Chapter 38 Love Cooling, For Whom
"Divorce! This kind of man who doesn't care about his family and doesn't make money, is stingy and doesn't know how to feel sorry for people, messes with the relationship between men and women, and often beats you, what do you want him to do?"
Xiaoqian saw that her mother didn't talk about the problem after thinking about it for a while, and said a word. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
"What nonsense!" Jia Xiufang was startled, at her age, her children are so old, how can she still get a divorce?
"What's the use of what you want him? Has he made money for you? Who is holding up this dry cleaner? Is it you! Has he given you the guarantee of a stable life? What is the matter with him and Xuan Xue, do you really not know in your heart? He is so good to that woman, so bad to you, it is you who pay, and it is Xuan Xue who sits back and enjoys it, are you really psychologically balanced?"
"You child, how can you say that, this family can't be separated! If I get divorced, what will you do with your brother!"
Jia Xiufang listened to her daughter's rational analysis, and her first reaction was to be angry.
She also cried to her mother's family, but her brothers persuaded her to endure for the sake of the child, which is also more in line with Jia Xiufang's dependent personality.
"I'm an adult, and your dumb son is also a big child, so we won't learn badly because of our parents' divorce - of course, even if your dumb son doesn't get divorced, he won't learn well. ”
is this kind of family that exists in name only, holding on to face and refusing to divorce, and children see their parents like this, they should learn from the bad.
Chen Lin didn't care about his family, played with women outside, and ignored his two children, Jia Xiufang was bent on pleasing her husband, working hard, and had no time to take care of the children.
Chen Zilong is addicted to online games, and it has nothing to do with these? Xiaoqian got married in a daze in her previous life, so it has nothing to do with it?
Unhealthy family relationships are more terrible to children than parents divorced.
Xiaoqian's words made Jia Xiufang not know how to answer, and she still rejected what her daughter said.
For a woman of her age, marriage is more important than life, and where there is a man, there is a complete home, even if it is a man who is good for nothing.
"When you stay by yourself at night, think about how your life will be different without him? If you get divorced, how will your life be different from the present? Don't be afraid, think boldly! The future is unknown, but it will not be worse than the present. ”
"Say it again, I'll beat you! Your father is the pillar of this family, and this family can't be dispersed!"
"There are a total of 12 criteria for judging dependent personality, and if you hit at least four, and if you have one more, you have to see a psychologist. ”
Dependent personality, manifested as an extreme lack of self-confidence, no way to decide her own direction, instinctively seek help from others, no matter what others say, she is willing to accept it unconditionally, believing in outsiders, but not in herself.
"What are you babbling about?"
"I said, you gave birth to a good daughter, the doctor doesn't need to see it, Mom, in your life, the days of happiness are ahead. Xiao Qian patted Jia Xiufang on the shoulder.
"What should I do, what should I do, children, always talk about adults!"
Xiaoqian didn't expect to explain her mother's dependent personality in a few words, but she had already planted the seeds of divorce in her mother's heart, and the psychological hints were also given to her mother.
In the evening, Chen Lin did not come back.
Jia Xiufang went to several houses where he often played cards to look for them, but he didn't find anyone.
"Qian'er, your dad won't have an accident, right?" Jia Xiufang was anxious.
"What can happen to him, the old man who ran away with the money, there is food, drink and women, don't worry about him. ”
"Don't talk nonsense, what a woman!" Jia Xiufang was upset again by what Xiao Qian said.
At night, Jia Xiufang lay on a double bed with only one person, and the place next to her was empty.
In fact, this is also the norm, even if there is no quarrel, Chen Lin often comes back very late, and the two sometimes can't speak a few words a day.
Come to think of it, when he was at home, he talked to Xuan Xue more often than himself.
Closing her eyes, Xiao Qian's words echoed in her mind: With him and without him, how would life be different?
What's the difference? If you get divorced, you still get up early and go to bed late every day to be busy with the business in the store, and you can't see Chen Lin - but now, isn't she different and can't see it?
If there were no men, what would be the difference from now? I wouldn't have to be beaten, and the money I earned wouldn't be taken away, and it felt like it was pretty good...
No, no, no, you can't think like that, the children need their father-Jia Xiufang tried hard to convince herself, but found that every reason she could think of not to divorce was so pale.
It turns out that this home, with or without Chen Lin, is it really the same...
But no matter what, this family can't be dispersed, can't be dispersed!
Jia Xiufang had insomnia.
Separated by a wall, Xiao Qian stood in front of the window of her room, listening to the crickets outside the window.
The scumbag must not be out of Q City, and as far as his urine is concerned, most of them will find Xuanxue, she has to find a way to find out the scumbag father, secretly find evidence of his cheating, and find a way to set up a trick to force the scumbag father to divorce, when the time comes, it will be useless for her mother to be sad, she will find a way to force her mother to look forward, there are ways.
She looked up at the stars and asked herself.
Counting so much, tired?
I'm tired.
But if you don't count, aren't you tired?
will still be tired, she doesn't count so much, and the end is to be calculated.
If she is like her mother, she lives in a daze and "doesn't want to be tired", but she can only die miserably.
In this world, there are too many unreliable men.
Yu Minglang is very strong and can be relied on, but Xiaoqian has never thought of relying on him, not in her previous life, and even less in this life.
He was very busy with work, when he was with him in his previous life, this relationship was too precious, and she was reluctant to consume his good impression of herself, and she was reluctant to use tea, rice, oil, and salt to annoy him.
The neighbor was watching a TV series again at night, and the ending song of the TV series came along the wind.
"If someone had to shed tears, who would it be?
If you have to say right or wrong, who is wrong?
Chic as you don't need someone to accompany you, and I'm most afraid that there is no one to accompany you.
Waiting for you to be comforted, waiting until it gets dark, waiting for the love to cool.
Love cools, for whom~"
Out of the corner of her eye, she swept to the pile of things that were piled up in her room.
They were all bought by Yu Minglang.
This nerd, what is he doing now, will he still be entangled, she is only 18?
The obsessive-compulsive disorder that I didn't commit in the afternoon came out again, Xiaoqian took the hand sanitizer he bought to wash her hands, and she washed away her irritability, and she couldn't wash off the green uniform in her heart.
Love cools, for whom.
At this time, tonight, no one sleeps.
Yu Minglang did not return to the army, and he still had the last ten hours of rest.
Standing in front of the window, looking at the moon, it was like the girl's face, and the shadows on the moon were like the beauty mole on her forehead, poking into her heart, and refusing to go out.
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