"I'll give you a simple example, if you walk down the street and see a delicate cake in the window, you like it very much, but you can't buy it if you don't have the money, and every time you pass by, you have to look and look at it, and you think every decoration on it is so charming. One day, when you have money, you rush in and buy the cake you have been longing for for a long time, but you find that you don't like it so much, and you are even a little tired. Why are you so obsessed with that cake at that stage? Because you are not obsessed with the cake, but the things it symbolizes, the symbolism of this cake attracts you, for example, a stable life, stable material, the same as changing to people, some people even only like the feeling of being an infatuated lover, pretending to be the most affectionate person in the world, but the person who is 'infatuated' by him is not so important, just a meaning, this is the mentality of 95% of crushes, but it is not easy to exclude 5% I really like it when I get it. ”

Xiaoqian used the simplest example to compare the crush, if she wants to analyze it from a psychological point of view, she can talk for two hours, all kinds of professional terms and various analyses, but it is useless to tell Hai Zhao that the theory is useless, so it is better to compare it directly.

"But the cake is hiding from me now, how do I know if it's suitable for me if I don't taste it?"

Hai Zhao is now full of bitterness, and after a while, he lost his entire world.

"Chen Xiaoqian, have you ever felt the taste of a crush? I gave her the best of my youth, all I have thought about her all these years, but she didn't give me a chance, I would rather her refuse directly, than I want her to use such a cruel way, so..."

"If you really can't let go of it in your heart, then for the sake of me eating so many delicious things from you, I'll help you identify your feelings for her,"

"You say!" Hai Zhao was angry, he couldn't accept Xiao Qian's statement that he didn't have true love for Xiao Xi.

"You empty yourself first, throw away all your feelings, don't think about the pain, don't think about her, don't think about anything, follow my rhythm, and answer my questions only intuitively. ”

Xiao Qian first spent a few minutes helping Hai Zhao pull out of her heavy emotions, and when he stopped paying attention to a certain point, she began a formal conversation.

"In your memory, what is the picture that touches you the most, answer intuitively, don't think, 3, 2, 1, answer!"

"I like her standing on the stage, singing military songs impassionedly, you know, her voice is very good, and the white military uniform of the art troupe is worn on her, which really brings her handsomeness to the extreme. ”

Hai Zhao replied intuitively.

"When was that?"

"At the military parade in the year she first joined the army, she sang a song on stage. ”

“... Sister Xiaoxi is a literary soldier, and she enlisted in the army at 13 or 4, right?"

Co-authored this guy not only has a crush, he also has pedophilic tendencies?

"I didn't do it when she was young!" Hai Zhao defended himself, and Xiao Qian shrugged.

"I'll admit it, you still don't have the courage to confess to anyone. ”

"If you don't poke other people's scars, you're uncomfortable?" Hai Zhao was annoyed and angry again.

"Okay, I understand, after you go back, you will post pictures of the duo to actresses on your bedside, post them for two days, and watch them every day, especially before going to bed, feel if your feelings for Mingxi are light, if it is not light, change it to a photo of a star, all types of stars are posted around, if you can get a cool photo of the female U in the island romance film, you can also do it. ”

Hai Zhao was thundered by Xiao Qian.

"Chen Xiaoqian, what are you going to do with me?"

What kind of mess is this?

"I'm very serious about helping you distinguish, if you post a variety of photos for a month, and then remember that Yu Mingxi still insists on liking the feeling, I'll give you another Morita therapy, the principle of Morita therapy is to go with the flow and do what you should do, you still insist after my treatment, then it is ruled out that you just like it for the sake of feeling, proving that you are really in love with Yu Mingxi, until that day, I will give you the next step. ”

"Chen Xiaoqian, can you really help me?" Hai Zhao felt that Xiao Qian's method was curious, but he really had no one else to ask for help now, so he could only look at Xiao Qian helplessly.

"There is a great man who once said such a sentence, Mr. Xinqian, you have eternal life, if you want to live comfortably in the second half of your life, just follow my requirements to do it, I can guarantee that no matter whether your other half in the second half of your life is Yu Mingxi or not, you can live happily, and you will not be kicked in a certain year and month, and the little brother who is kicked will not be able to get up. ”

"What did you say?"

The last sentence Hai Zhao didn't hear clearly, could it be an auditory hallucination?

Xiao Qian blinked, "You heard it wrong. ”

"Oh, what great man would say such a thing?"

Yu Minglang. ”

"Well, you win!"

Separated from Hai Zhao, the chief's driver came to find Xiao Qian, she wanted to take the chief's car back to Linshi, Xiao Qian looked at the time, and took the time to call Yu Mingxi.

He cried. Xiao Qian was sure that when Xiao Xi hurt Hai Zhao, Hai Zhao really cried.

But he quickly turned around and kept the tears to himself.

"Oh, did you hand him a tissue, then?"

Yu Mingxi's voice was very calm, she couldn't hear joy and sorrow, she was too good at hiding her emotions.

"I didn't hand over tissues, but I did introduce a few excellent little girls to him, Hai Zhao is also a boss, and his worth is not low, the green diamond you don't want, a bunch of little girls are waiting to chase after him. ”

There was silence on the other end of the phone for three seconds, and it was the unusual reaction of these three seconds that made Xiaoqian sure of one thing.

Yu Mingxi is by no means what he shows, and he doesn't care about Haizhao at all.

But whether this cares, whether it is a friend or a person she likes, this Xiaoqian can't say for sure.

"Introduction, it's all free, whatever he wants, I'll hang up if it's okay. Three seconds later, Yu Mingxi replied to Xiao Qian in the same flat voice.

"Wait. Xiaoxi, I have a sentence that I have always wanted to ask you. ”

"If you want to speak for Haizhao, then forget it, emotional matters can't be forced, I'm sorry that he likes a hard-hearted woman, but what I don't like, no one can force me, and if he continues like this, it will also be a disturbance to my normal life. ”

"I don't say anything for Hai Zhao, I only ask you one thing, a few years ago, you had insomnia and often dreamed, I treated you, do you remember?"

"Yes. ”

"Do you remember the snake you held in your hand in your dream?"

"Of course, after meeting you, I didn't have that dream at all. ”

"Snakes, there are many explanations that appear in a woman's dreams, and I wondered why you would restrain your own feelings, but now I finally understand. ”

Xiao Qian saw Yu Mingxi for the first time and helped her solve her insomnia, Xiao Qian was curious at that time, Yu Mingxi's dream meant that she bound her feelings, and she used her strong self-control to control her emotions.

Today, Xiao Qian has finally solved this puzzle.

"What do you know? What do you know? What I don't know myself, do you know?"

"I know, Yu Mingxi, please allow me to ask you formally, as a psychiatrist, about my patients with long-term insomnia. Mingxi, the man who lives in your heart, who is he?"