?
Then we won't be able to talk about it. Since they can't talk together, and you barely let them talk, guess what the result will be? There is only one result. Both parties will get bored, and once they get bored, continuing to contact will not only not make the relationship closer, but will only make both parties hate each other.
Since both sides hate each other, when the time comes, do you think that such a marriage can last long? Surely it won't last long? Since they can't last long, why insist on letting them get married? Isn't that right? Doesn't that hurt them?"
The planet chief said, "Commissioner, then we can help with this." We are not dead. Even if the first thing we feel bad about the conversation is, we can wait until they cut off contact and then say nice things for them. Or, we can communicate between the two people in advance.
Just like it is now. As long as the two of us communicate first, then when our son and daughter get in touch, we can avoid a lot of trouble? We can tell each other about each other's preferences in advance, and then the conversation will go a lot smoother, right?"
"It doesn't work either. Planet grown-up, you're still too optimistic. I don't know what your daughter looks like, and I don't know what her personality is. However, I know my son's character best. He's the kind of person who once he has a feeling of dislike for the other person, it's hard to fix it.
In other words, once he starts to hate your daughter, no matter how much good things I say about your daughter in front of him, he won't listen to it. Do you think he would marry your daughter in that case? But the result will certainly not be good.
Because, there is a good chance that he will be perfunctory. He just perfunctory me. What worries me the most is that he is perfunctory to your daughter. For example, when your daughter needs to be accompanied, he sleeps outside or with me under the pretext that he has to work overtime. Another example is when your daughter wants to go somewhere, and he excuses himself that he is not feeling well and will not go.
If such a day only happens in the short term, it is nothing, after all, people will always have this or that thing and illness. Because, we can't live a lifetime without getting sick, and we can't live without a little bit of something in our life, right?
However, it is precisely because of this that this situation cannot last long. If my son is so perfunctory to your daughter for a long time, do you think your daughter can bear it? I don't know if she can bear it, because, after all, the day has not yet come, and they are not married. But I can at least imagine that if it were me, I would never be able to stand it.
Therefore, I also believe that your daughter will definitely not be able to bear it. The result of this is that the two parties will definitely quarrel about this matter, and as long as they quarrel, then their relationship between husband and wife will be completely broken. Although it was not strong at the beginning, it is precisely because it is not strong that it needs more care. However, now that it can't be cared for, but is broken, don't you feel very sad?"
The planet said, "What's this? I don't care. I only care if my daughter can marry your son, as for whether they quarrel or not, and whether they divorce in the end, it has nothing to do with me. I told you. I am a person who is divided between public and private. Therefore, I am also a person who prioritizes and prioritizes.
I am more of a person with a clear sense of superiority and superiority. I am their elder, as long as they get married, then I will never interfere in the affairs between them. As for you, Commissioner, I would suggest that you do not interfere. Because, if you don't interfere, my daughter and your son may have a good time together.
Even if the two of them quarrel upside down, they shouldn't get divorced. Because, as the old saying goes, isn't it? Husband and wife quarrel, bedside quarrel, bedside and bedside close. If they don't get involved, then their quarrel is just a matter between the two of them, or rather, just some small things in life.
Since it's just a small thing, you can turn a big thing into a small thing. Even if they don't get used to doing it at first, and they don't want to do it so much, they will definitely understand that this is the best thing to do after a long time. And they quickly like it.
Then in the end, the relationship between husband and wife will definitely be good. But if the two of us were involved, it would be a completely different story. I think you know this better than I do. Even if it's not clear, that's okay, I can explain it now. You should know what will happen if you and I intervene in a husband and wife quarrel.
I shouldn't explain this, you will understand, because you should have experienced it, like our generation, when we got married, we must have never been interfered with by our parents. You and I are both fathers of children, and if we don't interfere, it will be equivalent to two people arguing on the street, and at most it will be fine after the quarrel.
But if I connect with you, it means that the quarrel between the two people has become a quarrel with onlookers. If there are people watching, the two sides of the quarrel will definitely become very stubborn. For example, in a fight, the husband and wife have already forgiven each other in their hearts, or in other words, one party originally planned to compromise and admitted their mistakes.
But because of the presence of their parents, they will feel that if they compromise first, they will become faceless, and then they will have no face at home, and this matter will be remembered by the family for the rest of their lives, which is equivalent to not being able to raise their heads for the rest of their lives. Neither men nor women can accept such days.
Therefore, with the presence of parents, it is impossible for the husband and wife to reconcile easily, and everyone will show a strong side in front of their parents. This situation is like two stones. If one of the stones is softer, the two stones can easily come together and do not affect each other.
Because, in the first place, one stone is hard, and the other stone is soft. When a hard stone hits a soft stone, the hard stone will have a lot of face, because it will squeeze the soft stone out of shape. Even if his parents come to watch, then no one can see that he is stronger, he has the upper hand, and he has won.
And the soft stone does not suffer. The reason is that the stone is originally soft, which means that the stone is willing to be soft, it stays with the hard stone, although it seems that it has suffered a loss, but only it understands in its heart that it likes the most is this state, making others strong and making itself weak.
Because, in this way, you can better protect yourself, and in this way, you can also make yourself very comfortable. In this case, both sides are comfortable, will they continue to quarrel? The result is obvious, the two sides will definitely reconcile. However, this is all based on the fact that both parents cannot interfere.
Once both parents intervene, it is not a hard stone and a soft stone that collide, but two hard stones. You don't have to guess what it would be. It will definitely be a lose-lose situation, and both sides will be left with rifts that cannot be healed. Therefore, I would advise either of us not to meddle at all. In this case, all the previous worries can be resolved, right?"
Na Shou Bo said: "Even if this is the case, I don't accept it." For I know better than you what my son is. He's not the kind of person who turns into a soft stone, he's just a hard stone. As for your daughter, it's certainly not a soft stone. Because, she is a princess. How could a princess be a soft stone?
Therefore, the two of them are originally two hard stones, and if they want to get married, only if we don't say anything in advance and don't let them touch it, can we give them a chance to get married. And as long as they're married, then we can meddle in their affairs.
If their marriage wants to survive, it is absolutely impossible for us not to interfere. Because, as you said, this is no different from a stone, if they quarrel like this, we will only see them lose at that time. Do you want this to be the result? Surely not? In that case, you should still listen to me. ”
"Then what if I listen to you, and my daughter asks to hear the voice of her future husband? I must have a reasonable excuse to shirk it? Could it be that I just say, "Your father-in-law doesn't want you to listen?" More importantly, even if I say it, will she believe it?
She's not going to believe it. My daughter I know best. She will definitely say that since you are all going to arrange for us to get married. What is wrong with chatting? What will I say when the time comes? Could it be that I told her that your future husband can't talk to you, not because he doesn't want to, it's not that his father doesn't agree, but because he can't talk to you.
Because, is he a mute? How do you think she'd react if I told a lie like that? Wouldn't she be surprised? She would. But if it's just surprise, that's it. I don't think any woman would be surprised to know about this kind of thing. The point is, she will definitely oppose this marriage.
Do you know why? The reason is simple. If she really agreed, what do you think the people of Destiny Star will think if they know the truth? The dignified princess of Destiny Star actually married a mute wife. Isn't that the biggest joke in the whole of Destiny? Do you think my daughter can accept this kind of reporting?
Actually, don't say that she can't accept it. I don't think your son can stand it either. Wouldn't it be very painful and aggrieved to pretend to be a normal person, but to pretend to be dumb? Of course, the most terrible problem is to be recognized. "The planet is long. (To be continued.) )