So in addition to teaching Hongyun to read, Grandpa Gu has another important task, which is to deal with people.

It has been almost half a year since I started to bring Hongyun, and Hongyun can memorize prescriptions and traditional Chinese medicine, and the acupuncture meridian acupuncture points are also very accurate. Grandpa Gu has finished talking about "The Yellow Emperor's Inner Canon" and began to talk about "Treatise on Typhoid Fever".

Hongyun rarely asked why, Grandpa Gu asked her if she understood, and she said she understood. Grandpa Gu thought that she didn't know how to pretend to understand, but she knew everything when she asked, and she would say some insights that made him feel very novel. Grandpa Gu was comforted, feeling that he had someone to succeed in his knowledge, and he didn't choose the wrong person. But Grandpa Gu still has no clue, and it is really difficult to explain.

Once, a patient was a little angry and said directly to Hongyun: "Children's family, don't say don't talk."

It turned out to be a hypertensive patient, with high blood pressure, but he often didn't take medicine, and he would only take it when his blood pressure was high, and he didn't listen to it many times.

Hongyun told him that high blood pressure medicine cannot treat high blood pressure, it can only be controlled, so the medicine should be taken every day, otherwise the blood pressure is unstable, it will be easy to cerebral hemorrhage, cerebral embolism, and death.

If Grandpa Gu himself said this, there would be nothing wrong with it, and the patient wouldn't say anything even if he didn't listen, but for a little doll, it would be nonsense, even curses.

Grandpa Gu comforted him and said that the children are not sensible, don't mind. The patient scolded and walked away.

After the patient left, Grandpa Gu began to say to Hongyun: "Hongyun, this patient has been sick for a long time, and I have heard a lot of various words. You just have to say let him take his medication on time. He sighed and said, "Don't say too much to strangers, you don't know other people's taboos, and it's easy to poke a hornet's nest." Not everyone will find children cute and forgive you. Death is taboo for the living in China, and for the dead, we generally say that they are gone, and they are gone, and we will not directly say that they are dead. ”

He knew that Hongyun understood, this was a smart child, how could he not have any talent in dealing with people!

Hongyun nodded, she knew, but since the meaning was the same, why couldn't she say it, she liked to challenge differently.

"The meaning is the same, why can't you say it?" Hongyun still asked. Grandpa Gu's face was full of black lines: "You can just remember it, don't ask why." "It's the rule, there's no why.

Hongyun pouted to express dissatisfaction, and Grandpa Gu ignored her little emotions.

Another time, a person came to see a doctor, there were several people in front of him, he directly told Grandpa Gu in front of the patient that he was a relative of the leader of so-and-so, and he knew who and who, and directly asked to cut in line, so many patients watched, Grandpa Gu said that it was not appropriate.

The patient was very arrogant, so he wanted to cut the line, and Hongyun said, "You can't cut the line." ”

The patient scolded directly: "Where did you come from, little cub, when is your turn to speak, I have traveled from south to north, and no one dares to point fingers at me." Then he said a string of national curses. The patients all sat and watched, and some quietly withdrew, and no one spoke.

Hongyun's face turned red: "Who are you scolding?"

"Just scold you, why should I still beat you?" said that he was about to move his hand against Hong, how could Grandpa Gu let him fight Hongyun, and directly stopped: "Stop." Please get out, I won't treat you. The patient scolded and walked away. The next day, the patient came again, brought by a certain leader, and Grandpa Gu had to save face, but he still treated the person.

Hongyun felt that he was a nest, so he asked Grandpa Gu: "Why do you want to see a doctor for such a person?"

Grandpa Gu's face was not very good, and he still said to Hongyun patiently: "There are many kinds of people in this world, we have to adapt to talking to each type of person, not just using our own way of thinking to interpret, but to crack other people's codes." ”

"There are many kinds of patients, and our purpose is not to make friends with them, but just to see patients, and you have to look at other people's faces. This person is obviously an unreasonable person, and when he goes to see a doctor with his grandfather, he is not polite to his grandfather, let alone you?"

"There is a kind of person who is very fierce, will bully people, and drug people, which many people have, but this person is very heavy, but he knows the rules, knows who can be messed with, and who can't be provoked, or the leader will not personally take him to see a doctor. ”

"Living in this society, you have to adapt to the rules of society, or you will survive the fittest and be eliminated directly. Although my grandfather is retired, I have to give face to the leader when I apply for this hospital, not to give face to the wicked man. ”

Grandpa Gu said very carefully, but Hongyun still didn't like this, she felt that she couldn't give in to the evil forces for the sake of leadership, so she also told Grandpa Gu.

Grandpa Gu supported his forehead, this must be a very combative and stubborn child. is so upright and so kind, how can those workplace struggles be able to fight.

Grandpa Gu has begun to talk about Hongyun from the theory of traditional Chinese medicine, talking about the five elements of yin and yang, and talking about dialectical treatment. He tried to let Hongyun know the philosophy and sophistry of Chinese medicine, and apply it to human feelings.

Then Hongyun learned the theory of Chinese medicine very proficiently, and the head of the story is the Tao, drawing inferences from one another, no problem, applying it to practice or not, it is still the upright one.

On this day, a patient said something unintentional, which made Grandpa Gu suddenly enlighten: Why don't children go to kindergarten.

Children will always feel that they are children in the adult world and need to be taken care of. Their emotional development, how they behave in the world, and they have to learn from their children.

Hongyun has lacked this step since he was a child, he didn't play with his friends when he was a child, and he didn't communicate with his classmates when he went to elementary school. By the time she played with her classmates, she was already in junior high and high school, and the others had already completed the steps of dealing with the world, and she was still in her early childhood. Later, when she went to work in college, others treated her with mature human feelings, and her ultra-low emotional intelligence was even more invisible.

Grandpa Gu told Hongyun what he thought, and he felt that Hongyun must understand. Hongyun also knows about his own family affairs, and he thinks about it for a long time, and he thinks he should go to see if it works. ”

So after Grandpa Gu got off work, he took Hongyun back to Hong's house.

The Hong family is in a meeting, and since the last meeting, the Hong family has become a fixed base.

Six months have passed, the first batch of pigs is about to be slaughtered, and one or two pigs have died in the middle, but fortunately, thanks to the guidance of technicians, a greater disaster has been avoided. Three months ago, a batch of 200 pigs was raised, and after the first batch of pigs were slaughtered, another batch was raised with a warm device.

The construction of greenhouses was also put on the agenda, and the three people of Hongjia Village did not participate. Gu Kaiming had already gone out to learn other people's techniques a month ago.

Wu Xiaofan went to find a market for pigs, he has a powerful mouth and a flexible person, and when he came back this time, he said how to sell it.

Generally, state-run slaughterhouses are sold now, and there are also some outside, which are more expensive, but not safe.

In the end, it was unanimously decided that the first batch of goods, in a safe place, would be sold to the slaughterhouse.

Grandpa Gu explained the intention: "Hongyun has reached the age of going to school, school will start soon, let her go, every day after school, I will pick her up, learn for two hours, and then send it to you." ”

Hongyun is very helpless, changing the world EQ or hard quotient, and it can't be good for itself.