It is true that Western women are better than East Asian race, but the fertility rate of Eastern women is much higher than that of Western women, and it is still under the original conditions of very backward nutrition and medical conditions, and most women at that time did not have the custom of confinement.

The real popularity of confinement is a gradual aggravation with the process of reform and opening up, and to be precise, a side effect of family planning. Everyone can only have one child, which invisibly makes the mother and the family pay special attention, and do everything possible to make this child born superhuman. Since she became pregnant, the mother has become a giant panda, eating and resting with her life, and raising a body of meat. As a result, after giving birth to a child, the child should be what it should look like, and the mother became a big fat person.

You said that when a husband sees that his originally slender and lovely wife has become a big fat man, what does he feel in his heart? The relationship between men and women is one thing, but this relationship needs to be constantly maintained and repaired, not that after two people have a relationship, it will remain unchanged for the rest of their lives. Your appearance, posture, habits, feelings, and life status will all affect your feelings. Who wants to see a daughter-in-law and husband who has been sloppy and sloppy all day long since they had children?

There are also many women who feel that with children, even if the tasks of this generation are completed, what husband, career, and life are all thrown away, and they live a life of dedication to their children. Mother's love should be praised, but there must be a degree, everyone, including the mother is an independent person, her responsibility is not only to raise the child healthily, but also to set an example, with their own practical actions to educate the child to be what kind of person to be in the future. This kind of education is more important than going to eight postdocs, which is to fundamentally shape the child's personality.

The example of parents is irreplaceable by other forms of education. You are a person who does not love life all day long, so can a child love life? Here we have to talk about the direction of the government's public opinion guidance, which has not fulfilled its obligations and responsibilities in this regard. In order to give certain institutions the opportunity to make money, coupled with lazy government, they are allowed to use all kinds of advertisements to promote unproven fertility methods. Subtly, childbirth and education have become a tool for harvesting people's money.

As a result, the children born in five-star hotels are not necessarily healthier than those born to pregnant women in remote rural areas who lack food and drink, and most of them are not as healthy as others. But public opinion doesn't care about these, and still advocates all kinds of confinement rooms and confinement women, as if only Chinese women are special in the world, which is the standard foolishness. When everyone is focused on going to school, going on to higher education, finding a job, getting married, having children, having a house, and providing for the elderly, there is no time to think about it anymore. No one thinks. Some things can be hidden.

"You said it lightly, and it wasn't you!" Han Xue felt that Hong Tao didn't have a backache when he stood and spoke.

"There are many things that you don't have to do to understand, and Marx and Engels have never seen what they wrote, and they are not still regarded as the truth by later generations? As long as you can still walk, you can work for me! I keep an eye on you every day, and if you do a little less, I will punish you!" Hong Tao said as he used some strength in his hand to pinch Han Xue's chest.

"I can't say anything about you, the second master is right, you are a-stirring stick, the best way to deal with you is to ignore you. Shame on you!" Han Xue knew that she couldn't say anything about Hong Tao, so she simply didn't say anything, and pulled Hong Tao's arm as a pillow. Pretend to sleep.

"If you don't care, don't care, I'll play by myself......" Hong Tao looked at Han Xue's still trembling eyelashes, the bad water came again, and rubbed Han Xue with his lower body.

"No...... My waist is sore...... Let me ask you something: What are you going to do with your sons and daughters in the future? Do you treat them all equally, or do you have relatives and close relatives? Otherwise, you will wait to quarrel in the future! Don't look at them all obeying you now, once you become a mother. All of them have become hungry wolves, and your possessions are their meat. I have to fight hard to get more for my children. Han Xue didn't dare to pretend to sleep anymore, Hong Tao was not only physically stronger than the previous two years, but also more and more proficient in technology. Originally, Han Xue was not his opponent, and now he is even less so. In order to avoid being ravaged by Hong Tao again, she remembered a question that Hong Tao had to think about.

"Grab the family property?hahahaha...... You underestimate me too much, what else do you have relatives and closeness, no one should worry about my family property, even if you have children in the future. Regardless of whether I live or die, my children can only receive a certain amount of living expenses on a monthly basis, and there is a scholarship after school, and when they reach the age of eighteen, they will not be given a penny. I will get them a start-up fund, who has a project can apply for an interest-free loan from the fund, the amount is capped, the number of times is also limited, after the application is completed, it will be gone, what do you like to do, it has nothing to do with me. Hong Tao has thought about this problem for a long time, he doesn't plan to leave any inheritance to his children, instead of letting his children go to court to argue who should share how much, it is better not to give anyone, the necessary help can be provided, but it is just to help you start a business, and there is no superfluity.

Then you have to say that you don't have the ability, you can't do business, and you can do it, go to work honestly. You can apply for a loan when you get married or have children, and there is also a limit on the amount and number of times, and it will be gone when you run out. If you want to live by Lao Tzu, don't even think about it, Hong Tao has hated people who still eat their parents after the age of 18 since the beginning of his last life. Since the first year of college, he has been working in his uncle's construction company, and he does not sit in the office to learn to drive, and drives a large truck that pulls muck around the city, and eats with the workers.

He used this salary to pay for his living expenses and daily expenses, and he also earned his own tuition fees for studying tuning. And this period of time is very helpful for his future development, when his classmates are still dreaming of that paradise in school, he has already tasted the cruelty of society. Mixing with those migrant workers every day, even if you don't have to endure hardships like them, their attitude to life and way of dealing with the world can be used for reference. Society is a big classroom, you can not learn things in school, but the courses in the social classroom, you have to learn sooner or later, and no one can escape it.

At that time, his parents did not support him, so he did not go home much for several years, and did not talk to his parents when he came home, and the cold war lasted until he got married. But he only regrets that he shouldn't have fought with his parents in the first place, and he doesn't regret his choice. Because since he went to college, he has not asked his parents for a penny, including getting married and buying a house. He endured it when he didn't have money, and when he was looking for a girlfriend, he also told the other party that in addition to having a job, he had nothing left, and he had to rely on the two of them to earn it by themselves. In the end, due to tight money, he and his wife didn't even have a wedding, and they started a naked marriage early. So when he chose not to have children, no one could take him, he was a completely independent person who was qualified to choose his own life.

"Cut, are you so ruthless? Are you not afraid that your son will go to the street to ask for food? Are you not afraid that your daughter will go to work in Gu Hongde's song hall?" Han Xue felt that Hong Tao was talking happily, and she didn't believe it at all.

As for what kind of lifestyle they choose, I will never interfere, I have no opinion on being a bank robber, that is their ability! You wait and see, in the future, there will be 100 people who will call me Dad, I plan to go around every country, and then leave at least one child, and when I am old, I will hold the United Nations General Assembly at home every five years, and then you will be the secretary general of the United Nations, hahahaha......" Hong Tao said more and more proud.

"Neurotic, who's your child is out of luck...... Then if I have a child, you have to treat him like this?" Han Xue felt that Hong Tao didn't seem to be joking, at least not entirely. This man doesn't necessarily tell the truth when he's serious, and he doesn't necessarily tell a lie when he's not serious, there are no specific rules, it's hard to figure out, and the only thing is to rely on feeling.

"Well, that's the rule, and with one exception it's all messy, and I'd rather let them all starve to death than let them think about how they're going to inherit this inheritance every day. I can give the necessary help, but I have to give them a reason first, and just calling Daddy is not enough to get this privilege. I can live with you for the rest of my life, but I won't live with a woman who thinks about me all day for her children, not a day. As long as I find out who has this sign, I will only warn once, and then break up, I will not give a cent less in child support, this is not only for me to tell you, you also find an opportunity to talk to Tan Jing and Ah Shan, don't blame me for being ruthless when the time comes. Other issues can be discussed, but this issue is not negotiable, and there is no need to mention a word. "Hong Tao and Han Xue have nothing to hide, he can say whatever he thinks, he has to say good things, bad things have to be said, if he can accept it, he can accept it, and if he can't accept it, he can not accept it.

"Aren't you afraid that they are secretly plotting against you?" Han Xue turned over and faced Hong Tao face to face, so that she could feel the authenticity of Hong Tao's words more.

“…… There is indeed this problem, so I better not wait for them to calculate me, I will calculate them first. After I go back, I will make a will and explain the things behind me clearly, so that no one can worry about it. It's useless to worry about it, even if I am drugged in the food, they will not get a penny more, how much or as much as they should be. Hong Tao rolled his eyes, feeling that Han Xue's concern was indeed there, and it was necessary to take precautions in advance. He likes to make rules for everything, so that he can avoid a lot of trouble, although it seems a little ruthless, but ruthlessness is better than ending up in a mess because of money. (To be continued)

ps:ps:There is a manuscript in the deposit.,But it's not divided into chapters.、No typos.,Yesterday I paid back the account of the monthly pass.,The red account is still more than half owed.,Let me take my time.,Strive to pay it off today.。