Chapter 934: Little Things
The doorman said, "No." Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 Info sir, I know you're not having it easy. But, my lord, I know that it is not easy for you and whether I agree with your difficulty are completely different things. I don't know if you understand what I mean. If you understand, it's more negotiable. But if you don't understand, then I'll explain it too.
Because, if I agree with what you say, then I will also go to the toilet. However, I didn't want to go to the toilet. You persuaded me to say this nicely, but isn't it difficult for a strong man to say it badly? Please don't be angry, I didn't mean to offend you at all. Because, in my heart, I always respect you.
Otherwise, I wouldn't have to stay here and discuss with you, right? It is precisely because of my respect for you that I have the patience to talk about problems with you again and again. My reason is simple, I just want to be able to solve this task perfectly. That is the case. I can. ”
"Can you do anything? Do you want to do things with me? It's not impossible to do things with me. Actually, let's be honest. Anyway, you've already taken out your heart and lungs with me, and if I don't dig out my heart and lungs, I won't be able to say anything. In my heart, when I elected you as my representative, I already had the idea of taking you out of here.
I think so. You'd better come with me to the bathroom now. Because, there are some things that are not suitable for being said here, do you understand what I mean? It seems that you don't understand. But you always understand that there are some things that can't be explained, right? Or maybe there are things that you have to do even if you don't understand them, right?
Why? Don't you understand? You're really sluggish. Fortunately, your heart is not bad, and you are more faithful. If you have a bad heart, and if you are disloyal, and if you are so stupid, I will certainly remove you from your post here. But for the sake of your contributions, I'll give you another chance.
I'll talk about the rest well, and you have to listen to it. Listen well. If I don't understand it, then I can't do anything about it. This is your only chance, and I don't want to explain to you so hard that you will desert me. If you don't understand, it doesn't matter, you can ask me again after listening to what I said.
When the time comes, I will answer once if you ask, and I will answer twice if you ask twice, and in short, I will answer as many times as you ask. I don't want you to figure it out all at once this time, but I ask you to figure it out. Because, only in this way, can I take you to the capital star with confidence.
Otherwise, if I bring a stupid assistant by my side, you know what the consequences will be, right? Many times good intentions do bad things and do me a bad favor, not only will it not satisfy me, but it will also cause me trouble. My boss doesn't blame you, he blames me in the end. Then it will become more and more difficult for me to complete my task.
In the end, one is not good, maybe I will be demoted. And as long as I am demoted, then the resentment in my heart will have nowhere to vent, and it will definitely fall on your head in the end. Do you think that's good? Is this what you'd like to see? Definitely not, right?
So, now you have to prick up your ears and give me a good listen. In this way, you can barely keep up with the height of your mind in the future. Actually, this is the case. You go to the toilet with me, it seems like a small thing, but many times, we have to look at a person not from the big things, but from the small things.
It's like going to the toilet this time. If I let you go, you don't have any reason to refuse. That's what makes a good subordinate. Even if you don't want to, you should not hesitate to accept my orders. Because, such a talent is liked by superiors. Do you know why? If your subordinates are not obedient, then I ask you why do you want to be subordinates?
In other words, you have to be able to control people. If you can't let your subordinate go to the toilet, then you have to ask your subordinate to do more important things in the future, and then he refuses? Can he still do good things?
Do you see what I mean now? It may seem like an ordinary command, but the truth is, it's more of a test. The test is whether you are obedient to me, not whether you are strong. Of course. If I were you, I wouldn't feel good in my heart.
Because, you have just made it clear to me that you don't want to go to the toilet, you don't want to go, but if I have the idea of being obedient, I will not be as determined as you are not to go to the toilet, rather than confronting my boss, I would rather believe that obedient people are more likely to receive the likes and appreciation of their superiors.
So, after thinking about it, I'll go to the toilet anyway. Now do you know what you're supposed to do? Why? Still don't understand? Oh my God. Is your brain a pig's brain? I've explained it so clearly to you, why don't you get the hang of it at all? Okay. I've already made my decision anyway, so I'll give you another example.
You don't have children yet, right? But you must have parents, don't you? Do you remember when you were young? Surely there are? There must be? There can't be a child who has never been beaten from birth to growing up and working, right? If there is such a child, then it is not a big deal.
Because, as the old saying goes, beating is scolding and scolding. This makes a lot of sense. You don't understand the reasoning, do you? I'll tell you. The reason for beating you is that you have done something wrong and you have disobeyed the orders of your parents, so let you remember that when you leave your parents and go out to live alone in the future, you cannot disobey the orders of your superiors.
Because, after you are born, the earliest superiors are your parents, and if you want to live a good life and live a relaxed and comfortable life, the most important thing is to obey your parents, that is, to obey your superiors. So, why do parents love obedient children. You understand now, right?
And why scold you. Actually, the reason is simpler. Because scolding you because your thinking is wrong, that is, you have drilled the horns, and you put too much emphasis on your own feelings, as you are now. Although we are now advocating freedom. However, freedom also depends on the situation. If you can be free at all times, then there are no constraints.
Without constraints, there is no execution, and without execution, there is no cohesion. Big things are good. If everybody is free, how can our army be managed?"
The doorman said, "That's right." If the people in the army are also free, then everything will not be managed. But that's the army after all. We are not an army relationship. Do you think it's better for us to have a better relationship between superiors and subordinates in the military? In that case, I don't think it's good. Because, in the army, relations are very stiff.
In other words, if our relationship becomes a relationship between superiors and subordinates in the military, then it will be difficult for us to get close. The relationship between the army is very rigid, and we are not allowed to drink and eat meat like our friends, and it is even more impossible to talk to each other. If I talk to you like this now, Mr. Commissioner, and solve the doubts in my heart, then I can only count on others.
However, I don't want to talk to anyone else. Don't look at me as a doorman, but I'm not a sociable person. I hope to do things with adults, and I don't want to have too much contact with other people, so I still hope to maintain a good relationship with adults.
Because, in this case, if I encounter any psychological problems in the future, I can still discuss with adults. But if our relationship becomes the kind of superior-subordinate relationship in the army, then you won't be able to talk to you when I find an adult. That would be very embarrassing. My lord, do you want things to turn out like this?
I don't think you want that, sir, right? Because it's better to have a subordinate who can talk to you than to have a subordinate who can only take orders. What's more, I was actually scared. Adult, you may not understand why I am afraid, but the truth is that I am afraid of becoming in a relationship like that. ”
"Why?" said Na Shoubo, "what is there to be afraid of? I will not harm you." Are you worried that I'm going to hurt you? I will never hurt you. Because, if I really want to hurt you, where can you take precautions, right? I do this in the hope that you will be well.
Because, as you said, there is no boss who doesn't like subordinates who can talk to each other. I'll give you back the same words now. There is no boss who doesn't want his subordinates to have a good life. So, I still hope you can do well. We can be friends, but before we do that, I want you to understand one thing. We are colleagues first, and then friends.
It's not a friend relationship first, and then a working relationship. If we don't do our job well and our superiors are not satisfied, then even if we are friends, it will be difficult for us to maintain a relationship for too long. Friendly friendships can only become a burden, and eventually they will be worn down by time.
Do you understand what I mean? Don't you understand? I know you don't. Because, your IQ is not that high. Your IQ is too low. Let me tell you. Actually, this is the case. If you and I are friends first and then work, then if you are satisfied with your work, then of course I am happy.
And as long as I am happy, our friendship will be stronger, and the friendship will be deeper. But if all else doesn't go so well, things will go in a completely different direction. Can you think of it? It seems that you can't think of it. Then I'll move on.
It's actually quite simple. If you don't succeed in my mission, what will happen to you? That is, your impression in my heart will deteriorate. There's no disagreement with that, right? What about next? There's something even more terrible to come. I would be blamed and abused by my superiors.
Because, I can't pay the errand. When the time comes, my boss will talk like that, it's all you. If it weren't for you, how could this mission not be completed? I had already arranged for other people, and it was you who volunteered to recommend your subordinates. What happened now? The mission failed?
How are you going to be responsible? Apologize? Is the apology useful? If the apology is useful, then shall I apologize to my boss? See if he will forgive me? Brother, I call you this respect, if I don't respect you, I would have scolded you a long time ago, okay?
Haven't you heard the saying, as the saying goes, with great power comes great responsibility, and if you can't handle this thing well. At that time, I gave you the task out of complete trust in you, and what happened to you? You also gave me a ticket, saying that I would definitely succeed.
And what about the result? Didn't you fail? So just apologizing is not enough. If I accept your apology, my superiors will not accept it. He will be held accountable. Therefore, you must be responsible for not completing your task. But is it responsible to apologize?
Not count. You don't have any objection to that, right? Then I'll just say it. In fact, this time, I don't need you to be responsible, as long as it means. Because, I'm not an unenlightened person. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes, and if you make a mistake and immediately deny the whole person, it will be inhumane.
The most important thing for us in the Federation right now is the spirit of humanity. So, so be it. I'll help you deduct this month's salary. Even if you're in charge, okay? Once this happens, what do you think I'll think in my heart? I'm going to feel very uncomfortable. So what else can I do?
Am I going to complain to you? Am I going to spit out my bitterness? I can't. If you're just a subordinate of mine, then I can do that. Because, our relationship is limited to colleagues only. But the problem is, you're not. You're still my friend. So, I can't do that.
If I do, I'll hurt you. Therefore, I could only swallow the bitter water into my stomach. As the saying goes, you can't hurt yourself and others, this is the real friend. But friends are friends, and friends can't always hurt, right? What if you fail the second mission?
Do you think my superiors just deducted my salary? No, no. Do you know why? Because it's already been deducted once. If they deduct your wages again, it will only say that you are stupid.
Because, they understand that I have already been deducted from my salary last time, and I am already in pain, and if I deduct it again, it is equivalent to cutting another knife in my already injured part, instead of sprinkling salt. It's painful for me, but it doesn't make it too painful. Other words. The second time, if they deduct my salary again, I need to make sure that the re-deduction will still make me feel pain.
If I'm thick-skinned, this trick won't work. If it won't work, why would they risk it again, right? Therefore, they will punish me more severely than deducting my salary. ”