Chapter 78: Back to my parents' house
In the second year of junior high school, you don't have to have as many taboos as in the first year of junior high school, but you also have to get up early, and of course try to avoid quarrels.
Those who celebrate the New Year must be in harmony.
On the second day of junior high school, in customs, this day is the day when the married daughter returns to visit relatives.
In the three years of marriage, I have to go back every year, and my mother's family has to send my brothers and sisters to pick up my in-laws' house in person.
After returning for three years, you don't have to pick it up, and it depends on your own will to go back to the door or something.
In a word, love can't go back, don't pull back, don't force it.
However, as a parent, I still hope that my children will come back every year and the family will be reunited.
Those who marry far away do not have the opportunity to return home several times throughout the year, and sometimes not even once.
It is said that the water spilled by the married daughter is difficult to take back!
"Mom, are you going back to your grandmother's house?" As soon as she got up, Li Ruoying went to her mother to discuss this issue.
Her mother is married closely, and she can go back if she has anything to do on weekdays.
"I don't know, ask your dad to go, and he will let him go back. "Zhang Ailin doesn't particularly want to go back.
After this person reaches a certain age, he takes care of his own home, and he doesn't have much time to run to his mother's house.
In addition, the brothers and sisters are married, and sometimes it is inconvenient to run, which is why the older you grow, the more lonely you become.
When I grow up, not only my responsibilities are greater, but my heart is also determined, and many things have changed my taste.
"Dad, do you want to go back?" Li Ruoying wants to go back, she is wandering outside on weekdays, this is not easy, there is time for the New Year, she wants to go back to see her grandmother and grandfather.
When she was a child, her grandparents treated her well, and as for her grandparents, it was not too late to go to see her in two days.
"Do you want to go back?" the daughter is so positive, I'm afraid she wants to go back.
"Well, I haven't seen them in months. Although Li Ruoying has grown up, she still remembers who was good to her when she was a child.
She wanted to do her filial piety while they were still there, so that she would not leave any regrets.
After all, when people are old, who knows when they won't be able to, she doesn't want to encounter that kind of situation where she wants to raise her but can't wait for her relatives.
"Then let's go, but wait until after lunch, your aunt and they say they will come back." ”
"Okay then!" Li Ruoying said that there was no problem, just go back anyway, not today, but tomorrow.
Anyway, just before she goes to work.
Not long after breakfast, Li Ruoying's three aunts and six mothers-in-law really came back, because they needed to pass through her house to go to their grandparents' house, so they rested at home.
"I haven't been back for a year, the house has been renovated, the furniture is all new, I have invested a lot of money, it seems that Xiaoying has made a lot of money outside in the past two years!"
A few relatives visited the circle and judged it.
"It's not much, but also borrowed some, this is not decorated and not good, are leaking rain, if there is a rainstorm, I am worried that it will fall. ”
Although Li Ming's statement is exaggerated, it also gives a reasonable reason.
"yes, this is done, I don't have to start construction for several years, and it doesn't matter if I have almost any money. ”
Li Ruoying's aunt spoke.
"Well, that's right. Li Ming took it and took it, there was nothing left to build a house, he didn't plan to say it.
"Godmother, are we going to grandpa's house?" When the three aunts and six mothers-in-law came in, Li Qiuyuan was not there, he came back from the toilet and found that there were many more people in the house.
"Go, go later, I'll introduce you, these are grandparents. Li Ruoying pointed to a circle of people in the courtyard and motioned for him to call people.
"Xiaoying, is this, your child?" the relatives on the side looked at her in disbelief, as if they were watching a joke.
I've never heard of rumors, why did I have such a big child, could it be that I had children before marriage?
By the way, this must be the case, looking at the age of the child, he is already five or six years old, according to this situation, then Li Ruoying will not have a child at the age of fifteen or sixteen.
It's so hidden, it's so ruined.
For a while, Li Ruoying was questioned in various ways, and a group of relatives looked at her differently.
"Didn't you hear the child's shout, my godmother, this is the child I adopted with a few friends, put away your dirty eyes. ”
Li Ruoying opened her mouth a little angrily, what kind of relatives are these, she didn't miss the same look in the eyes of several people just now as the people who ate melons.
For the sake of your reputation, it's really not good to explain it.
"That's it, hehe, our Xiaoying is really kind, but your family background, is it really okay to adopt a child?"
In everyone's impression, Li Ruoying's family is relatively difficult, as we all know, she has spent a lot of money for her to go to school over the years.
Later, her parents had a car accident and spent tens of thousands, how could this year, all of a sudden, the money to build a house is also available, and there is spare money to raise a child.
"No, it's not for you to raise, I just like it. After Li Ruoying finished speaking, she picked up the child and walked away, whether it was good or malice, she didn't bother to listen.
"This kid, what's so hot-tempered, my aunt is just worried about you. The person who had just spoken opened his mouth to explain, not knowing whether it was true or false.
"This baby is spoiled by us on weekdays, sister, don't mind, in fact, she is still very good-hearted, but her tone is a little rushed. ”
Li Ming helped his daughter play the round.
"It's okay, it's okay, how can I worry about the child, okay, it's not too early, we have to go back to where our parents are, you guys go together, I don't see a few noodles all year round, and it's good to have a reunion dinner." ”
Don't care, don't care, but this is unpleasant, I feel uncomfortable staying here, let's go!
"Tomorrow, today I promised Xiaoying to go to her grandmother's house with her. "Having said all that, there is naturally no reason to do the opposite.
"That's it, let's go back first. ”
Carrying large bags of gifts, a group of people left Li Ruo's house again and went straight to their destination.
"Let's clean up and let's go!" Li Ruoying's house and her grandmother's house were only more than ten minutes apart, and she was not in a hurry.
"It's okay to go, but the problem is that there are no gifts!" Before leaving, Li Ruoying realized that she had forgotten to prepare a gift.
"It's okay, your grandparents won't mind. "There's no way to do it, just go like that.
"That's it, I'll just send more red envelopes when the time comes. "If you want to buy it for the Chinese New Year, you can't buy it, so let's go straight to something practical.
"Let's go!" because the distance was not far, the family chose to walk.
By the time she arrived, several other sisters had already arrived, and there were many brothers and sisters in her parents' generation.
"Grandparents and grandparents, I didn't bring a gift, you won't blame me!" Li Ruoying ran over and coquettishly as soon as possible.
"You girl, it's good to come, what kind of gifts do you bring, your grandparents don't lack that bite to eat. ”
Her grandmother lovingly pulled her to sit down, when she was a child, this girl ran to her house every three or five years, and when she grew up, she didn't see a few shadows a year.