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On the other end of the line was a female voice, low and hoarse. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

"This listener friend seems to have encountered some emotional troubles, in fact, I really want to know the answer to this question, I don't know what Han Shenyan thinks about this?"

Li Jiayin's tone was very normal and did not show any abnormality, but from her expression, it could be found that the smile on her face was a little reluctant at this time.

Not only her, but also Han Shenyan beside her.

The owner of this voice, both of them are all too familiar.

Li Jiayin was not surprised by her question, and it could be seen from this period of time that she still cared about him.

But why did she choose such an occasion?

Is there anything you can't say in private?

It's just that then, Li Jiayin thought of her coldness and arrogance, and seemed to understand a little.

Here, she's just an unknown listener.

And he is just a guest on the show.

She was asking a question that had nothing to do with her or him.

At this time, Li Jiayin wanted to laugh and cry.

You're so arrogant that sometimes you're pitiful.

"In fact, feelings are such a thing, it still depends on themselves. But since this listener friend asked, I can talk about it from my own point of view. ”

Li Jiayin could hear her voice, how could Han Shenyan not hear it?

His heart is even more mixed at the moment.

However, now that the program is live, as long as there is silence for more than six seconds, it will be classified as a broadcast accident.

Therefore, he could only try his best to clean up his mood and pretend to be casual, but his voice at this time was less confident and free and easy, and a little more heavy.

This listener also said just now that these are two people who love each other very much, so I think that the matter between them can not be summed up by just two words: misunderstanding. Because love represents many things, and trust is one of the most important ones. So if it's not a misunderstanding, then these things are either very serious problems, or they are accumulated contradictions, which will cause cracks between the two. ”

On the other end of the phone, he didn't say anything more after asking, just listened quietly.

Moreover, this listener friend also said that the cracks have been created and are irreparable. In fact, I think the relationship between the two of them is also like this. Even if those things are well resolved, it will be difficult for their relationship to return to the way it used to be. As the old saying goes, it's hard to recover when you're covered with water."

Han Shenyan finished these words almost word by word, and he was also very uncomfortable at this time, his heart seemed to be clenched, and it was difficult to breathe.

It's one thing to be about to let go.

But confronting it directly is another matter.

What do you mean by asking this question today?

Do you want to get back together?

Perhaps, a month ago, even half a month ago, I would have been happy to hear it.

Just, for now.

But it was too late.

I've almost forgotten.

"Is that so...... I have one more question, is that okay? There was a tremor in the voice on the other end of the phone.

"Of course, this listener, you can ask." Li Jiayin said hurriedly. According to the rules of the program team, a person can only ask one question, which is to give more people the opportunity to ask questions. However, for her, Li Jiayin naturally couldn't refuse.

"Thank you. Well, I would like to ask one of the two people before that one of them did something wrong, but it wasn't until they separated that they realized it. Don't know if you have any advice for that person who did something wrong? ”

"In fact, there is no right or wrong in a relationship, only whether it is suitable or not." Han Shenyan was silent for a moment, and then said.

In fact, since the divorce, he has been thinking about this issue for a long time.

What was it that brought the two to this point?

Is it all her problem?

Han Shenyan doesn't think so.

In all fairness, let a woman earn money outside to support her family, while a man is a housewife. At least in the current society, it is not recognized.

It is normal for her to be dissatisfied, even Han Shenyan can understand it.

Is it your fault?

Naturally, it is even more unfair to yourself to say this. I gave up my career for her, and even if I was at home, I didn't give up my efforts.

So why exactly?

At the end of the day, it's probably just because it's not appropriate.

In fact, this inappropriateness has been reflected from the beginning.

If she didn't give up her career, would she be willing to marry herself?

Will she risk losing her dreams to be with her?

But if you think about it from her standpoint, it may be a different way.

Are you willing to risk losing me and wait for me?

Are you willing to wait for me to become famous and then marry you?

So just like Han Shenyan said, there is no right or wrong in a relationship, only whether it is suitable or not.

But there is no point in talking about it now.

He sorted out his language for a moment, then continued, "The reason why the two are separated is because they are not suitable. Even if they get back together, they are only reluctant to do so. Therefore, I would advise her to forget all the happiness and unhappiness of the past and start a new life, and I believe that there will be better happiness waiting for her. ”

"Is that so? Okay, I see. The female voice on the phone spoke in an empty tone, a little lost in her soul.

"Hmm. Well, goodbye. ”

He was answered by a busy tone when the phone hung up.

Same as that day.

No goodbye.

Maybe it means never to be seen again.

At the end of the recording of the radio program, although there were some waves at the end, it can be called a successful completion of the task. According to staff statistics, the radio listener rate is one percentage point higher than before.

The credit naturally goes to today's topic person, Han Shenyan.

It's just that whether it is the guest Han Shenyan or the host Li Jiayin, they are not in a happy mood at the moment.

"I'm so sorry, I didn't expect this to happen. I didn't think of it either. Li Jiayin said apologetically.

"It's okay, in fact, it's okay, it's a relief for everyone." Han Shenyan shook his head and said with a smile, but there was some bitterness in his smile.

Li Jiayin nodded, and then, with a somewhat complicated expression, asked, "Is it really impossible for you?" ”

Han Shenyan didn't speak, just nodded.

Li Jiayin was silent for a moment, and then laughed freely, "Well, it's actually pretty good, but I can only call you Brother Shenyan in the future." ”

Naturally, it is brother-in-law who cannot be called.

"It's not early, I'll go back first. Good bye. ”

"Okay, goodbye."

Tonight, the night is as cold as water.