By the beginning of the second half of the semester, Hongyun was in a large class. Lu Lei saw her and asked her why she didn't join him anymore, and she said that she had been upgraded. So the next day, Hongyun also saw Lu Lei in Taipan.

Hongyun was surprised, but immediately understood, emotional transfer. You have to do a good job of emotional management, and you can't scare other people's children with impatience. Such a child can't be hurt, so he has to slowly transfer his feelings, or slowly accept the pain of loss.

The children in the kindergarten are much more mature than the children in the middle class, and they have begun to imitate the way adults deal with many things. It's fun to watch groups of children become self-centered and slowly become compromised and considerate of others. From ignorant and weak to children who form a team to resist destructive power and unruly, they know how to help their peers cover up their mistakes and gain friendship.

There is also a child of Lu Lei, who has a natural talent for leadership since he was a child, and he can make the children obedient unconsciously, and Hongyun feels that talent is really here to destroy self-confidence.

I quarreled and quarreled, and I didn't get anything, but I got it lightly.

She also saw Qin Hongyu, who has shown a talent for communication since she was a child, and she is like a fish in water communicating with children.

Emotional management, otherwise you will explode again.

When someone else's request or behavior violates you and disrespects you, speak out loud or fight back in time. Instead of suffering in silence, and at the same time going to others to confide in and denounce others for this inappropriate practice.

Some children are born with a penchant for instructing others, pointing fingers at others' behavior, and forcing others to accept their ideas, which is also common in the adult world.

The adult world is more complicated, a lot of emotions are tangled together, threats, temptations, complaints, and various conflicts of interest, and it is easy to be bullied and deceived if the brain is not clear.

Therefore, you must often regulate your emotions and find a way to solve the problem, otherwise the accumulation of various negative emotions will only make your burden heavier and heavier, the contradiction will not be resolved, and finally it will explode, or you will get both physical and mental damage.

If it is said that the inability to see the meaning of other people's actions is the weakness of Hongyun, how to deal with contradictions and disputes is also a big problem for Hongyun to deal with people. This is also an important reason why Grandpa Gu sent him to school.

Hongyun slowly began to consciously teach Lu Lei some knowledge, guiding him to learn, how to find his own interests, in kindergarten, elementary school, junior high school and high school are actually the time to find the future direction, through learning various knowledge, to find the depths of the heart, in line with their own behavior pattern. Of course, there are many people who have not been found until they die, but follow the trajectory given by others, half-dead and mixed.

Finding the soul in one's body and finding one's favorite way of life is also the goal and direction of Fortune.

There are a lot of things in the world, and if you don't try them, you never know how you will behave and how you will deal with them. It's better to experience it at a young age when the damage is less. Instead of the current mode of going to school: exams, exams, exams.

Slowly Grandpa Gu found that Hongyun had become calmer, no longer anxious, no longer said anything about things that he was not used to seeing before, and no longer got angry at every turn, Grandpa Gu felt that it was right for him to let Hongyun make the kindergarten.

But Grandpa Gu also found that Hongyun was always deserting when he was studying, and the progress was repeatedly delayed, at first he thought that the children were in a mood, but later found out that it was not, and he couldn't help but ask Hongyun one day: "Hongyun, why don't you like to study recently?"

"Grandpa, I don't know if I like to study medicine or not, I seem to like a lot of things. But which one is better for me? If you only do the same, the results will not be the same as later.

"Before you find something more meaningful than studying medicine, don't start if you like it but don't start, or you will divide your limited energy into a lot of points, and your advantage of learning and comprehension will become mediocre if you are smarter than others, or even not go to ordinary people. Try to do what you enjoy at the moment, don't be half-hearted, or it won't be easy to achieve nothing. ”

Hongyun felt that he needed to digest it, and he still had so much time, why did he choose to study medicine? Thinking about the terrible medical market in later generations, Hongyun was afraid. When the doctor was stabbed by a group of ignorant people one day.

When you are in a weak position, everyone will want to step on it, and people who usually seem to be honest are more likely to step on you. After being pulled down from the high altar, the group of doctors has become a vulnerable group with no one to protect. It's easy for people to think about bullying, which is also the so-called "broken window effect".

Hongyun told Grandpa Gu that he wanted to play with children recently, and he would look for him when he figured it out.

Grandpa Gu is very helpless, the child is still young, although he is very mature, he still likes to play and likes new things.

In the following days, Hongyun played with Lu Lei every day, imitating Lu Lei's behavior patterns and methods, trying to find inspiration for leadership.

"Hongyun, I think you seem to be like me recently, do you like me?" Lu Lei said shyly while covering his face.

"Of course I like you!" The likes of later generations have been rotten on the street, but Lu Lei's children are indeed very likable. In addition to loving to stick to her, she is also well-behaved, polite, planned, organized, and clean.

looks so beautiful, I want to kiss it when I look at it, but I won't kiss it when I grow up. Hongyun looked left and right, saw that no one was paying attention, and kissed Lu Lei's child's face with a "poof".

Lu Lei's child blushed with shame, but he also took advantage of people's inattention to kiss Hongyun again.

Hongyun touched Lu Lei's head funny: "Good!" The old aunt's face was exposed.

Lu Lei's children pretended to paint his paintings as if nothing happened, very imaginative paintings, there was a blue sky, two children sat side by side on the swing, smiling happily, in front of the swing was a small river, a group of ducks. The blue sky, the red sun, this artistic conception is quite complete.

"Is it good-looking?" Lu Lei looked up at Hongyun and asked for praise.

"Great!" Hongyun was very cheering, "Who are these two children?"

"You and me. Let's play together forever, okay?" Lu Lei asked expectantly.

"Okay, we'll be together forever. Hongyun touched Lu Lei's child's head again.

"Don't touch my head, okay?" Lu Lei asked again, only elders like to touch people's heads.

"Okay. Hongyun touched it again.

“……”

Happy days always pass quickly, not long after the start of school, there is a child in the kindergarten who has a fever, at the beginning of the low-grade fever, the parents just give some antipyretics, after a few days of sudden high fever can not go to school, rash on the body, go to the hospital to know that it is chickenpox. The disease soon spread in the kindergarten, and Lu Lei's children did not resist it.

Hongyun asked Grandpa Gu to prescribe Chinese medicine to Lu Lei, sent it to him with his grandfather, and emphasized to Lu's father: This is the prescription prescribed by the famous old Chinese medicine doctor Gu Liangxia, and it is her neighbor. I was afraid that Dad Lu would think that the source of the medicine was not right and gave it away, Dad Lu thanked Hongyun and Grandpa. Gu Liangchun had also heard of his name, and he was very relieved to give his son decoction and take it.

After returning home, after eating, Hongyun fell asleep and began to have a fever, and the family rested early, because Hongyun slept alone, and no one paid attention. Or when my grandfather got up at night, he checked whether the child had kicked the quilt and found that Hongyun was talking nonsense, touching his head and burning his hands.

called Li Xiulan and Hong Mianfa up and sent them to the hospital overnight.