Chapter 632: Qianbao has a big secret
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"Sister Meiwei, he's there, he's there!" Vivi pointed to a corner of the room as if frightened.
Xiao Qian went over and hugged her and patted her gently.
"It's okay, it's a dream. ”
Weiwei's current situation is called flashback, when a normal person encounters an injury, she will continue to repeat the picture of the first injury in her mind for a period of time, during this time Weiwei will not only have nightmares, sometimes she will scream when others touch her, this is a flashback reaction.
Women who have been violently assaulted, especially those who are not very old, will be in a state of depression or numbness for a long time, and if they do not intervene in time for professional psychological counseling, this kind of injury will continue to haunt her for a lifetime.
It will even affect her future marriage, Xiaoqian has seen many such cases, adult women have no feeling in the married life after marriage with their husbands, they are full of hostility and defensiveness towards men, and they can't even open their hearts to face the world, because there is always a voice in their hearts that tells them that the world is full of harm.
"Sister Meiwei, I feel so painful to live, as soon as I close my eyes, he is there, he beats me, he makes me very dirty..."
"Baby, it's not your fault. ”
Xiao Qian used the word baby on her, which is a unique intervention method of psychiatrists in dealing with such patients, and when Xiao Qian called her baby, Weiwei's eyes were red.
"It's my fault, if I don't get born, if I get adopted by another uncle, it won't happen, it's all my fault..."
The denial of the value of self-existence is also one of the unique psychology of women after being hurt.
Xiaoqian originally thought that this was a depression patient who could be treated with a sand table, but she didn't expect that depression was just the tip of the iceberg, and there were so many unknown things hidden under the iceberg.
It seems that the treatment is going to change.
Now she has to vent her fear of this matter, otherwise she will use this fear on herself, not only will she not be able to continue to treat her depression, but she will also develop other mental illnesses in the future.
Seeing Weiwei like this, Xiao Qian had no pity for what might happen to that livestock man.
Everyone thinks that the wound on the person is the most terrible, but who understands how painful the wound is in the person's heart?
For example, walking on the road, being punched for no reason, this visible wound will always scar after treatment, but treating this kind of QJ is not only physical injury, the most terrible thing is the injury from the heart and social public opinion, the injury of social public opinion is from the outside world, but the injury in the heart is reserved for yourself.
A person's heart is hurt, he can't see or touch it, only he knows, he can only let the wound in his heart become infected and suppurated, and finally become incurable, can time heal everything?
Some injuries can be and some cannot, and the psychological injury of Weiwei in this situation will not be good for a lifetime without professional intervention.
People can only see that this is a living person, she has the appearance of a normal person, more than ten years or even decades have passed, her broken heart is unknown, and even this terrible psychological damage will be passed on to her next generation.
Women who have been treated violently have their own offspring, and some of them will have uncontrolled child abuse, which is a chain reaction caused by the unhealed wounds in their hearts.
Xiao Qian looked at this trembling little girl, and became more determined in her plan to eliminate harm for the people, and at the same time, she also decided to change the treatment plan for Weiwei, starting with venting her emotions.
Yu Minglang came back with a ball with a blue nose and swollen face and Yu Liumei rubbing her arms.
Liumei complained while changing her shoes, "Brother Lang, you are such a scumbag, you even beat women!"
"Are you a woman?, I see that when you kick at the key part of my ancestry, you are full of feelings!" Yu Minglang was also slightly injured, but it was stronger than the two goods around him.
The three of them had a hearty fight, and the fire in their hearts went out a little.
Yu Minglang let the two of them go, and they didn't make much effort, but they accompanied them through fists and feet, and everyone had fire in their hearts, and it would be okay if this fire was vented.
"Don't say it, I don't seem to be so angry in my heart, I think about it, what Qian always said is right, if I kill it directly, wouldn't it be more important for the livestock to find evidence of backbiting?"
smashed a punch at Yu Minglang's chest, "Thanks, buddy!"
"I'll have a drink later, I don't have to go back tonight. ”
"That's good, let Mr. Qian cook two dishes, let's drink some. "Men's friendships are all played, and after Qiuqiu was beaten by Yu Minglang, he found that Yu Minglang was quite worthy of friendship.
"Don't, she will burn the kitchen when she cooks, Qianbao will go, take Weiwei to the restaurant!" Yu Minglang saw that Xiaoqian didn't come out, so he shouted.
There was no one in the house, and Yu Minglang was thinking about where Xiao Qian had gone, when the door of the resident on the other side of the corridor opened.
Xiaoqian came out of Ye Xiaoyu's house, carrying a notebook in her hand, and made a shushing gesture on her mouth.
Why is this?
Yu Minglang and the three of them went over, and Xiao Qian lowered her voice and said, "The three of you go back to our house, don't talk, and don't interrupt my treatment." ”
Treatment?Yu Liumei looked at the sand table in the living room, and the sand table was still there.
"Sister-in-law, aren't you taking Weiwei to play in the sand?"
"The sand tray therapy is no longer sufficient for the current stage of treatment, and I am going to add an empty chair therapy. ”
"Empty chair?"
"I'll go back to you science popularization, what should you three do now, don't bother me, no matter what sound there is here, you won't be allowed to come over for a while. ”
Xiaoqian didn't have time to explain to them, and motioned to Yu Minglang to take someone to her home, she closed the door and continued the treatment.
Yu Minglang almost obeyed Xiaoqian, and his daughter-in-law said that if he treated, then treat, he entered the house and was about to fight the landlord with Yu Liumei and Qiuqiu, when suddenly, Yu Minglang was attracted by the things in the sand table in the living room.
Yu Minglang's sixth sense and memory are much better than ordinary people, he will have an impression of everything he has seen, and he remembers that before he took the ball and they went downstairs, this sand table was empty.
This is the time he came down the stairs.
Yu Minglang walked into the room shared by Weiwei and Liumei, reached out and touched the quilt, there was still residual warmth inside.
In other words, Wei Wei didn't get up long ago, which proved that this sand table, which seemed to take a lot of time, was his Qianbao.
This is all an act carried out under the influence of the subconscious, and Yu Minglang's intuition tells him that this sand table hides the secret of his Qianbao.