"For the people, I'm not talking about you, men must be cautious in marriage, although your sister Jingyi is a woman, she also understands some basic truths. Zhang Jingyi smiled slightly," Your brother Shen hung up Nantan from the Propaganda Department of the Provincial Party Committee, to be honest, you couldn't go at that time, but your brother Shen wanted to go down to exercise and sharpen it, which would be good for his future development, so he told me that the child was still studying at that time, and I was busy with work here, and I was worried that I wouldn't support it, and if I didn't go, I wouldn't go, but I still supported you Brother Shen, people always have to fight hard in this life, don't regret it when you're old, men have to have their own careers, if a woman really loves a man, then she should plan for a man's career。 ”soudu.org

"Hehe, Sister Jingyi is a heroine, Brother Shen can marry Sister Jingyi, that is Brother Shen's blessing, how can ordinary girls compare with Sister Jingyi. "I heard that Zhang Jingyi took a bite of your Sister Jingyi and your Brother Shen, and Lu Weimin also changed the title to Sister Jingyi and Brother Shen, people intend to get closer, you are still ignorant, it will be too dull.

"You can't say that, for the people, compared to your Brother Shen, you have an obvious advantage now, your Brother Shen is more than thirty years old before he ran to a department-level cadre, just like this, there are still many people who are red-eyed, you are only twenty-five years old, and now you are a real deputy department-level cadre, you are young to such a high position, there will definitely be many people who are not convinced and say cool things, to shut up these people, the most haode way is to make achievements, which requires you to pay more effort and sweat than others, if there is no woman who supports you behind, or even a woman who pulls your hind legs, then your work will inevitably be affected, so I hope you will think carefully about this, even if it is a matter of putting up with it for the time being, or saying that you are dealing with the same thing, but do not make a decision on the issue of marriage lightly. ”

Lu Weimin's face is a little hot, this Zhang Jingyi seems to be gentle and quiet, but her words are extremely sharp, this meaning of forbearance is intriguing, probably because he is afraid that he will not be able to grasp it, and he can express that he can deal with the object, but he can't talk about marriage, this language is really a bit rough and rough.

Shen Zilie also felt that his wife's words were a little fierce, but fortunately, he also knew that Lu Weimin was not an outsider, so he just glared at his wife with disgust, but Zhang Jingyi didn't care, but glared at Shen Zilie instead.

"Xiexie Sister Jingyi's concern, I'm still young, and I haven't considered marriage yet, but I still have a very strong emotional foundation with Zhenni, just like Sister Jingyi just said, maybe girls are like this now, not very used to hard life, I feel that everything has to fulfill her wishes, I will communicate with her patiently, and I also believe that she should understand and support my ideas. ”

Although Lu Weimin also agrees with Zhang Jingyi's words, but feelings are not something that can be broken, if reason can completely control feelings, then this shijie will become a robot shijie, completely through the calculation of benefits and losses to judge and analyze, and then make a decision, which is precisely where human beings are most different from other animals.

Lunch was very pleasant, this family banquet only had Shen Zilie's family of three and Lu Weimin, Shen Zilie's daughter is only twelve years old, still in the sixth grade of primary school, is a very smart and clever little girl, and she looks like Zhang Jingyi, very cute.

Lu Weimin had something to do in the afternoon, so he left after dinner.

It wasn't until after Lu Weimin left that Shen Zilie complained that Zhang Jingyi shouldn't say much about the object of introduction, he knew that Lu Weimin cherished his relationship with his current girlfriend, and Zhang Jingyi's words were a little too Meng Lang.

"Zilie, we know these things better than you as women, if a girl is pampered and arrogant and doesn't know how to restrain, then it will be sooner or later that man will leave her, aiqing is very sweet, intoxicating, but sweet is not enough, it has to be rich and mellow to last. Zhang Jingyi was confident, "A character like Lu Weimin, do you think you can trap him just by his appearance and appearance? Hmph, it's not me saying that a girl who is too beautiful is not a good thing for a man, and it is not a good thing for the girl herself, I mean too beautiful, not ordinary beauty." ”

Shen Zilie was a little puzzled, his wife's words seemed to be a bit tongue twister: "What do you mean?"

"Quite simply, for men, a girl who is too beautiful can bring a sense of insecurity to men, with the exception of absolutely confident men; For women, if her appearance is too outstanding, then it is easy for men to focus on her appearance and ignore others, and women are also accustomed to using appearance to attract men, and ignore the cultivation of their own connotation, over time, but men are used to seeing your posture, and you yourself do not realize this, then you will soon become a remnant of the past tense, men are new and love the old, if there is no real charm to attract men, only by appearance, then unfortunately, this attraction is too bland, and will soon be evaporated。 ”

Shen Zilie laughed at his wife's tirade, but he had to admit that his wife had a thorough analysis of the psychological factors of male and female attraction, it is easy for a beautiful woman to attract a man, but it is not easy to tie a man to her side for a long time, and to tie an excellent man firmly to her side, then you really have to have excellent charm, this charm cultivation is not just as simple as appearance, as his wife said, the cultivation of connotation, temperament, and personality is the most important.

"So you think Yue Shuangting is quite suitable for Lu Weimin?" Shen Zilie smiled.

"Well, that's right, I have this idea, Shuangting's temperament and appearance needless to say, learning to dance, seems to be arrogant, but mainly because of family reasons, she has developed that kind of character, I watched her grow up, this girl is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, the knife mouth is tofu heart, and the character is not to say, the twenty-two-year-old girl, she has also been dealt with, where to find it in Changzhou City this year? The person who introduced the object kicked through the threshold, but this girl didn't look at the last one, and Secretary Yan and I talked about it twice, plus the people are really good, otherwise I wouldn't consider the people, after all, the gap between this family is too big. ”

Zhang Jingyi knew the meaning of her husband's smile, a little teasing, and she didn't care, "That's right, I want to match Weimin and Shuangting, Secretary Yan asked me to help find a haode, for the people are good, strong, good personality, with Shuangting is just right, they can succeed, it will also be of great benefit to the future development of the people." ”

"Why don't you say it's more helpful to your husband?" Shen Zilie said angrily.

Yue Shuangting's mother, Yan Yongshu, is the deputy secretary of the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee and is in charge of party and mass personnel in the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee.

It has been almost a year and a half since Shen Zilie returned to the Propaganda Department of the Provincial Party Committee, and with the experience of being a county magistrate in Nantandi, the number of years he has been in the real position has been full for two years.

It is said that this year, the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee intends to let the cadres of the Provincial Party Committee and the cadres of Changzhou, Kunhu, Qingxi and Guiping, the four economically developed cities, carry out cadre exchanges, cultivate cadres' ability and experience in many aspects, that is, the four cities will select and transfer a group of cadres to serve in the provincial party committee and provincial government organs, and the provincial party committee and provincial government will also send a group of cadres to the local government, and after the expiration of the term of office, the next step will be determined according to the situation, which means that the local cadres may stay in the province and not return to the locality, and the provincial cadres may also take root and develop in the locality.

Shen Zilie has dredged up the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee through the relationship left by his old father-in-law, and the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee basically agrees that as long as the Propaganda Department of the Provincial Party Committee pushes Shen Zilie out, then Shen Zilie can be considered to be delegated to Changzhou City, Shen Zilie has been hanging in Nantan for more than a year, Zhang Jingyi hopes that if Shen Zilie can go down this time, it is best to develop in Changzhou, and although the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee can put Shen Zilie in Changzhou, but the specific position will be decided by the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee.

Changzhou is a sub-provincial city, and a department-level cadre like Shen Zilie puts you at the deputy director of the Municipal Archives Bureau or the deputy director of the Forestry Bureau, and puts you in the central district like Wuwu or Mochou, and the deputy secretary and deputy head of the district are also at the department level, but the gold content of such a department-level cadre is too different.

When Yan Yongshu was a member of the Standing Committee of the Dichangzhou Municipal Party Committee and the Minister of Propaganda, Zhang Jingyi was more familiar with Yan Yongshu, but familiarity is familiarity, the old man was still there at that time, but Yan Yongshu took the initiative to befriend Zhang Jingyi.

But the old man quickly retired, and Yan Yongshu was promoted to deputy secretary of the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee, to be precise, Zhang Xiuquan did not play a role in Yan Yongshu's promotion to deputy secretary of the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee, and even had side effects, Zhang Xiuquan wanted to promote another person at that time, so after Yan Yongshu was promoted to the deputy secretary of the Changzhou Municipal Party Committee and the old man retired, the relationship between the two became a little colder.

Now Shen Zilie wants to stay in Changzhou and seek a haode position, Yan Yongshu is a step, but this step is not so easy to step on, and people may not be willing to pay attention to you if you step on it, and if you don't get it right, you have to slip and fall, and it's boring to find yourself, so in this case, Zhang Jingyi naturally put her mind on this.

In Zhang Jingyi's view, if Lu Weimin and Yue Shuangting can really get together, it will undoubtedly be a match made in heaven, which will be of great benefit to Lu Weimin's future development, and Yue Shuangting has also found a good husband, and his own family can also get closer to Yan Yongshu, who has been estranged, because of this relationship, which is very important for Shen Zilie's next step.

"Zilie, I don't deny that I have this intention in it, but don't you think this is not contradictory to the essence of this matter?" Zhang Jingyi said calmly: "The world is like this, not to mention that this is a good thing, I will not have any guilt and anxiety about it, I think they are suitable, and I believe that Secretary Yan will also see this." ”