"Mom, you go to the hotel first, I'll drive over by myself later. After yesterday's incident, Xiaoqian doesn't want to hide from Qiuqiu's father anymore.

"Then try not to miss the opening - why don't you let Liumei accompany you?" Xiaoqian's mother knew that Liumei had practiced, and if she had something to do, she could kick someone down.

Xiao Qian shook her head, "No need." ”

At this time, Qiuqiu's father may be because of his lame legs, and he doesn't look like he was hugging back and forth when he first appeared, and the whole person is also very haggard.

Watching Xiaoqian's family come out, Qiuqiu's father's lips moved.

He remembered how Xiaoqian's mother fooled him that day, he could stand upstairs and talk to the eldest lady with a suspected dementia for so long, until he fainted from heat stroke!

This big girl is also going to cheat people...

"Doctor Chen, I came here to find you on purpose! Can I talk?" Qiuqiu's father smiled at Xiao Qian.

"Find a place, tomorrow I get married, today is my mother's house to set the table, so I can give you half an hour. ”

Hearing that Xiaoqian was going to get married and set the table, Qiuqiu's father was first shocked, and then wanted to take out his wallet.

"Doctor Chen, look at this, I don't know if I can find you, I didn't even bring anything today, and I don't know if it's your big day, I'm—"

Xiao Qian stretched out her hand to stop it.

"Mr. Xiao, if you take the money, we don't need to talk about it. ”

Qiuqiu always said that his father was uneducated and was a nouveau riche, and he was indeed a nouveau riche when he saw things, and he paid for it when he came up, and he had no technical content at all.

Qiuqiu's father smiled awkwardly and stuffed his wallet back.

Xiaoqian chose a café not too far from her home and drove her ball dad over.

"Tell me, what's the matter with me?" Xiao Qian ordered a glass of ice water and asked him.

In fact, both of them knew in their hearts that Qiuqiu's father must have come to her because of Qiuqiu's matter, just a symbolic walk-through.

Qiuqiu's father rubbed his hands together and sighed.

"I want to ask, is there a cure for my daughter's situation, I know that you are one of the best psychiatrists in China, you must have a way, right?"

At first, he only thought that Xiaoqian was a leading elder sister and a good friend with Qiuqiu, so he brought colored glasses to look at her.

When Qiuqiu said that Xiaoqian was a famous psychiatrist in the upper class society in China, Qiuqiu's father didn't believe it at all and thought it was bragging.

But he did find out that there was a very good psychiatrist in Q City, and he had to get in touch with him through layers of relationships.

When he finally found out through various relationships, he found out that this doctor was Xiaoqian, this shock was too exciting, it is said that he should not have any contact with a junior who has had integrity, but for the sake of Qiuqiu, he can only show this face.

When Qiuqiu's father said the word daughter, Xiaoqian hooked the corners of her mouth mockingly.

"Do you have a daughter?

"Isn't it just Qiuqiu? You're good friends. ”

"No, you don't have a daughter, your daughter was 'killed' by your own hands, you only have a ball now, it's hard to say whether he recognizes you or not. ”

Xiao Qian said that she killed with her own hands, these four words are very light, but they can fall on the ears of Qiuqiu's father like a heavy hammer.

He covered his face in pain, "I didn't expect... She's going to be like this!"

"From a medical point of view, gender identity disorder is related to physiological factors, congenital factors, and acquired upbringing, I don't know if there are congenital hormonal inflats in Qiuqiu's genes, but I can tell you with certainty that his current situation is directly related to acquired upbringing, and isn't it you who killed that girl?"

"I didn't want her like this..."Qiuqiu's father expressed his pain, who would have thought that the accident at that time would become an irretrievable situation now?

"You didn't say it directly, but you brought him into this world, you didn't give him the fatherly love he deserved, but beat him and scolded him, and constantly instilled the idea that girls are useless, many of the psychological problems I have come into contact with in childhood are basically parents divorced around the age of 5 or the father is away for a long time, and the role of the father in the process of parenting is very important, but why did you treat him like that?"

Qiuqiu's father was about to fall into tears when he was asked by Xiaoqian.

He was also under great pressure at the beginning, his life was unsatisfactory everywhere, he was suppressed outside, and his wife left him again, leaving only a small oil bottle ball, she looked like a boy when she was a child, but she was a girl.

Qiuqiu's father's hometown attaches great importance to the heirs, outsiders sometimes make a few jokes about not having a son, those who have sons laugh when they hear it, but those who don't have sons feel that their self-esteem is seriously frustrated, and this depression has nowhere to vent, so it can only be vented with immature children.

Who would have thought that the consequences would be so serious.

Xiao Qian ignored Qiuqiu's father's pain, but turned her head to look at an ornamental plant planted in the café, she didn't know the specific name of this plant, only looked at the leafy branches, and there were scattered small red fruits, which was very pleasing, she reached out and picked a small fruit and put it in her hand to play.

"Outsiders think that we psychiatrists are very godly, no matter what psychological problems come to us, we can analyze what happened to this person when he was a child through only a few test scales, it's amazing, right? Many patients feel that they have a problem and come to us, and we can even clearly deduce his childhood family situation, do you know why?"

Qiuqiu's father looked at her helplessly and shook his head.

Xiao Qian pushed the red fruit towards him.

"A large proportion of the psychological problems of adults are related to childhood experiences, to give you an example, adults who have problems are the fruits you see, assuming that those psychiatric diseases caused by congenital genetic problems are congenital bad seeds, and do not bear good results, can you understand this?"

This analogy is very vivid, Qiuqiu's father nodded immediately, and Xiaoqian continued.

"Will the genetically normal seeds definitely produce fruits? No, in the process of growth, there is still a certain probability that there will be problems, such as moisture, temperature, sunshine, etc., a good seedling, in your hands become abnormal, do you blame the seedlings for not working hard, or complain about the carelessness of the gardener who takes care of the seedlings?"

One of the most unsuccessful words of being a parent is that there is something wrong with your child.

Because most of the children with problems are caused by their parents.

Xiao Qian's words hit Qiuqiu's father enough, his face was pale, his breathing became short, and he hurriedly took out a bottle of medicine from his pocket and stuffed it in his mouth.

"According to my character, I should ignore you, because the effect you see today is the cause you planted at the beginning, and from a psychological point of view, except for the problems caused by congenital genes, any psychological abnormality can find a causal connection, and our duty is to find that cause and solve the current effect. ”