As soon as he thought of this, the doorman's eyes lit up, and he smiled proudly and satisfiedly: "That's it." Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 Although the Captain of the Planet is powerful and has a lot of wealth, he also has a family. And as long as a person has a family, it is equivalent to having care.

It's a good thing for anyone to have a concern, but it's not absolute. If you change the environment, change the situation, it may not be a good thing, or even a bad thing, a big bad thing. The reason is simple, it can become a weakness in a person.

Whether it's a man or a woman, even if you were invincible in the world and are already the most powerful person in the entire Federation, it won't make any difference. Because, no matter how powerful a person is, he can only ensure that he is powerful, and how can he ensure that his wife and children are powerful? If it is a woman, how can he ensure that his husband is powerful?

There are no guarantees. Since there is no guarantee, if you want your family to be safe, there is only one way, and that is to protect them. But does protection really work? If it is in normal times, it will certainly be useful, and people will be afraid of your great power and will not dare to do anything to your family.

After all, if you do it like that, you are looking for death. However, if it is a special case, it is difficult to say. Because, in special cases, there is an essential difference from the present. For example, encountering outlaws. Because, if those outlaws, they don't think about their own life and death.

In other words, even if they think about their own life and death, they will not be like those ordinary people, for their own lives, they can compromise everywhere, relatively speaking, their approach is much stronger and bolder. In their minds, instead of pleading with the mighty monk, it is better to keep their families under control.

In this way, you can threaten the other party in turn. And it is this kind of thinking that is the most terrifying. For those powerful monks, these are the things that worry them the most. This is because they can guarantee that their cultivation is always improving, but they cannot guarantee that their wives or husbands and children will also become monks.

After all, everyone has their own ambitions. If you forcibly force your wife, husband and children to follow you as monks, it is unwise, it is equivalent to a kind of mental compulsion, and a family that was originally very harmonious may fall apart because of such a small matter, and in the end it may even be a rift and divorce.

Of course. In the past, divorce was never allowed. Because in the past, people were polite, righteous and honest, everyone will think that this is a shameful thing, once divorced, it means that your ability in marriage is very poor and poor, and it can even be said that you are a person with no sense of responsibility.

Whether it is a man or a woman, whether they have a sense of responsibility or not is to be looked down upon. There is even a need to spit, so once such a situation arises, it is impossible to find a new partner. It is equivalent to being lonely for a lifetime. Therefore, in the past, when it was still the period of civilization on earth, our ancestors followed the same path.

Either you don't get married, and once you really get married, you will definitely not divorce easily. Unless it is a special circumstance, it is really a last resort. For example, in the event of some wars, both sides made this decision in order to be able to survive better, or for the children to have one side to grow up with.

Where is it like my current federal concept of marriage. As long as there is a disagreement, you may have to get divorced, and you may even have to divorce because of some details that are too small to be smaller. For example, who didn't wash their socks, or didn't make dinner today, or no one wants to do hygiene.

This must be an unacceptable thing in the eyes of the ancestors of the past earth civilization period, and it is also something that I have some difficulty accepting. Of course. Having said that, there are also long-term families in our federation. Relatively speaking, the long-term family is not those ordinary people, but the family of one of the monks.

Because, if you are a monk, you will cherish this aspect of affection. It's different from ordinary people. Because ordinary people often have to revolve around the family, relatively speaking, there is almost nothing in daily life that they don't worry about for the family. In this way, after a long time, it will get boring.

And once you get bored, your mood becomes very bad and bad, like a powder keg, once it explodes, it is unimaginably terrible. Of course, there are more terrible existences, such as sometimes, both people are in a bad mood, the man is blamed by his boss for his work outside, and the woman at home is also blamed by the mother-in-law.

In this way, after the two people meet, if everyone is quiet during the meal, it doesn't matter, at least in this way, the resentment in the hearts of the two will be slowly resolved. But as soon as one of the parties starts talking and complaining about the unfair treatment they have received, then the family is doomed.

Because, the other party has no less resentment in his heart at this time than the rest of you. In that case, what else do you have to argue about? If it is normal and only one party is angry, at least the party who is not angry is still calm, and can accept this grievance well, and then comfort the other party.

In this way, the conflicts of the family will also disappear. But in this particular situation, it will only make the resentment grow, and in the end, the quarrel between the two sides will definitely turn into a battle. In other words, there will definitely be a big fight. If the family doesn't have children, that's fine.

Because, in this case, it is only a fight between men and women, but if there are children. This situation is even worse. The child will cry out loud because of the intense fear. As long as a child in a family cries, it is even more irritable.

Because, at that time, the child's cry was not a good regulator, but on the contrary, it was the wire that detonated the last explosive.

The woman, who is the mother of the child, will not be able to stand it in the first place. She would also cry along with it, and then, mental problems could easily occur. Then the man will cry as well. It seems that this quarrel is over. It's all because of the children, everyone no longer fights and no longer has quarrels. But in fact, these are all illusions. In other words.

After everyone calms down, both parties will also consume all their feelings for each other. In that case, both parties will definitely divorce in the end. As long as there is a divorce, then the children will be miserable. In fact, the worst thing is not the children, but both men and women. Because it was a painful but had to make a decision.

Everyone calmed down, knowing that once the rift appeared, continuing to forcibly stick together would only make each other more painful. Therefore, divorce is the last option for the benefit of both parties. Of course. This is a good thing for both parties, but it is a big bad thing for the child.

Because, this means that from now on, that child will be the child of a single-parent family. Although the concept of the people in our federation is very enlightened now, it is not enlightened in everything, such as the concept of this family, which is actually not much different from the ancestors of our earth civilization in the past.

As long as the child is from a single-parent family, he will be discriminated against. It's just a difference between the number of people who discriminate and the difference between the number of people who discriminate. That's just too cruel for a child. After all, he didn't make any mistakes, but in the end, he became the one who suffered.

I couldn't believe it was happening, but I had to accept it. After all, there are too many such things in reality. Of course. There is actually a certain reason and reason why people discriminate against children from single-parent families. It is unreasonable to discriminate against others for no reason.

Such discrimination, in turn, is despised by others. The reason why people discriminate against children from single-parent families is precisely because such children, no matter how pitiful they are, do not avoid the fact that they have to grow up in the company of their mother or father. In this way, such a child will definitely have a lack of emotion when he grows up, either fatherly love or maternal love.

And without father's love or mother's love, when he grows up, the child will definitely try every means to get this missing emotion from his partner. This leads to a very serious problem. If such a child can be satisfied, then there is no problem, but if he is not satisfied, it will be terrible.

That kind of child will turn into a thug in an instant. It's not that the child is willing to do this, but he doesn't have the experience to deal with this aspect of emotion, and he didn't have a good role model for his parents when he was young.

So, when he is not satisfied, he will commit violence against his partner in the same way that he did when his parents quarreled with him. It's pretty scary stuff. Not only will the child's partner suffer, but if the child also has a child, the next generation will also become the child of a new single-parent family.

This is completely predictable. After all, if there is always a fighting outbreak in a family, the probability that the family will break up is almost 100%. There is no family that is immune to these feuds. Therefore, in order not to fight, the average family will adopt an attitude of divorce.

However, it is okay for adults to do this, but it is not acceptable for children. Because the child is still young, there is a problem with his comprehension, and when his comprehension cannot be perfected, he boldly accepts such a result, and his values will inevitably be distorted. Once the distortion occurs, the child's life is over.

Therefore, how can a parent who is the child's partner support their child in a relationship with the offspring of that single-parent family? However, love is a flame that, once ignited, engulfs both parties. The end result is that the objections of both parents are null and void.

In this way, the possibility of elopement will be greatly increased. If there is no elopement in the end, then it is okay to say, but if it does, the two children will be doomed. Therefore, in order to avoid this dangerous situation, divorce is a helpless choice, although I am sorry for the children, but not doing it will only affect three people in the end.

If the divorce is only going to affect the child. In other words, it's the way to minimize the danger, and it's a choice that must be made. Any method of not getting a divorce is just a stopgap measure and will not last long.

But this situation is suitable for ordinary families. Because, the focus of ordinary people's lives is family. Without a family, it will be difficult for ordinary people to be happy in their lives, and without happiness, ordinary people will naturally have no way to live. But the monks are different. The focus of a monk's life is cultivation.

So, as the old saying goes, it's good. Little Bie is newlywed. The wives of monks are generally not monks, and if they were monks, the problem mentioned earlier would arise, and it would inevitably collide when the two people had the same focus in their lives. And once it collides, it will definitely leave damage, either to hurt yourself or to hurt others.

Even if neither of them is harmed, the child will be harmed. If the child married by the monk is an ordinary person, then there is no need to worry about what will happen to him. The reason is very simple, ordinary people do not have high requirements for whether they can stay together for a long time.

Their center is the family, in other words, the mother-in-law, or the father-in-law, or the child, and as to whether it is a husband or a wife, it is not the only one. As long as this family combination is successful, then the party who is an ordinary person will have something to rely on, and there will be happiness if there is dependence.

And the center of gravity of both husband and wife does not coincide, so it will not lead to quarrels between the parties. After all, everyone cares about different things. In other words, both parties can have autonomy over what they care about. It's not as good as the wife who cares about the children, and the husband who is dedicated to cultivation. Then the husband doesn't need to give any opinion. As long as the husband does not give an opinion, there will be a great satisfaction for the wife.

She will feel that she has the right to manage and protect her children well. In this family, at least the children are in charge. Then she will be very happy, and her life will be very happy, even if she has no power in other aspects, such as the economy, she will not have any complaints.

If this is changed in an ordinary family, where the wife has no economic power and has quarreled with her husband a long time ago, where will there be any satisfaction? But in the monk's family, it happens. Therefore, the family of the monk is much happier and happier than the family of ordinary people.

This leads to a new phenomenon. The monk's family will certainly be more loving than the ordinary family. In that case, the one who is a monk will naturally care about the other party very much. In this way, if you want to control a monk, you can not only rely on money, but also use a bolder method. That is to control the monk's companion.

The Planet Master is also a monk, and he must have valued his wife. Wouldn't asking him to take his wife hostage make him feel painful?"