Chapter 197: Granddaughter-in-law?
"It's a pity for the girl...... I'll go get her some brown sugar water to drink first, you haven't eaten yet, have you? I'll warm up the rest for you first, and then I'll get her some egg custard. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info "Sure enough, as soon as I heard that it was a girl, the wrinkles on my grandmother's face were stretched, and it was a pity that it was not salty or light, so I didn't ask anymore, and went to the kitchen to give my grandson and my grandson dinner to work. Don't say you won't let her do it, if you do it yourself, she thinks you can't do it well, and she has to come in the end. This is the old man in the family, the lovely old man.
From this day on, Jin Yue lived a confinement life in the name of her grandmother's house, in the name of Hong Tao's object. When Hong Tao is at home, he takes care of him, cooking, washing clothes, tidying up the house, and taking Jin Yue out for a walk in good weather; In the words of the little uncle, if Hong Tao didn't make it clear to himself in advance, he really thought that this was his nephew and daughter-in-law, it was too similar.
He knew it in his heart, but he couldn't say it, and as a result, the family was kept in the dark. First, the aunt found out the secret when she went home to see her mother, and within a day, the aunt and uncle's family also knew about it.
The house where Jin Yue lived immediately became a ward, and the three families took turns to visit, plus congratulations. Especially the eldest aunt, she not only has the simplicity and kindness of her grandmother, but also has more enthusiasm, and she is very concerned about Hong Tao's marriage. So a family meeting was held at her suggestion, but the two protagonists were missing, Hong Tao and Jin Yue. It is estimated that in their eyes, Hong Tao has no parents, so it is naturally the responsibility to handle the marriage.
"I think Jin Yue and Hong Tao are quite suitable, the two of them have been playing together since they were children, a kindergarten, a primary school, and live in neighborhoods. My second brother-in-law and her father have such a good relationship, if they hadn't moved, maybe they would have been going to the same school, and they would have fallen in love and got married. "The first to speak is my aunt, she has read the most Qiong Yao novels, although she is married, but she still yearns for the kind of childhood sweetheart lover in the novel.
"I don't think this matter can be rushed, Hong Tao didn't tell the truth in his mouth, he didn't mention this matter when he asked me to get him a room, Jin Yue and her father also went on Qingming Day, and they didn't mention a word. I've been to his house more than once, and it doesn't look like someone else is living with him, so how did it happen so quickly? "The eldest aunt has a little more contact with Hong Tao, and knows more about what this nephew is. He doesn't advocate taking this matter too seriously, at least he has to figure out the details before taking the next steps.
"The tires have been beaten, what else is there to ask, I can't do without people. Our family can't do this kind of thing, and Xiao Tao is not such a ruthless child. I don't think this matter can be messed around with them, we as parents should take care of it. In case they come up with something out of the ordinary again, the impact will be bad, that is, Jin Yue's father doesn't know yet, otherwise he will definitely come to the door and ask, how passive our family will be!"
"It's better for us to take the initiative to make this matter clear to her family, our Xiaotao is also worthy of his family's Jinyue." If you want to have a degree, a job, a house, and a house, he can still disagree. ”
The eldest aunt was the third to express her opinion, and she, like her grandmother, wanted to watch the junior get married and have children quickly, as if she had fulfilled some obligation in this way. And the problem she said is also more critical, no matter how you say that unmarried pregnancy is also a scandal, and the two families have no shame on their faces. The only way to cover it up is to get married as soon as possible, so that no one can say anything strange.
"Xiao Ming, you and Xiao Tao are the closest, what do you say?" Don't look at the meeting convened by the eldest aunt, in fact, it is the grandmother who sits behind it, this is the old lady's wisdom of life. Don't stand out in everything, let others charge into the battle, and look at the situation yourself before deciding when to come forward and support that side.
This is not to say that the old lady is cunning, in a big family, if you want every child to have no opinion on the hometown and really respect the hometown, you can't be too eager to express your position, let alone come out in big and small things. This thing is not learned by reading books, but honed by decades of life. Of course, it also depends on the degree of comprehension and personal character, and even if some people understand this truth, they can't help it when they really do it.
"If you want me to say that you don't have to worry about it, he is still worried about finding a daughter-in-law? This kid has been a bandit since he was a child, who have you heard of?" "The little uncle didn't want to attend this meeting at all, but he was an uncle, so he had to attend even if he put on a show." But he didn't expect the problem to be thrown to himself, what opinion could he have, Hong Tao was fooling people, even his family took Jin Yue to fool him, he was like a mirror in his heart. But I can't say it yet, so I have to pour cold water.
"If you want me to say that Xiao Tao is what you brought to be like this, no wonder my second sister didn't want him to play with you at the beginning, and he couldn't learn well with you. You look at how old you are, and you don't do anything serious all day, you know that you are running around. Did you earn money or did you earn home? I didn't earn anything, and I still have the face to say Xiaotao. ”
The uncle's words didn't have any effect, and they also caused the aunt's dissatisfaction. She was the most painful and disappointed in this younger brother. Back then, the family gave him the succession quota, hoping that he would start a family. But now, put aside the business or not, the family has not been completed, the father did not see the grandson when he left, and the mother's body is getting older and older, is it difficult to let the old couple go away with hatred!
"Yumei, why don't you teach the bad, why is Xiao Tao bad? I think it's pretty good, it's good to be a college student! Today, when it comes to Xiao Tao's affairs, your brother is in charge of me, so you don't have to worry about it. "Yes, the third daughter's words can be regarded as poking at grandma's weakness, everything can be said at home, the old lady never argues, but she can't say her youngest son, not half a word. Now not only the youngest son has been criticized, but even the grandson has been spared, what are you going to do with a girl, you want to rebel!
"Mom, if you don't have a situation like you, you know that you are used to them!" After my aunt got married, she was not as obedient as she was when she was a girl, and it was a big deal to go back to her own house and not be allowed to speak.
"You said that I was hungry for you or frozen for you, and it was worth pulling you up with a handful of and urine, but it was my fault. One is your brother and the other is your nephew, are you such an aunt? This is bad and that is not good, just you!" Of course, grandma will not get used to her daughter, that is, she is married, and she must save some face for her son-in-law, otherwise it will be even more ugly. God really wants to be more serious, no one is a child, she is naturally poor, she raised her.
"Mom, don't be angry. Yumei, you don't have to say a word. Didn't Mom say it, today I was talking about Xiaotao, and we'll discuss the rest another day. Anyway, the two of them haven't got married, so if you solve one first, there will be one less. ”
"It's a good thing for me to say this, young people nowadays are not like me and Yumei, there are many people who live together without getting married, and there are a lot of people who hold them on the road. So, it's not the key, it's the attitude of our family. Didn't Xiao Tao bring her back, let's still discuss the use of being suitable or inappropriate, maybe this kid is embarrassed to open his mouth, and he is using this way to test us. ”
"Let's just get ready, and we'll talk to him when he comes back. If he doesn't object, let him drive us to meet Jin Yue and his father, the two families have talked about it, it should be like this, whether it is eleven or New Year's Day, it is also this year's business. ”
The little brother-in-law is still very brainy, and he can see this family meeting today, where is this discussion, that is, the old lady uses the mouth of the eldest aunt to inform the big guys. If you agree, then quickly express your position, if you don't agree, you will make the old lady angry. The best result is to follow the old lady's meaning, anyway, it is Hongtao's business to get married or not in the end, and it is useless for our family to quarrel here for a long time.
"Well, it is still true that the words of peace are right...... What are you staring at! Your little Lei, I don't have much pain? Something without conscience. After listening to the words of the third son-in-law, grandma's anger immediately disappeared. That's right, the girl's family can't see that something is wrong, so the old man can't be confused together. Of course, her attitude towards her aunt can't be tolerated, and she has to criticize it harshly, and she keeps her mouth shut so as not to spoil the fun.
With this exchange of words, no matter how stupid the people here are, they all understand what the tone of this meeting is, so what are you waiting for, raise your hands and feet in favor. Not only must you agree, but you must also show a proactive attitude, otherwise it will be regarded as passive sabotage.
So at the behest of my grandmother, my aunt became the first secretary general of the marriage planning committee. The big idea is taken by the grandmother, and she arranges the specific work, and the others are considered the deputy secretary-general, and they assist the secretary-general to complete this arduous task.
"Your house is so lively, unlike my house, which is always deserted. Just now your aunt came and said she was going to make me a suit and take my size away. You go and tell your aunt that I don't lack clothes, so don't let her spend money. ”
When Hong Tao came back from work, Jin Yue was doing exercises in the house. In the past half a month, she has grown six catties of meat, and Hong Tao told her that if she stays like a pig like this, she will be wasted, and she agrees with Hong Tao's point of view. But during the day, it is not good to go out in a big way, so I have to do some simple yoga exercises in the house to burn off excess calories as much as possible.
If you want to talk about family care, it can indeed shape different personalities. After being a key protection figure in her grandmother's house for two weeks, Jin Yue not only recovered quickly, but also improved her mental state a lot, and the original silly smile returned to her face. The wound on the soul will not heal so quickly, but at least it will no longer bleed and is healing. Over time, it will heal slowly.
(To be continued.) )