Festive remembrance

(February 1, 2014)

Xia Mei, Hua Di, the annual Spring Festival is coming again. On this auspicious day of national celebration, it naturally deepens the memory of you.

Time passes forever, and in the blink of an eye, you have passed away from the world for several years, and the void you have left behind cannot be filled.

Within a few years, the world has been changing, and it has changed forever. As far as our family is concerned, although it is not a earth-shaking change, it is not to be underestimated.

Sister Xia, you drove the crane to the west, only the brother-in-law was alone in the family, and he was alone in the empty house, but he was not willing to be lonely, and soon after you left, he found another partner, took your place, and became your new female pig's foot, and you became a historical record.

At first, your son is not used to it, and over time, he slowly gets used to it, but he always has a place for you in his heart.

The new housewives have been here for a few years, and they are in harmony as husband and wife, but they are by no means so seamless when you were alive. They get along well with your son's family, and they are also three generations of grandparents, living an ordinary life in the ordinary people's family.

It's gratifying to be able to coordinate in this way.

Your son, who is still the fate of the laborer, is engaged in manual labor, day after day, year after year, and in the long run, it becomes commonplace, and he will ignore it.

Your son, still so skinny and tall, is in stark contrast to his wife and daughter. Perhaps, a little fatter than when you were alive. But he is still kind-hearted, honoring his father and treating his stepmother well. Be close to relatives and care for others.

Your granddaughter, who has grown very tall, lived a happy childhood, did not choose food, was very strong, and is in the second grade. She's smart and cute, but she doesn't have any impression of you, and she was too young when you left.

Sister Xia, your family, three generations of grandparents, is safe and sound, you don't have to worry.

Brother Hua, your family has changed more than anyone else.

After you went west, your son was still not at ease in that remote East Pole town, and always wanted to transfer back to his hometown, he and his mother also tried hard, but did not succeed, and in the end, had to give up the dream of returning to their hometown.

Another important factor for your son to give up returning to his hometown is that he met his other half in a small city in the East Pole, and they met and fell in love.

Your in-laws, is a small city in the East Pole, the family life is well-off, the social status is slightly obvious, they hosted the wedding, we all went to your son's wedding, the wedding is very grand, unique flavor.

Within this year, your son will be happy to marry a wife, have a daughter, buy a house, and buy a car.

Marrying a wife and having a daughter is real, and it adds people to the household register. And buying a house and a car is a bit mysterious. Your son's building, more than 70 square meters, was bought with a loan, and his car was bought by his mother-in-law's family.

The four major events in life have been solved in one year, but they are fast, right?

These things, but when you were alive, you were worried about them day and night, they are like a mountain, which becomes a barrier in your heart, and weighs you down.

In this way, it seems that your worries day and night are certainly driven by your sense of responsibility as a father, but it has no effect except to urge you to work hard to make money for it, but it makes you feel bad and mentally burdened.

Now, your son is very happy, working in a small city in the East Pole, and since he is marrying a wife and having a daughter, it means that he will live and work there in peace and contentment.

Although he has a mortgage, he only pays more than 1,000 within a month, which is the amount of his salary, but his wife has a salary, as well as the pension of his younger siblings, the rent of your old house, and his life, there will be no difficulties.

What makes you even happier is that within a year, you have been promoted two levels in a row, becoming both an old man and a grandfather.

Your daughter-in-law has a good impression on the family, and she is a good young man who understands things and people.

Your little granddaughter, it's been six months, she's chubby, lively and cute, if you see it, you'll be happy, you like children, not to mention that this is your own granddaughter? She is another continuation of your life, and your successors are endless.

How happy should you be under the Nine Springs?

Also, your wife, my younger siblings, is working in the capital, it is said that she works well, the conditions are good, she can earn about 3,000 a month, she doesn't want to take care of her granddaughter, she wants to continue to work for a few years, the money she earns, in addition to her own pension, can also subsidize your son's family expenses.

In your family, everyone is happy, and you have no worries. Now, you can see that it was really unnecessary for you to be worried, in fact, your son and his mother have always lived an easy life, and you are the only one, hard-working and worried.

Sister Xia, Brother Hua, as for the other small families in our family, they don't have to worry about it.

My sister's family, far away in the capital, my sister and brother-in-law, have no worries about food and clothing, filial piety to children and grandchildren, and have a happy old age. Although they both entered their old age, their spirits were strong.

The only regret is that the health of my sister and brother-in-law is a little unsatisfactory.

In the second half of last year, my brother-in-law got prostate cancer, it is said that this disease, no life, this is a blessing in misfortune, but it requires 200,000 medical expenses every year, fortunately, my brother-in-law is a retired cadre, and the application for 100% reimbursement of medical insurance has been successful.

Brother-in-law, the treatment is very timely and in place, he actively cooperates with the treatment, and the effect is not bad. The brother-in-law has no mental burden, and this is the biggest guarantee.

As for my sister, her leg disease is still the most problematic, but there is no good way to maintain it, and her son bought her a swivel chair that can assist her in her movements.

What is even more gratifying is that the children of my sister and brother-in-law are very filial, after my brother-in-law got this serious illness, his son and daughter in Beijing accompanied his father to see a doctor, and his son-in-law and son in Beijing drove their father to radiotherapy in the middle of the night every day. Daughters, sons-in-law and grandsons from other places all went to the capital to celebrate the Spring Festival with their brothers-in-law and sisters.

Although my sister and brother-in-law have such a little disease, it is not surprising that people eat whole grains, where can they not get sick at all? Besides, they are all seventy or eighty years old?

As for my brother's family, their supermarket is operating normally, which is not bad, but now, the number of people doing business has increased, but the purchasing power has not increased, which is not proportional to the status quo, which will inevitably affect the making of money. Fortunately, because their family gets up early and is greedy at night, they are well managed, and they are slightly better than others.

My brother himself is in good spirits, he has no worries, he is not tired, and the family does not rely on him, he just manages the supermarket for two hours every morning, and then, a day of freedom, his body is okay, just a little cerebral infarction, but he insists on taking medicine, and has been hospitalized and infusion.

My brother's current life is very different from what it used to be, his mental shackles have been freed, and the dominatrix who destroyed him has not only long since parted ways, but also that dominatrix died of ovarian cancer four years ago.

In my family, there is nothing to worry about, and the pension of the two of us is enough to eat, and we have no worries about food and clothing. Although we are a lonely empty nest family, but we are much calmer, the dead can't survive, only the only granddaughter, cut off from us, of course very regretful and lost, but also resigned to fate, everything can not be forced, no good daughter-in-law, can there be granddaughter close? Let her go, as for the future, it is unpredictable. It's just that we can't break off the blood relationship, and we still care about her.

In addition, our days are comfortable and comfortable, insisting on three hours of exercise every day, one person, one television, one person, one computer, this is the work and spiritual sustenance we engage in every day, replacing the useless boredom and worry.

Life is no longer thrifty, for whom is thrifty? Why is it necessary? After a lifetime of hard work, since this is the case, there is no need to work hard for it. Have fun in time and buy items as you want.

In short, I want to open up, to live easily, to live freely, to live with quality, and to live with taste.

Yes, life in the world, that is, so many decades, not long and not short, fleeting, why not live happily and chicly?

Sister Xia, Brother Hua, you don't have to worry about our two empty nesters, and the most fortunate thing is that the two of us and our relatives often come and go, often get together, and get along harmoniously and intimately, which is where family affection lies.

Sister Xia, Brother Hua, when you were alive, you often gathered your relatives to gather, eat, drink and have fun together, and everyone shared things to form a harmonious, united, and intimate family group. We have inherited your fine traditions and carried them forward.

The usual gatherings are mostly at my house, and then at my brother-in-law's house, and this year's Spring Festival, we are at my brother-in-law's house. Unfortunately, the two of you passed away, and your younger siblings, your daughter's family, and your nephew's family all went to other places, and it was the two of us, my brother and brother-in-law who often gathered, eating, drinking, and having fun together, and everyone had something to do, and the atmosphere was always so harmonious, warm and joyful.

All in all, Sister Xia, Brother Hua, you don't have to worry about our people in the world, you are all alive and well.

As for you, although you are far away from the world, you will not be forgotten by us, but your voice and smile are no longer shown in the world, but your images will always live in our hearts, as if you are spending spring, summer, autumn and winter with us, interpreting various stories of life.

Sister Xia, Brother Hua, we will meet sooner or later, all those who are born and those who are alive are destined to return to the arms of Mother Earth, but you are just one step ahead.

When the big dream returns, everything will be gone.

The objective law is like this, no one can escape, this is the doomed catastrophe of man. Therefore, everything must be seen openly, to live is to be happy and happy, in the mortal world, not to live in vain, to walk in style! Death, it is inevitable, that is, to be calm and calm, and to be at ease!

Sister Xia, Brother Hua, I wish you a happy and comfortable life over there!