As soon as he said this, Uncle Shou was taken aback and said, "It turns out that there is such a thing. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info I know. But knowing is knowing, there are still some things that must be dealt with. You know what I mean, if it's just because of your daughter's affair that my son is affected, then what's the point of our children getting married? No.

Since there is no point in it, how can we still persevere? Planet grown-up, do you think that in this case, it is still a good way to get married? I understand your daughter's situation, and I also understand your painstaking efforts. But do you understand me? Can you also put yourself in my son's shoes?

Because, no matter what, as long as the two of them get married, my son will also be half of your son. Don't you like your son-in-law? You haven't met yet, but I can assure you that he'll make you like it at first sight. Because, he is a very good man.

At least among the many young people I have seen, there are no three people who can compare with my son, and those two are monsters with particularly good virtues, and only my son can be considered normal. Do you think you can bear to let your son-in-law take on huge debts as soon as you get married?

Maybe you'll feel like you can bear it. Because, no matter what, he and you are not related by blood, but once they get married, they are a family. And, more importantly, even if you stand in your daughter's affection, you should consider my son's feelings.

You're going to say, I'm talking nonsense, right? I want to say that I'm not talking nonsense. If you don't believe it, we can try to reason. After the two of them got married, your daughter enjoyed the blessings at home every day, while my son had to get up early and work late every day to pay off his debts, and it doesn't matter if he is young and works longer hours now.

However, once these days continue for more than ten years, then things will be completely different. Because, everything will have a process of quantitative change to qualitative change. By the time my son had lasted ten years, he would start complaining. And as soon as the complaint appears, it will be out of control.

Your daughter may be able to endure it at first, but after a long time, will she be able to endure her husband's whining every day? Not to mention, ten years later, they must have had a child of their own, which is my grandson, your grandson. Do you think you're going to have a good time in this situation?

At least in my opinion, it will certainly not be happy. Because, that's just the way it is. What is most needed for a child? It is not a worry-free life, nor how strong the parents are, but a harmonious family. In other words, the relationship between the parents can be maintained very well and there will be no quarrels.

Of course, if a family doesn't quarrel for a day, it is also unrealistic, and if this kind of family really exists, it can only be said that this kind of family is too false. If both parties are not honest, the feelings of both parties will definitely not be deep. If the relationship is not deep, then both parties will definitely not care too much about each other, and the love given to the child will naturally become less.

When a child lives in this kind of family, he will not have any happiness, but will only feel that his parents are like puppets, or in other words, he will feel that his parents are like puppets and ignore them. If it were you, would you like it? Would you like it? Do you still hold on to it?

I do not know. However, I know how I feel. If it were me, I wouldn't be able to stand it. Being able to last a year is already my limit, and I feel distressed for more than one day. In this case, the child's choice is nothing more than these kinds, first, suicide, and second, running away from home. Which scenario do you want to happen?

Surely none of them, right? Absolutely. Because, if your grandson commits suicide, your daughter will definitely not be able to stand it, and may commit suicide with guilt, and you are the father who loves your daughter the most, knowing this news, you will definitely spend the rest of your life in self-blame. Right?

And as long as this happens, then you will definitely be affected by personal matters when you work. No matter how much you insist, no matter how much you insist on separating work from private matters, I don't think you can completely ignore this kind of thing, right? Because if you can ignore this kind of thing, then I really have to wonder if you are a human or a robot. ”

"Of course I'm a human, how could I have children if I were a robot?" The situation you are talking about does exist, but the chances of it happening are too low. I don't believe I'm so unlucky.

Your inference just now seems reasonable, but in fact there are many loopholes. For example, you said that your son would quarrel with my daughter after he was in debt. If your son really likes my daughter, if he really loves my daughter, he will be willing to give it. In that case, do you think there will be quarrels?

Then there will be no quarrels. Of course, complaining must be indispensable, after all, it takes a person to bear such a big debt, but not everyone will vent their anger on their wives. In other words, it is very likely that your son's grievances are not vented on my daughter, but on someone else, such as his father.

When the time comes, if you are unhappy, at most you will be unhappy. If you're unhappy, what does it have to do with my daughter? Will you vent your anger on my daughter next? Let's not say if you're like that. Even if you do, I'm sure my daughter will accept your complaints.

Because, after all, she is not the person who lives with you every day, and the person who lives with her every day is your son. Her grievances just need to be accepted on the same day, and after you leave, she can get rid of them, such as watching TV or buying some snacks to dissipate.

Unless you go to my daughter again and again to vent your grievances, and this lasts for a year, my daughter won't be able to stand it. Only then will she be able to quarrel with your son, and only then will the situation you mentioned next happen. But is that really the case? Obviously not.

Do you know why not? Actually, you don't need me to say, you should know, you just don't want to admit it. All right. Now it's okay if you don't admit it, I'm going to say it anyway, because, if I don't say it, you can say, there is no such situation, or simply pretend to be stupid and pretend that you don't know anything. In this case, it is inconvenient for us to talk.

All right. Now that all has been said, it is said. Then I'm not going to sell it. I would like to say that there will never be a situation where you go to my daughter's house every day and complain about her. The reason is, you need to go to work. Since you're going to work, you can't come to my daughter every day to vent your grievances, right?

Therefore, even if you are wronged and you want to vent your grievances, you can only vent them to your colleagues in the department at most. For example, any unlucky subordinate will suffer, and he may be scolded every day. Of course I know it's not good, but let alone you, even if I encounter this kind of thing, I definitely can't accept it.

I will definitely find someone to vent, but I am a person who has a clear distinction between public and private, so if I am wronged in a private matter, I will endure my grievances, and I will never go to my colleagues in business to vent my anger, but you are different. You are a person who cannot be separated from public and private, or you are someone who does not want to be separated.

So, in the long run, you're sure to take your anger out on your colleagues again and again. In such words, the person who will be wronged in the end is neither me, nor you, nor my daughter and your son, but just an outsider, that is, your subordinate, what do I have to worry about?

Of course, the most I can do is show sympathy for that hapless subordinate. Anyway, I sympathize and don't spend money, I'm totally willing to do it. It just so happens that I am not related to him, so I can use my official relationship to comfort him.

As for whether he can hear my comfort, whether he accepts my comfort, then I don't care. Do you think that's bad? I think it's good. ”

Na Shoubo said: "Of course it's not good. Even if that happens, as you say, it's not a good thing for me, no, not just for me, it's not good for my whole family. Haven't you thought about the consequences? If my subordinate keeps being scolded by me until he can't stand it anymore and leaves, what will he do?

I am equal to one less assistant, and if there is one less assistant, the progress of solving the case will be slowed down, and the progress of solving the case will be slowed down, and the people above will come to me for questioning, and my boss will definitely not let me go first. When the time comes, what if you fire me in a fit of rage? My salary will help my son pay the debt.

If I lose my job, do you think I can still vent my grievances to my colleagues? So where can I vent my anger? I vent my anger to passers-by on the street? No, right? If I did, people would put me in a psychiatric hospital.

So who else do you think I can vent my anger to? Now you know, right? I can only vent my anger on your daughter. Because, when I don't have a job, I have to go home. And my son and I have always lived together. Even if my son and I don't live together, we'll definitely live together sooner or later.

After all, I don't have a job. Once I don't have a job, I can't afford the rent, so how can I stay in the apartment? I have no money but to go back to my son's house, or where will you let me go? Won't I sleep on the street? That's even worse. Because, I'm a well-known police officer.

It's no wonder you let me sleep on the street without being recognized. And once I'm recognized, don't you think it's shameful? I'm embarrassed, it's just that, the key is my son. Because, if I was caught sleeping on the road, it would definitely be in the news.

And as long as it's on the news, won't the whole planet know about it? After everyone knows, do you think my son still has the face to continue to work in the company? All the colleagues who have seen the news will definitely revolve around him. So, do you think your daughter won't know about it?

Surely your daughter will find out, right? Since she knows, do you think that the people who know your daughter will not know? Even if they don't, they won't say anything to your daughter, and even if they don't, it won't avoid another situation. ”

The planet said, "What else can there be? There can't be any other circumstance besides these circumstances? These circumstances can be avoided, as long as I have a little money to settle you at that time? But don't expect me to settle you all the time, I will settle you for three days at most." This is the limit. ”

"Absolutely. Planet grown-up, what you think is still too simple. Things in this world are not as easy as you think, you can give up if you want to give up, and you can isolate if you want to isolate yourself, not everything has to be arranged by you. Many times we don't decide which way things go, but we can only accept the way things change.

For example, in the case I just mentioned, there is a situation that you absolutely and absolutely cannot ignore, and you cannot avoid, let alone avoid. Because it's about the next generation of our children. To put it simply, if this happens to me, then my thing is going to make the news, right?

There should be no objection to that, after all, I said it earlier, but the next thing is the point. I hope you will listen calmly, carefully, carefully. Because, if you don't listen, you will definitely regret it in the future. This matter seems to have no effect, and it seems that you can avoid all dangers and protect your daughter's physical and mental health.

But is that really the case? No. Because, there will be a breakthrough in your daughter's body that cannot be blocked. And that breakthrough is the child. There was a way to circumvent it before her children went to school, but when this happened, wasn't it ten years from now?

In other words, your daughter has been married for at least ten years. Do you think she's going to have no children in 10 years? Surely not? I don't think any woman will hate children, right? Because her own children are different from other people's children.

As long as a woman is a mother, she will love her children. Even if the woman hates her child in the end, it will only be after a lot of things have happened. When a child is born, there is no mother who hates it.

Therefore, your daughter must have had a child by that time. Moreover, the children are already in school. Even if the child is born later, do you think that the child will not go to kindergarten after all these years? As long as he goes to kindergarten, it is impossible for your daughter's child not to know that his grandfather is sleeping on the road. Kindergarten teachers will talk about it. "That Shou Bo said. (To be continued.) )