Chapter 898
Chu Lei saw that his mother didn't put on a face anymore, or say something unpleasant, but listened to Old Madam Chu ask about Bai Yue's body and the situation of the child in her belly with her ears pricked up, and from time to time her face would have a look of joy.
Secretly relieved in his heart, he dragged a chair from the side and sat aside to listen to Old Madam Chu and Bai Yue. He actually really hopes that his family can accept Bai Yue, although he is now in the Bai family, he will always be a child of the Chu family, and he still wants his wife to have a harmonious relationship with the family.
Jinxiu saw the picture of a few people getting along with each other, and said to Cai Xiaohua with a smile: "Godmother, don't worry, Caicai is very smart and knows what to do." ”
Cai Xiaohua nodded with satisfaction: "I don't have to worry about anything else, I'm afraid that Chu Lei will regret it in the future." Therefore, Caicai can have a good relationship with the Chu family, which will make Chu Lei feel better. ”
Jinxiu smiled and nodded: "Caicai knows it in her heart." ”
Cai Xiaohua turned her head and said very seriously to Jinxiu: "When this couple is in love, they naturally feel that everything they have done for each other is worth it. But this life is not a day or two, it is a lifetime, and no matter how deep the feelings are, I am afraid of wearing. After you marry into the Chu family in the future, you must also understand this. Establish a good relationship with Nianhua's family, and the relationship between the husband and wife can be more harmonious.
You see those strong daughters-in-law, who hold men by their side, and then argue with their in-laws, although they were happy at the time, but there are a few who are comfortable later. It's true that a man is your man, but he is also the child of other people's parents, to say something unpleasant, his father and mother are one, but this mother-in-law is not necessarily.
When a man has a good relationship with you, he will follow you even if you go to the house to uncover the tile. But people can change, and he is used to these things about you now, and it is very likely that he will become the handle of you in the future. So even if the relationship between the two is good, no matter how glue-like it is, you must remember that there are some bottom lines that cannot be touched.
However, there are some things that cannot be blindly tolerated. If Nianhua's parents do something that makes you unhappy, you can't swallow it. It depends on the situation, if the matter is not serious, tell Nianhua privately and let Nianhua deal with it. If it's serious, bring it up to your face. You have to keep his family's bottom line, but also your own bottom line. Timely forbearance will make the years remember your goodness. But blindly forbearance is not a long-term solution, and it may even put yourself in a dilemma. So this degree, you need to slowly explore and master it yourself.
You must remember this, the relationship between husband and wife, it is not enough to have feelings, but also to manage them carefully, so that the relationship can last for a long time. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the same. ”
She has been married to Teacher Bai for more than 20 years, and almost never had a major conflict, and for more than 20 years, Teacher Bai has attached great importance to her, all because of these truths taught to her by her mother when she got married. Now, she's going to pass it on to her daughters. Before Bai Yue got married, she told Bai Yue that now it was Jinxiu's turn.
Jinxiu took these words to heart seriously, and gratefully leaned her head on Cai Xiaohua's shoulder and rubbed: "Godmother, thank you." ”
She doesn't have a mother, although her aunt Zhang Zhaodi protects her wholeheartedly, but she forgets everything, even if she doesn't forget, with Zhang Zhaodi's original temperament, she is still angry in the Liang family, what experience can she teach her?
And Cai Xiaohua, the godmother, really treats her as her own daughter. Cai Xiaohua also prepared a large part of her dowry.
Cai Xiaohua stretched out her hand and patted her face gently: "Silly girl, you are my daughter, thank you for nothing." If you are doing well, your godmother can rest assured and happy. ”
Jinxiu smiled and reached out to wrap her arms around Cai Xiaohua's waist: "Godmother, I will definitely be happy, don't worry." ”
When it was time to start the banquet, Qin Jiangming rushed back with Fu Chenxi.
As soon as Fu Chenxi saw Jinxiu, he rushed over with a smile.
"Xiaoxi, are you doing these days?" Jinxiu felt that Fu Chenxi had lost a lot of weight, it was only less than half a month, and the little bit of meat that had been raised with great difficulty before had fallen again.
Fu Chenxi smiled and said, "Sister, I'm fine, don't worry." ”
In fact, she was not happy with Fu Changsheng. Fu Changsheng is now working in the county, where the conditions are already poor, and Fu Changsheng has to engage in image work, and he is even more frugal.
Although Fu Chenxi's previous days with Mrs. Fu in Fuping County were not as good as those in City A before, they were still very good. Now in the county where Fu Changsheng works, he has eaten a meal of meat for more than ten days. She is young, and when she grows her body, she naturally can't eat enough.
If it's just this bit of suffering, it's not like she can't bear it. What made her most uncomfortable was the school over there. The school conditions are poor, and the teachers don't care about teaching, but because she is the daughter of the county magistrate, the school teachers treat her very well. But those students didn't like her very much, they targeted her everywhere, excluded her, and she didn't have any friends there.
and Fu Changsheng, although he treats her well on the surface, he doesn't care much about her. And she found that Fu Changsheng seemed to have a close relationship with a very beautiful woman, and she knew that this woman was likely to become her stepmother. She didn't like the woman, and the way the woman looked at her was full of pickiness and impatience......
All of these became the reasons for her unhappiness, but she didn't want to tell Jinxiu about it.
It didn't make much of a difference, but it made my sister upset. My sister is getting married in the next few days, and she must have a lot of things to do. She will find a way to solve those things herself, but if she can't solve it, she can't see it back then.
Jinxiu touched Fu Chenxi's hair, she knew that Fu Chenxi was afraid that she would worry, so she didn't say anything.
When Qin Jiangming went to pick up Fu Chenxi, she confessed and asked him to inquire privately about how Fu Chenxi was doing over there.
It's just that I couldn't find a chance to ask Qin Jiang at this time, so I only smiled and said to Fu Chenxi: "That's good, let's go, my sister will take you to wash your face, the banquet will be held in a while, you have to eat more." Look at this little face, it's so thin that it's out of meat. ”
Fu Chenxi smiled and nodded, and followed Jinxiu to the pool to wash his hands.
At the beginning of the banquet, Jinxiu arranged Fu Chenxi to sit at Old Man Qu's table and let her eat first. She must have been hungry all the way over.
When the wedding banquet ended, it was already past two o'clock in the afternoon.
Workers in the factory are helping to clean up the yard and return the borrowed tables, chairs and benches.
Gu Nianhua found a pickup truck and loaded all the dowries that Jinxiu had prepared and needed to bring to X City into the car.
After the things were loaded, the people found by Gu Nianhua drove to X City.