Chapter 1274: The driving force
The doorman nodded affirmatively, but then shook his head again, and said in his heart: "There are some advantages to saying this, but at the same time there are some disadvantages, although everyone knows that this should be done, but sometimes it is not so smooth when you really want to put it into action."
And it's because it's not smooth enough, so there will be a lot of trouble like this and that. However, Xiaohong's children have advantages, but in the same way, if they can't see the situation clearly, or even say that, they also have disadvantages. And because it has a disadvantage, there are many times when there will be troubles of one kind and another.
If there is no trouble, it is not normal. The strangest and most hateful thing about this now is that there are not so many of these troubles at times. Because after all, they are just children, and although children can train very well, there are some things that cannot be trained no matter what.
For example, the ability to resist temptation. Maybe a child can be trained to obey your orders very much and do something for you, but there are only two reasons for him to do things for you, either he is afraid of you, which is the most direct way, or you have to pay them, such as some candy or something.
All in all, that's what motivates the little ones to help you. Once this motivation is known or replaced by others, then you are cutting off the kite string. Then if you can't control the child, it's all over. This is a very logical, yet very sad fact. Sometimes we'd rather it didn't even happen.
But what can be done about it? Often, the more we don't want it to happen, the more it happens. This is the cruel place of reality, although we can avoid something as much as possible, but many times we still can't avoid it, and it can even be said that when we really plan to avoid it, we have actually lost.
Because, when we have this kind of thinking, it means that we have fallen into the tricks of others, if there is a trap in front of you, if you don't know, then if you fall, it is understandable, no one will blame you, everyone will only pity you, and even sympathize with you. However, when you know that there is a trap in front of you, you still take the initiative to jump into it.
Originally, you could have bypassed, but you didn't. This is where you go too far, and where no one can understand and forgive you. If only everyone could understand and forgive. It's a pity that it can't be done. It can even be said that it is difficult for everyone to do it.
If you really do it, it's actually not normal. But this is only limited to ordinary cases. In other words, it's not that no one can't do it, but ordinary people can't do it, and if you go beyond the boundaries of ordinary people, and you have more abilities than ordinary people, such as judgment, speed, and strength, then it's not difficult to do it.
Since it's not too difficult, if you can't do it, you'll definitely end up being ridiculed. And as long as they are ridiculed, it is difficult for ordinary people to cheer up. Especially small children. If you weren't a child, it would be hard to cheer up, which is a unique human trait, and if it weren't, it would be very unexpected. However, these accidents are irrelevant.
Sometimes we just need an excuse. That's right. Excuses are quite important. Because, with excuses, we can abandon our past selves. In other words, everyone has a fixed personality, and it is these people who control our daily life.
If not, it's not normal. But is this really the right way to go about everyday life? Surely not. One more thing, if not strange, is that it's best not to put yourself in this state. After all, when you learn to use excuses to do things, it's easy to get caught up in them.
It's a terrible trick. If you use it well, you can relieve yourself a lot of stress, but if you don't use it well, or if you don't know how to use excuses correctly, then it's bad.
After all, this is not the first time something like this has happened. When the time comes, you will indulge in excuses, you will have excuses for everything, and speculating on other people's thoughts will definitely link them to excuses, so that you will not only have an unpleasant life alone, but also set up a lot of enemies, such as those enemies that have nothing to do with you in the first place.
They didn't want to hurt you, but they were the last to hurt you. It's not because they suddenly changed their minds and wanted to kill you on a whim or something. Rather, it is the other way around, that you provoke them. And you don't know it yet. That's because of excuses.
The excuse is that this thing is very dangerous, and only those who have very strong self-control can control it as they please. And this is the only way to manipulate it. Look for excuses when you need them, and you don't have to excuse them everywhere. And this is clearly the weakness of small children.
After all, children have little self-control. If they have self-control, they will not be normal. Otherwise, those who abduct and sell children will not have anything to eat. The reason why they have succeeded so many times is not because children are easy to deceive. And because children have no experience in this area, although they say that they can help us a lot, one carelessness can also bring us disaster.
For example, if a kind old man suddenly came at this time, and tempted the child with the latest lollipop in his hand, wouldn't there be any danger? If not, it's not normal. And it's the dangers that we often overlook.
But after all, this little kid is by Xiaohong's side, and he is well-informed, and besides, it is impossible for a little man to find someone who does not have the ability to help him, he must have taken into account such a potential danger when choosing a child. So, in a way, they're actually in a group.
In other words, even if they are not in a group, they must be able to understand their suffering. And such a hardship is obviously not acceptable. Therefore, this requires us to do things seriously. However, choosing a good child does not mean that it is necessarily insured.
Nor are those rich people fuel-efficient lamps. As long as the method can be decent and the attitude can be kind, there is actually a chance. It's just that you need to put more effort into the design of the lines. And these things are not usually visible to us.
Therefore, from a certain point of view, it is still worth studying. Of course. There are also some special cases that can be ignored. It's cruel to say that, but it's true, not just anyone can study it this way, and no one can insist on doing it.
If everyone can insist, it will be abnormal. The point is that many times we can't stick to what we want to insist on, and it's easy to ignore what we don't insist on, all in all, it's best not to let such things happen to yourself, if it really happens, it will be very embarrassing.
However, although children have many weaknesses in this area, sometimes they also have some advantages that they can't see, and it is this advantage that gives us opportunities, otherwise we will be in trouble many times. When the trouble can't be solved, everyone will have an opinion.
And that's what's special about a child, he doesn't look like an adult. Adulthood has weaknesses, and children also have weaknesses, but children's weaknesses cannot be found in adulthood, and adults have weaknesses that children do not, although children's weaknesses are easy to find, but in the same way, children's luck is better.
If you are not an ordinary child, it is difficult to have the opportunity to make this choice. Of course. If you really let them choose, in fact, these children also have a serious flaw, that is, not only do they not know how to choose, they don't know why they do it.
The most important thing is that sometimes they don't even know about it. Because, after knowing it, there is still too much difference between not knowing. If it weren't for that, it wouldn't be normal. If you can, never let such a thing happen, this is the best result, but generally speaking, it is unlikely, and it is not realistic, if it is really implemented to allow children to come and go at will, and give up the function at will, then in fact, as long as the thing is seriously developed in depth, it is very likely that adults can be controlled.
If a thing can control a child at this time, not many people will be interested, and the rich man will not be tempted, and as long as the rich man is not tempted, then these things are actually similar to nothing, but sometimes they are different. In other words, sometimes we need something good to restrain this problem.
For example, if you can let others tell you about your day's life at will, and then transmit it to you through video recording, so that you can watch it all day, then people will not be free. And as long as there is no freedom, it will actually become very easy to control that child again.
So, there will be a war next, or no one else will do it. However, whether it leads to war or not, there is one thing that can definitely appear, and it will never miss any time, and that is a disgusting existence.
That's right. It's the one that doesn't make people happy anyway, robots. Although it is said that children are more fragile than robots, there are times when children still have emotions that can at least move us. But can robots? No. Is it because they are too weak to do it?
No. It's that we can't. We can't digitize the emotion, otherwise robots would have been mass-produced. But then again. There are also some things that give us headaches, that is, some events that we have to pay attention to anyway, such things are crises again and again, and unexpected accidents again and again.
Of course. Accidents aren't all bad. Some of the surprises should be considered pleasantries. After all, not everyone would do this, and there are better ones. If it weren't, it would be a real headache. However, there are some things that are headaches and good things that don't.
That's something we wouldn't have anticipated anyway. If you meet a child and you tell him, I will give you candy, will you go with me, he does not answer yes or no, but takes out a hundred-dollar bill and shakes it twice in his hand, saying, I will give you a hundred dollars, will you go with me or not?
This 100 dollars is very sweet and delicious. You can buy the most expensive food on the planet once, and you can also find the most beautiful female star on the planet to share dinner once, don't underestimate the potential of this hundred yuan, the amount above is not much. But you look carefully at the signature on it. It was the autograph of a supergirl that even our president wanted.
It's also the second money she has signed this year. The signature above is a symbol, meaning that as long as you carry it, you can spend whatever you want in one day today. But again, it can only be used for one day. After today, I won't have a chance.
I managed to get this ticket, how about it, do you want it? Normally, those adults wouldn't choose to refuse. If they refuse, what if they regret it? This kind of person will not let himself regret it, of course. It is obviously impossible to get them to make such a decision in the first place.
They'll think about it carefully, and then something will happen. If it's good, they'll take into account a lot of interesting things, but if it's not, then there will be all sorts of surprises in what they're considering, but if they think about it in the end, the result will be the same.
To put it simply, the process was hard, but the result was beautiful. It's like we're going to climb a mountain. The view from the mountains is amazing. If you make it to the end and reach the top, you will have a beautiful view of the mountain that you will never feel at the foot of the mountain.
However, not everyone is interested in mountain climbing. But in fact, this thing is the same thing to describe it in another way. For example, where did you find an island with no scenery, and took pictures for you, in order to make you happy, and make you feel that this kind of thing is not easy to achieve.
But is that really the case? If you don't see it for yourself and feel it, you can't experience that feeling anyway just through the video. And that feeling has a special term called realism. In other words, the least common mistake a child can make is a mistake on paper, and this is exactly the most common mistake an adult makes.
Adults are more focused on thinking, and children are more action-oriented. The result is naturally different. It's the same this time. If you can take advantage of this, you can make the little man completely counterattack. ”