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Unlike many Western films, TV dramas, and movies, Japanese movies like to shoot something like love, even if it is imported from abroad, they also like to pick out posters and stills to depict love.

Romance novels are the most popular novels in Japan.

There's a reason for that.

The real and most important reason is that many Japanese men and women who are looking for a marriage partner never consider feelings as a criterion.

Whenever it comes to marriage partners and blind date goals, boys tend to find a girl who is docile, does housework well, can take care of children well, and honors their parents, but what about girls' tendencies?

Most Japanese people never take "handsome" and "deep feelings" into account when choosing a marriage goal.

It's completely different from what everyone thinks, right?

But that's just the way it is.

When Japanese people choose to marry, they are more concerned about the competence of their partners in the family, and there is very little consideration for love and papapa, so some couples are still not interested in each other after marriage, but just play various roles and maintain the family.

This is why many Japanese couples can no longer get any comfort from each other after ten years of marriage, and they are like ordinary family members with each other, because they have no emotional foundation, and after a year or two of marriage, once the freshness passes, there is nothing, and they just devote their energy to their children and family.

The docile and humble Japanese housewife and the cold and passive working husband both play a role in the family, and the harmonious family relationship that seems to outsiders is actually just that the two parties do not communicate much, which is why many Japanese couples have very little sex after a few years of marriage.

Why is the custom industry and **** so hot, because the man needs it, why is the Kansai Genesys office so hot, Takuya Kimura can conquer the whole of Japanese housewives because the woman needs it.

Romance novels, romance movies are so popular because everyone needs them.

Of course, it is not possible to generalize, there are some Japanese couples who get married because of their feelings, but most of them are like this.

After listening to Uesugi Soyuki's remarks, the girls stopped talking, and only Rina Ikoma asked with difficulty, "That... Uesugi-san, am I going to be, and in the future, to be that kind of housewife, the kind of housewife you call a housewife who has no affection for her husband but barely stays together?"

"Then it's up to you, do you want a stable, stable life, or do you want to pursue your true love?But I think Ikoma you might have to ask your grandfather first, hahaha~" Uesugi Soyuki smiled: "Anyway, I will definitely make my own decisions about my marriage, and my grandfather agrees to this." ”

"Eh, eh~ What are the conditions for Uesugi Sang's mate selection? Is it also a good housework and docile personality, can you take care of your children and honor your parents?" Takayama then asked, the girl touching her elbow with one hand and supporting her chin with the other, and her thoughtful look made people want to laugh.

Hearing this, the girls' eyes were all fixed on Uesugi Soyuki, and their eyes lit up one by one, and even Nanase Nishino raised her head.

Mai Shiraishi and Nanami Hashimoto stared at him even more.

"For me, my words, I don't think much about it, what I want, um... Sure enough, it's still true love, because for me, housework is done by maids, and housekeepers deal with it, and then I don't live with my parents, as long as I go to see it during the New Year's holidays, and get together occasionally, I don't need to say that I am filial to my parents, and I am with me, and I don't have to worry about being bullied by my mother or something... As for going out to do odd jobs, how could I let my woman go out to do odd jobs? As long as it is what I want, I can buy it for her, and I will be my wife at home, and I will not go out every once in a while to do things, and I will be very satisfied. Uesugi said.

"As for accommodation and other issues, don't worry, I will naturally buy a property for her to live in Roppongi or Minato, and then if she likes it, she can open her own clothing store, play with fashion design, make a restaurant or something like that, and take her to Paris, Milan, New York and the like once a year... ”

"Regarding the problem of daily time, my words are basically to go to work at nine o'clock in the morning, get off work at five o'clock in the evening, be on duty one day a week, two days off a week, and then have fifteen days of paid vacation every year, not counting other holidays, I don't like to go out to socialize all day, so I usually spend a lot of time together, and I also like to spend more time with my family, or take her out to travel or something like that. Uesugi Muneyuki clasped his hands on his chest and said his conditions.

"So, I only have two requirements for choosing a mate, the first is that I really like it and want to be with her, and the second is that I don't like to run out all day long, like to go to night clubs and so on, just don't make trouble every once in a while. ”

Uesugi Soyuki came out of his memories and found that the girls were all looking at him with their mouths wide open, and Takayama Ichimi was even drooling.

And Mai Shiraishi and Nanami Hashimoto looked very happy, very happy, the two girls thought about it for a while, and felt that they were very suitable for Uesugi Soyuki's mate selection, and they would not like to go out all day and make trouble outside, obviously, this man was deliberately talking to them.

"That... Oh, Uesugi-san, do you still lack a girlfriend?" asked Rina Ikoma very excitedly.

"Oh oh oh, Director Uesugi, I'll graduate tomorrow, and then we'll have a relationship!"

"Okay... It's amazing... "This is Yumi Wakatsuki.

"Hahaha~ I'm sorry, I don't lack a girlfriend now, and I don't need to date, you still obediently be an idol!" Uesugi Soyuki shook his head with a smile, he saw Nango Yui lying on the bar weakly, with an expression of "I choose death", and Satomi Ichiro also looked at him with slanted eyes, with an expression of "How can they still have the heart to be idols after you say this".

"Hey, hey, you all know what Uesugi-san's background is, so don't think about it and be an idol well! Satomi Ichiro finally decided to come forward to stop these little idols, some of which were unrealistic.

"The seniors are very good! I have never seen the kind of frame of many men in him!" Mai Shiraishi suddenly spoke, and when she heard the girl's words, Nanami Hashimoto nodded in agreement.

Uesugi Soyuki thought to herself that Mai Shiraishi deserved to be a girl with high emotional intelligence, but in fact, Mai Shiraishi would be so good with herself, and there was also this reason in it.

This is the chronic disease of Japanese men, and it is also the fuse of many couples who do not have a harmonious relationship.

Japanese men are mostly polite and respectful in front of people, and often leave a good impression, but once they return home, there are many men's temperament that changes directly, they often rely on their own wages to support the whole family, and often like to be the head of the family, enjoying the pleasure of calling and drinking to and fro, and sometimes venting the unhappiness in the workplace on their own families, meek and humble wives often choose to endure, and if they live with the man's parents, the wife not only has to endure the husband's call and drink, but also endure the discipline of the mother-in-law and the command of the father-in-law。

This is the same as the Celestial Empire, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a difficult topic among the Japanese, many times the mother-in-law has to find a reason to teach the daughter-in-law a lesson, and there is a proverb that "autumn eggplants can't be eaten by daughter-in-law".

(Autumn eggplant is the most expensive and delicious time, and the implication of not being able to give it to the daughter-in-law is that you can't be too good to the daughter-in-law, otherwise she will go to heaven.) ）

Japanese men also value the majesty of the head of their family, and sometimes they have to discipline their wives in front of outsiders at every turn to show that they are the head of the family.

In many cases, contradictions accumulate even like this.

Of course, in order to maintain the majesty of the head of the family, the price paid by Japanese men is very painful, they have to pay all their monthly wages, and they can only keep a little as pocket money, and the saddest thing is that when people reach middle age, once Japanese men are laid off, it is difficult to find a job in the economic downturn, and once they can't make money to support their families, they can't be the head of the family, and the family's care and worries often become a huge burden, so many middle-aged men are laid off, they have to pretend to go to work in suits and leather shoes, pretend that they are not laid off, and then desperately look for jobs outside, and go to the poor area at noon to receive relief meals abound。

Uesugi even saw a Sony Music employee in his forties laid off because he had been sick for several months in a row, and he was even willing to go out and sit in the park all day every day instead of telling his family about the fact that he was laid off.

In fact, there are not a few people who sit in the park, it's quite common.

In the end, Uesugi Soyuki inspected it, and found that this person still had some talents, and then it was not a chronic disease, and after several exchanges and investigations, he asked Kitagawa Kenji to arrange for him to enter the Beihe office to work, and the middle-aged man bowed ninety degrees three times on the spot, and he was sent to kneel.

This is also the most annoying place for Japanese men from the perspective of the Celestial Empire's technology nerd, so taking people as a mirror can tell the gains and losses, Uesugi Soyuki has always given respect and love to Mai Shiraishi and Nanami Hashimoto and even his previous ex-girlfriend Yui Aragaki in this regard, and the tone is mostly gentle and discussed, Mai Shiraishi and Nanai Hashimoto can feel that this man really respects himself and loves himself, so he naturally dies to him.

A man with such excellent conditions and such a good personality is really unique.

As for gakki.。。。 It seemed like she thought it should be, but now... You should know it's different, right?Uesugi suddenly smiled unnaturally.

The girls all hit a spirit, Satomi Ichiro's words let them know that they were thinking too much, and when they saw the show end, it was a little late, and the girls scattered in all directions, and Mai Shiraishi pulled Nanami Hashimoto back to her room.

Before leaving, the girl secretly whispered in his ear: "Senior~ waiting for me and Nanami at night! ”

Waiting? What could that be? Uesugi Soyuki's heart fluttered.

He was suddenly looking forward to tonight's "event".