Nowadays, there are more and more people living in the building, and there are fewer such simple feelings, these old men must also really care about Minglang, otherwise how could they directly go to the door to teach him a lesson?

Although it was an oolong, Xiaoqian still felt that such a relationship was worth maintaining.

"That's right, if we have children in the future, our ideology and morality will definitely not be wrong, and the children who grew up in the army have their own patriotic education in their childhood. ”

Xiaoqiang has the most say in this matter, the child walked to the courtyard, met an elder casually, dragged it over, and chatted for a long time, from the Anti-Japanese War to patriotism, I can't listen to it if I want to, and when I go to school, history class has its own advantages.

"Actually, sometimes, I think it would be nice if my relatives could keep the same distance from each other. ”

Xiaoqian sighed, as soon as Xiaoqiang heard what she said, could it be that her daughter-in-law's sudden emotional slump tonight was related to her family?

"How can you ask that?"

"I saw the relationship between Qiuqiu's dad and Qiuqiu today, and I couldn't help but think of me and my brother. ”

"It's... Eight poles can't be beaten, right?" "This little thing is also worth his daughter-in-law's attention?

In fact, he is quite pitiful, he wants to arrange a future for his children, but he doesn't know that what he arranges is never what Qiuqiu wants. From our point of view, as friends of Qiuqiu, this kind of big bag interference in other people's futures is very annoying. ”

Isn't this the embodiment of special family affection under special national conditions?

Parents are accustomed to taking care of everything, from going to school to the marriage room and even coaxing their children, they are used to the patriarchal system.

Yu Minglang nodded and motioned for her to continue.

"I'm also reflecting, I'm arranging Dalong's future like this, is it right or wrong, he is young and innocent and hasn't seen the market, and his thinking is relatively simple, I'm even coaxing and deceiving him to pave the way for the future, is it really right?"

Taking people as a mirror is a hurdle that top psychologists can't get around, and they will always find their own problems in other people's problems.

Xiaoqiang finally understood why his daughter-in-law was fine during the day, but she suddenly lost her mood after seeing Qiuqiu's father, and it was because of her brother who made trouble for a long time.

"There is a saying that children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, but you say that children and grandchildren like Dalong will be blessed according to the development of his simple brain circuits?"

Xiao Qian is really not alarmist and looks down on her younger brother.

The events of the previous life are vivid, and the child is easy to deviate if he does not limit his development, but he is not a bad child in essence.

"Don't overcomplicate the problem, your family's situation is different from the golfer's family. Xiaoqiang is on Xiaoqian's side, and he doesn't think that his daughter-in-law is wrong in handling the problem.

"In a sense, Qiuqiu's dad is also thinking about Qiuqiu, although his way seems stupid to us, but his original intention is for Qiuqiu, I think I'm also for my brother, isn't that the same?"

This bend Xiaoqian can't stop coming.

According to the idea of laissez-faire freedom, she should not interfere in Dalong's affairs, but she can't see him as the same as in his previous life, on one side is love, on the other side is reason, standing at the fork in the road of contradictions, there is always a lot of emotion in her heart.

"That's different, you and Qiuqiu's father are still fundamentally different, first, his method can only get a wrong result in the end, but you will definitely be able to teach an excellent younger brother, second, Qiuqiu has never asked his father to help him decide the future from beginning to end, and Dalong has always relied on you He took the initiative to ask you for help, he trusts you, and will discuss everything with you, there is a passive and active relationship in this. Third, Dalong's subconscious is to accept your sister's arrangement, while Qiuqiu's subconscious is to reject his father, so there is no comparison between the two. ”

Xuebai is good at grasping the key points, and when he said this, Xiaoqian seemed to be a lot more comfortable.

In fact, the truth is understood, but if there is someone who can mention it, there will be a different feeling, Xiaoqian stands tall, there are only a handful of people who can mention her, everyone is looking up to her and relying on her, and even regards her as a god-like existence, but there is such an equal person by her side, who can break the sky when she is confused.

"My biggest concern is that we haven't educated him well, despite all our efforts, if he grows crooked—"

The shadow of her previous life has always lingered in Xiaoqian's heart, and she has seen her younger brother become a gentleman, and she is always afraid that she will not educate him well.

"He's crooked, and you beat me up. ”

"Why am I beating you?" she looked at him strangely, in his heart, was he such a violent person?

"I am responsible for this matter, my daughter-in-law is the decision-maker of the action, I am the executor, you sent Dalong this decision is heroic, correct, and absolutely no problem, then if the education is not good, it is the problem of me, the executor, and my daughter-in-law is always right. ”

"Just your slippery head. "Xiao Qian couldn't get around the bend for so long, so he easily persuaded it.

When a man encounters something, he can't wait to hide back, so this stupid boy rushes up, but he also enters the eyes of Mr. Qian, and the more he looks at it, the more he feels that he is particularly responsible.

"Seriously, the unit that Dalong is about to enter, can you really take him well?"

Xiaoqian is still not at ease in the end, she always feels that her brother is a little incorrigible.

After she came back, she has been paying attention to his education, and the learning is grasped by Fugui, she and Fugui have made three study exams together, and they always want to take shortcuts when they are not motivated in life, and the dignified female boss said that it is impossible not to be hit.

Don't say it's just a younger brother, it's your own biological child, it's not good to plan your life for others, and you haven't cultivated people to turn around, and you're not a person inside and out like Qiuqiu's father, which is too infuriating.

"The army is just a big environment, the same rice raises a hundred kinds of people, no matter how good the environment is, it can't be 100% good, but look at Dalong objectively, he is not a child with many sins and unforgivable crimes, give him a direction, he himself knows how to fight, in fact, you don't always look at Dalong with subjective consciousness. ”

Xiaoqiang noticed that Xiao Qian's attitude towards her brother was particularly interesting, the accurate profile was love and hate, and a little hatred of iron and steel, Xiao Qian could objectively analyze anyone, but she thought her brother very badly.

How did Xiao Qiang know that Xiao Qian's subjective awareness of Dalong all came from the shadow of her previous life, and she always couldn't forget how the troublemaker tricked her all her life and how he dragged her back.

But she can't forget how her brother, a stupid child, defended herself and her mother after she came back, and as soon as these two feelings are intertwined, her emotions are complicated.

"It's okay, I'm here, don't think about anything. He lowered his head and wanted to kiss her, but Xiao Qian dodged.

"Friends now, right? Keep your distance!"

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