Shen Yan refused without thinking about it, "Mom, I was just curious for a while, and now I'm not interested in that matter." ”

Thinking of Ding Xinhui's sad appearance in the afternoon, she didn't dare to inquire about it again.

Anyway, even if she didn't know about it, she had nothing to lose, so why bother to know.

However, Ding Xinhui shook her head, "Yanyan, it's okay, blame me for being too excited in the afternoon, so I made you worried." ”

Then, she said, "That pair of grandparents are also in Changqing and live in Qingya Villa, according to the real generation, you should call them aunts and grandparents......"

Two old people live in Qingya Garden?

Shen Yan was secretly frightened.

She especially knows that Qingya Garden is the most upscale villa area in Changqing.

The reason why it is high-end is not only because of the good quality of the house and the good environment, but also because the house here is not something that can be bought with money.

Only a particularly distinguished status can live there.

Qingya Garden is a special existence in Changqing City.

It can be seen that this Aunt Lu's grandfather has a very high status, otherwise he would not be able to live in it.

Since Ding Xinhui took the initiative to speak, Shen Yan asked, "Mom, does this aunt have any relationship with our Shen family?"

Ding Xinhui stroked her soft black hair and said softly, "Grandma is your grandfather's sister, the sister-in-law of the same father and mother." ”

This answer really surprised Shen Yan, "Isn't that my father's aunt, no wonder I want to call my aunt."

I thought that my grandfather and father had no other relatives in their two generations, but I didn't expect that there was also an aunt and grandmother. ”

Dad's aunt, this relationship should be very close, and the Shen family doesn't have many relatives, why don't the two families move around?

Since the contact is not close, why did the second elder send her a refrigerator again?

There were more and more doubts in Shen Yan's heart.

But she didn't ask, she wanted to hear what Ding Xinhui had to say first.

Ding Xinhui replied, "Yanyan, you should also know that our Shen family is thin and has been passed down from generation to generation.

But our single biography refers to the fact that there is only one son in each generation, not no daughters.

Of course, there are very few daughters.

Otherwise, the Shen family would not be thin.

When it comes to your grandfather's generation, there is an aunt and grandmother Shen Yulin, who married her aunt and grandfather surnamed Lu, and is an old revolutionary chief with outstanding military achievements.

Your aunt and grandfather have two sons and a daughter, and your cousins and aunts have at least two children, both of whom have both children and can be prosperous. ”

Speaking of this, Ding Xinhui couldn't help but pale, "Yanyan, count it up, I'm really sorry for the ancestors of the Shen family, I couldn't give birth to a boy for the Shen family and inherit the incense of the Shen family."

It took me a lot of effort to conceive you, but after giving birth to you, I couldn't conceive at all.

And then your dad left us......"

If you think about it carefully, her aunt and grandmother are reluctant to see her, maybe not only because she married someone else, but also because she couldn't let the Shen family's incense continue.

Ding Xinhui let out a long sigh, unable to express the guilt and sadness in her heart.

Shen Yan hugged Ding Xinhui's arm tightly and said softly, "Mom, having children and daughters is not something you can control, and I can't complain about you."

I believe that if Dad is alive, he will definitely not complain about you, so don't add pressure to yourself.

Besides, now that family planning is implemented, people in the city can only have one child, and there must be many people who can't have a boy.

Taking a step back, if real people give birth to boys and not girls, then we humans will soon be wiped out.

In the final analysis, women are indispensable for the reproduction of life.

In my opinion, whether it is a son or a daughter, it is the continuation of the life of the parents and the inheritance of incense.

Therefore, Mom, you don't need to blame yourself, let alone think that you are sorry for the ancestors of the Shen family. ”

Shen Yan's words of consolation made Ding Xinhui a little misunderstood.

She thought that she had broken Shen Yan's heart by mentioning her son.

Thinking of this, Ding Xinhui hurriedly explained, "Yanyan, I just said this casually, don't take it to heart."

In my mother's heart, you are the most precious treasure in the world, more important than my life. ”

Shen Yan smiled and waved her hand, "Mom, I'm not so stingy, I'm trying to persuade you, but I'm not jealous." ”

Ding Xinhui felt even more guilty, "Yanyan is sorry, it's my mother who is too narrow-minded and thinks you are biased." ”

"Mom, we're the closest mother and daughter, so we don't have to say we're sorry. Shen Yan leaned her head on Ding Xinhui's arms and coquettishly.

Then she changed the topic and said, "By the way, Mom, we have such a close relationship with my aunt and grandmother, why haven't we heard you mention it before?"

"Alas!" Ding Xinhui sighed again.

She smiled helplessly and explained, "Yanyan, it's not that my mother deliberately kept it from you, it's because my aunt and grandmother annoyed me and didn't allow me to come to the door." ”

"Why?" Shen Yan asked involuntarily.

Why is my aunt so cruel to my only niece and daughter-in-law?

There must be something in it that is not well known.

Since her aunt took the initiative to buy her a wedding gift, it shows that her old man is not completely unkind.

Otherwise, for her niece and granddaughter, whom she has never met, her aunt and grandmother don't care about it at all.

So, she is now desperate to know the reason, to see if she can ease the relationship between her mother and her aunt.

Ding Xinhui still had a bitter face, "I don't blame my aunt and grandmother, I blame my mother for embarrassing them."

When your father's bones were not cold, I threw you in the remote countryside, and then married Ge Hongjian, who was in the limelight.

Upon hearing the news, my aunt and grandmother immediately approached me.

She didn't want to stop me from getting married, she just hoped that I could slow down, not to mention keeping filial piety for your father for three years, but at least one year.

In this way, it can be regarded as worthy of your father's deep affection for me.

Yanyan, you also know what happened back then, let alone wait for a year, that bastard Ge Hongjian won't let me wait for a day.

I could only harden my heart, refuse my aunt's request, and marry Ge Hongjian the next day.

This incident completely chilled the hearts of my aunt and grandfather.

So, the second elder gave a death order, from now on I was not allowed to enter the door of the house again, and I was not allowed to mention their relationship with me to others.

Yanyan, you know, listening to the words of the second elder, my heart was like a knife, but I couldn't say anything, I could only look at their sad, disappointed and desperate faces and cry.

Since I got married to your father, the second elder has treated me like his own daughter, only for good food and drink, and I will never be missing my share.

Unfortunately, in the end, not only did I fail to repay the favor, but I was the one who made them the saddest. ”

Referring to the past events of the year, Ding Xinhui had mixed feelings in her heart, and her mood was complicated and indescribable.

Just because the second elder used to be kind to her, even if they hated her and didn't want to see her, as long as she got some local products from the countryside, they would send them over as soon as possible.

Because she knew that the second elder was not very accustomed to the food in the city, and he had a soft spot for all kinds of local products grown in the countryside.

Of course, she never dared to enter the gate of Qingya Villa, and it was all passed by Aru's hand.

At the beginning, when she sent something over, the second elder directly asked Ah Ru to throw it away, and even Ah Ru didn't let her see it.

As time went by, the second elder's attitude gradually eased, and only then did he agree to see her, so he didn't throw away the things she brought.

In this way, the relationship between her and the second elder has been so awkward to this day.

Shen Yan's dark eyes turned slightly, and she asked again, "Mom, my aunt and grandfather have such a noble status, why didn't you ask him for help when you were bullied by Ge Hongjian?"