Chapter 1260: Sneaky
The doorman smiled secretly, "Anyone who listens to such words will not feel good." Little Red must be the same. But her advantage is that she doesn't get angry easily, and as long as someone doesn't get angry easily, she will be very calm and figure things out. However, sometimes it's not always a good thing to be calm.
In other words, the smarter people are, the more stupid they can sometimes become. Because, there is also a narrow-mindedness in their thinking. They always feel that everything is motivated. It's like this conversation. She must not think that it was his husband's casual words, she will only think that her husband must be plotting something.
In other words, as long as her husband is plotting something, then that statement is definitely not true. And as long as it's not true, there will be a lot of conspiracy next. In other words, if you really believe such a thing, you are a fool. And as long as you believe this, it actually means that you have fallen into the trap of your husband.
Xiaohong will definitely analyze the intention of her husband's words, in short, she will not reply easily, but she will never doubt whether her husband's words are true. She made preconceived mistakes, coupled with her own habits. Therefore, even if her husband explains again and again, it will only become darker and darker in Xiaohong's opinion.
All in all, it is impossible to convince Xiaohong of her husband's words at this time. There are only two ways to convince Xiaohong. Either find someone who is unsuspecting and skeptical and tell her the truth, and she will believe it. Either that, or simply the opposite. In this way, it can cause Xiaohong to reflect.
It's just that, unfortunately, her husband is not such a person, or rather, Xiaohong's husband is actually not stupid, but because the previous things were noticed by Xiaohong, and Xiaohong was completely disgusted, therefore, when time is lost, Xiaohong becomes more and more bad.
It was because of Xiaohong's judgment that there was a problem, so she began to distrust her husband, and it was when he didn't believe in her husband that the world became more and more strange. This is actually very understandable, and it may seem a little difficult to understand.
But the truth is that even if you are extremely smart, no one will believe you. Or even if no one really believes in you, it doesn't mean anything else. If it weren't for that, we wouldn't be able to say it. All in all, it's not something that anyone and anything can stop.
If it could be easily stopped, it wouldn't be so important. Although everyone is very important and cares about it, there is a premise for such importance and care, that is, you must trust others, and the most important thing to trust others is not to retreat and do something that damages your intelligence.
And Xiaohong's husband made such a mistake. He came back inexplicably, and he believed other people's words without anyone's consent, which made it difficult for him to gain Xiaohong's trust in the next many problems. Therefore, at this time, Xiaohong's husband continues to rely on explanations to gain Xiaohong's trust, which is a delusional thing.
If he chooses not to say anything, it will be better. Another thing that has to be clarified is that if you don't figure it out, there will be a lot of things that you can't explain. These places are meant to be written down anyway, of course. If you can, it's best not to let people know.
After all, there is always some shame in such a thing. Otherwise, the truth will not be discovered in any case. However, such truths are also difficult to implement. In other words, if you can, it's a very painful thing. If not, everybody can do it. But the truth is quite the opposite.
There are very few people who can really not suspect each other at all, reach 100% truth, and trust communication 100%, let alone understand each other 100%, as long as they can have 50% understanding, it is considered a lot. But that doesn't stop us from communicating.
After all, everyone is usually like this, so in fact, the question of understanding or not is not the key, the key is whether everyone is happy to chat and play together, or even do some other things. That's what matters. If the views of two people were originally contradictory, but, after a long period of accumulation, these contradictions are gone.
Well, in this case, it's a very happy thing. And as long as everyone is happy. Many of the next things will be easily solved, otherwise, it will not be easy to solve. All in all, it's not an easy thing to see through.
It's not the key to why it's difficult for everyone to communicate, in fact, all the problems are false. The real challenge is whether or not you can have fun. As long as two people, three or more people can live happily together, then no matter how big the contradiction is, it is fake.
Because, there will always be a time when the conflict will be resolved, and some things that everyone minds will become less important under the control of emotions. That's a wonderful thing, and it's something that makes it easy for us to figure out. However, ordinary people don't understand this, they only know how to argue with people.
It seems that if I am better than you in some way, I will solve the problem perfectly, but this is not the case at all. The best way to solve a problem is always one point, whether it can make people happy. That's the core. Even the dirty, ugly deals make both parties happy.
That's why it's done. In this case, then Xiaohong's husband should not continue to argue with Xiaohong at this time. In fact, the best thing for him to do was to do nothing, and then, sneak up on a hair of the child, and then take it to the hospital and do a DNA test himself.
When the results of the appraisal are out. After making sure that the child is not his own, can't he convince Xiaohong? The hospital's report Xiaohong won't doubt it. If she continues to be suspicious, in fact, all she needs to do is make a phone call to confirm the case record at the hospital. The hospital will keep a case record.
However, it's a pity that Xiaohong's husband doesn't understand this, it's not that he is not smart enough to think of it, but he is too easily controlled by emotions, he feels that he will cause Xiaohong's dissatisfaction even more if he does this, and his biggest problem is that he is not so confident in himself. Just because of the previous incident, he left a shadow of unconfidence in his heart.
Of course. This kind of thing is not acceptable to anyone, and it is not something that anyone can enjoy. If everyone likes it, it's actually not normal. For example, if it's me, I won't accept it anyway. If that's not the case, that's not right.
I don't want to be like this. I just want to make a good living. That's it. Therefore, I thought that there was such an internal cause in which I could wronged myself in order to live a better life. But Xiaohong's husband is not like this, his internal factors are different from mine, so he will not make the same choice as me.
He is unwilling to wronged himself, and his internal cause should be to let himself live with dignity. In that case, there will be many different types than in the past. And as long as there are different types, there will be countless problems one after another. Although Xiaohong is not his favorite type, he made the decision to marry Xiaohong.
If it were me, it would never be. After all, for me, liking someone is more important than whether you have money, but Xiaohong's husband is not like this. What the husband wants more is dignity, and if you want dignity, marrying someone else is naturally the best choice. Otherwise, there wouldn't be a lot of trouble.
All in all, it's not the best option, but it's definitely a favorite choice. Because, with such a choice, everyone can do something that is unacceptable. After all, this is not the past. If it were in the past, it would be incomprehensible. After all, if everyone understands it, it's not normal.
However, it is precisely because of this lack of understanding that there are many innumerable problems. The more Xiaohong and her husband want to gain dignity through Xiaohong, the more and more undignified they end up with. This is actually a very sad and strange thing. However, we all make such mistakes.
It's not something anyone can commit, it's not a tragedy that special people can have, everyone can have it. When we pursue something, we may end up finding that we end up being the most hated person. However, not all people will have such sorrow.
When some people experience sorrow, they will sink, and then they will wake up, or they will suddenly become cheerful one day. When a person's mood is cheerful, then many things are well solved. For example, things that could not have been solved in any way can be easily solved.
Problems that were previously unacceptable will also become well accepted. Even former enemies can shake hands and make peace. Because they have awakened. They understand that the world is suffering, and they are not alone in suffering. Everybody's just suffering. But why is it that there are still people who can reap the applause and achieve success and happiness? Is it true that they are much stronger than us? No. Is it true that their luck is much better than ours?
Not really. Of course, this factor is indispensable. Luck is definitely better than ours. But this is only the luck of the first half of their lives, to put it simply, maybe the luck of the second half of their bodies has been used up in the first half of their lives. This will have the possibility of becoming famous at a young age. However, due to the lack of luck in the back half of the body, they quickly finished halfway through.
It's also important to note that while we can choose who we get along with, what we can't choose is the future. To put it simply, we have no way of knowing what the future will look like, and even if some people tell you that I can not know the prophet, it will certainly be a lie.
If they are unfortunate enough to guess correctly, you will think that they are very good, but in fact, what you don't know is that they do not guess more often. If they don't guess correctly, they will say that your heart is not sincere enough, and if you want to be sincere, you must pay the price, so that you can move the heavens.
In short, this is not a real prophet, just a fool. After all, they depend on this line of food for their livelihood. However, Xiaohong will not be fooled. Moreover, not only Xiaohong will not be fooled, but even I will not be fooled. But just because we won't be fooled doesn't mean everyone won't be fooled.
Right in front of Xiaohong, there is one person who is the most easily deceived, and that is Xiaohong's husband who needs dignity and respect. He has lost confidence in himself, so it is very likely that he is trusting other people, and by trusting other people, he can gain respect and dignity by trusting other people, just like these gods.
He would certainly be willing to believe it. Because, in this case, he will have a sense of security. This sense of security was something that those people in the past couldn't give him, but in this way, a new trouble will appear, and if this trouble is not solved in time, something will happen to Xiaohong's family again.
And as long as something happens to Xiaohong's family, then her adoption of the child will soon come to naught. This is not to say how much wealth this Xiaohong's husband can get from Xiaohong. It can even be said that even if he can't get a penny from Xiaohong, he can still bring damage to Xiaohong's family.
Because, by the time he started doing that, everything had become unusual. If it weren't for such a thing, he could even choose to give up altogether. But he didn't give up. Why is that? Very debatable. However, Xiaohong is not helpless with her husband.
If things don't come to this, she can just find someone to talk to her husband. For example, the child she adopted, because she didn't know that the child was impersonating. She also felt that the child and her husband were real father and son, so it was not surprising that she would have such thoughts in this situation.
However, she will also have problems letting her children talk to her husband. Because, she can't participate herself, and if she participates by herself, it will not be normal. This is easy to cause misunderstanding, after all, she can't let her husband know that she arranged it.
So, she can't look at it from the outside, what she can do is send the adopted child to her husband and leave. Of course. It's not about sending it directly, it's about letting someone else send it. The best way is not to even give it to your own person, but to give money directly, and then let the child talk to her husband by herself after giving the money. Then, wait for the results at home silently by yourself.
Therefore, in this case, she will be a lot easier, but she is relaxed, and her husband and the child will not be easy. The next question is how those two people are going to talk, and I want to figure it out. ”