The dream of reunion is on Chinese New Year's Eve

(January 24, 2015)

The Spring Festival of 2015 is coming, and the ancients said: I miss my relatives every festive season, and this is indeed the case. Father, mother, sister, brother and son, no matter how long you have been gone, I always think of you and miss you, especially during this Spring Festival, when the whole land of China is reunited and celebrated, I miss you very much.

Remembering you, is no longer grief-stricken, now, pondering, sorrow, can not be entangled, it is useless, can only hurt the liver and lungs, in vain, no matter how sad, you are far away from the world, it is impossible to return to the world, but how I hope you can return to the world, every day with you, however, I understand, this is impossible, just my daydream.

On the day of the lunar year, I had a dream that my deceased brother was standing in front of my bed, and he said to me: "Sister, at noon on Chinese New Year's Eve this year, several of our deceased people have come back to reunite with you, you will notify all the relatives in our family, including the eldest sister and eldest brother and their family, let them all come to your house, don't believe it, remember, remember." ”

When I heard this, I was taken aback, and I was about to get up and ask for an understanding, when my brother shook off and disappeared. After waking up, I was still suspicious, but I still did what my brother said, and told my family in Beijing, SH, Harbin, Fuyuan, Qiqihar and my hometown to come to my house before Chinese New Year's Eve.

On the morning of February 17, 2015, all the family members arrived, and now my family is lively, how can a 70-square-meter house accommodate more than 70 people? So, I arranged a hotel, and it just so happened that there was a guest hotel in the front of my building, and there was a welcome hotel in the building in Daodong. Eat, go to the fast food department for breakfast, and go to the restaurant for lunch and dinner to arrange.

Among the family, there are 21 members of the eldest sister's family, 13 members of the eldest brother's family, 14 members of the elder sister's family, 11 members of the elder brother's family, 5 members of the brother-in-law's family, 4 members of my family, and 4 members of the younger brother's family.

At ten o'clock in the morning of Chinese New Year's Eve, several of us have already pasted up the couplets, hangings and blessings, and the house is also lit up, creating a festive and joyful atmosphere, and more importantly, to welcome your return.

At eleven o'clock, my brother sent a message saying that you would arrive soon, and more than 70 of us had come outside the building, waiting in line to welcome your return. At three o'clock in the afternoon, we were all looking forward to it, and suddenly we saw a black sedan chair slowly coming in front of us, stopped, and then, the door opened, and I saw my younger brother and sister walking down with my father and mother in their arms, and behind them were the eldest sister, the eldest brother and my son. Everyone applauded enthusiastically, and they surrounded you. I look at you, you are all what you looked like when you left, and I understand that you can neither age nor rejuvenation. So, everyone gathered around you and walked into the lobby of the hotel.

Dad was the first to speak, and he said, "Boys, I'm back with your mother, what do you think?" Of course, this is mainly for us children who are parents. When we listened, of course, we were very emotional and suspicious, but we didn't want to ask. When Dad saw that our children didn't speak, he smiled and said, "Mom, you can say a few words." After listening to her father's words, she smiled slightly, she still smiled so beautifully, and she said in a paragraph: "I have reconciled with your father." Hearing this, we all applauded, and the juniors also applauded.

I said, "Mom, Dad, how did you reconcile?" Dad said, "Well, I'll tell you." Everyone in the room looked at Dad and waited for him to continue. Mom didn't speak, she just smiled softly. Dad's expression became serious, he said: "In the yang world's life, I am so sorry for your mother, blame me for being confused, and listened to the instigation of my first three sisters-in-law, but I didn't understand it at that time, I believed it, and your mother was separated from morality, and it was not good for her, I really scolded when I opened my mouth, beat her when I raised my hand, and abused her, she lived a life that was not as good as a pig and a dog, but your mother was very virtuous, and she was still very gentle and considerate to me, and to your eldest sister and eldest brother, it was like her own mother, no, It's better than my own mother. In particular, your eldest brother and eldest sister are not good to your mother and instigate my relationship with your mother. When Dad said this, he looked at the pair of children he loved and loved the most in his life, and everyone followed Daddy's eyes to see the eldest sister and eldest brother, only to see that both of them lowered their heads and their faces were full of shame.

Dad continued: "However, your mother is very generous and doesn't care, especially when your eldest brother is paralyzed and your daughter-in-law is running away, it is your mother who takes your eldest brother home, and his children, who are waiting on the kang and underground, even your own mother, but that's it, and your brothers and sisters, don't they all take care of your eldest brother?" When the sister-in-law heard this, she was ashamed of herself.

Dad said, "Your mother is so virtuous and kind, but I, alas, don't know her yet, and it's not good for her to fight with her." What a bastard I'm in. I broke your mother's heart so much. ”

When Dad said this, he stopped, looking very remorseful and sad, and everyone did not speak. After a while, my father said again: "Your mother doesn't want to be with me, separated, this is also your eldest brother, your brother, and your sister combined, I heard bad words, but I thought that your mother and a few of you kicked me out, and said that your sister was the mastermind, and scolded her more than once, in fact, your sister is the best child, how many years to earn money to support the family." When I was alive, I was so confused, and I was so sorry for your mother and your children. When Dad said this, he shook his head and sighed vigorously, and several of our children listened to it, and they were all silent, and all kinds of things in the world of Dad came to our hearts, and Mom didn't speak, she just sat peacefully. The other juniors are also silent, none of them have experienced this.

Dad said again: "When I was alive, I was such a confused bastard, and when I died, I didn't understand it, and I blamed your mother for being wrong." When I arrived in the underworld, Lord Yama enlightened me, did my work many times, and gave me all my decades of experience in the yang world through movies, and I realized that I was wrong and realized that I was wrong. I changed my attitude towards your mother, but your mother is still very virtuous and generous, forgiving me and accepting me. Your mother's attitude made me understand even more, I felt so sorry for your mother, there was always a sense of guilt, I thought, I want to go back to the yang world once, rehabilitate your mother, and apologize to your mother. I asked Lord Yama to return to the yang world, but Lord Yama did not agree, because this is something that has never happened before. ”

When Dad said this, his face showed a complicated expression, and everyone thought that this was impossible, but several people who went to the underworld have returned, what is going on? Everyone looked at Dad suspiciously, waiting for his answer.

Dad saw that everyone was looking at him, and understood that he was waiting for him to explain, so he said: "Lord Yama didn't agree, but I always felt in my heart that it was a matter of time, and I had to go back to the yang world to explain, so I asked Lord Yama over and over again, and I kept asking for seven hundred and forty-nine days, and Lord Yama was finally moved by my sincerity, so he agreed, and Lord Yama said, even when your mother was in the yang world, she suffered too much, she is a rare good wife and mother in the Three Realms, and she should be returned to her innocence." Let's come back together, and choose to have a good year with a few of you during the Spring Festival. ”

After Dad finished speaking, he was very excited and applauded, and everyone was also excited, all of them applauded with Dad, and the younger generation was so happy that they applauded.

Dad said again, "Boys, you all hear me clearly, right?" Your mom is a good person, I was wrong, and I want to apologize to your mom in front of all of you. After Dad finished speaking, he stood up, walked up to Mom, and said very kindly, "I was wrong, I apologize to you, please forgive me." When my mother saw my father like this, she stood up and said softly: "You don't have to be like this, it's all over, aren't we decades of old husbands and wives, I don't care, you understand, it's better than anything." Dad said, "Thank you, thank you." The people present saw that this old couple had not reconciled in the yang world, but now they have reconciled, it was really happy, the crowd was excited, and everyone applauded warmly!

At this time, the eldest brother and sister walked up to my mother together and said to my mother: "Mom, we were wrong, I'm sorry for you, in the future, we will definitely honor your old man." After saying that, both of them knelt down for their mother. The mother hurriedly helped them up and said, "Good boy, don't you do this, aren't we a family?" Seeing this, everyone was more and more moved, and there was a warm applause and applause.

At this time, my sister came out, she was particularly excited, she burst into tears, for the reconciliation of her parents, my sister was trying her best to turn the tide, tried her best, but did not succeed, for the temporary peace of her parents, she was misunderstood by her father, and was personally attacked by others, including the eldest brother and sister, she carried a black pot, and now, her parents have reconciled, she is so happy, she said: "Okay, my parents have reconciled, and my eldest brother and sister are also fine, this is the biggest joy of our family, today, our whole family is reunited, Don't mention the past, let's have a good New Year. ”

When everyone heard this, they were very happy and cheered in unison: "The original world is harmonious, healthy, and prosperous!" ”

Then, I walked out and said: "Today, it is the Chinese New Year's Eve, our whole family reunion, it is really happy, I arranged Xinglong Gourmet Hotel, at three o'clock in the afternoon, there is a grand family banquet to celebrate the Spring Festival and celebrate the family reunion." When everyone listened, they cheered and applauded, and their joy was indescribable.

At this time, it was one o'clock in the afternoon, and there was still some time before three o'clock, so I was free to move. The older generation sat together and talked, and the younger generation played poker and mahjong freely.

The children of my generation of parents, as well as my aunt and daughter-in-law, all sat around my parents and talked with them affectionately. Our generation is all old people, and the reunion with the 100-year-old parents, a farewell is more than 30 years, especially the reconciliation of the parents, which was not realized by the parents in the yang world, but now, it has become a fact, how happy we should be!

Also, in the Yang world, the big brothers and sisters who were not in harmony have also changed, and the whole family is harmonious and affectionate, and everyone truly understands how warm and important it is to have the same blood and blood is thicker than water.

An hour later, my sister, brother, and my son, who had been in the underworld for several years, gathered with their little family to express their feelings and the joy of reunion.

My sister's family, already a family of six, got together, they came to a suite, my sister was so happy to see her granddaughter who she missed day and night, she took her granddaughter in her arms, and said: "Eldest granddaughter, I can't imagine that you are so tall for six years, good!" Grandma misses you so much. My sister's granddaughter doesn't remember this grandmother anymore, she silently looks at her grandmother, and lets her caress her. When the nephew saw his mother, he was so happy that tears flowed from his eyes, and he hugged his mother's shoulders like a child, and said, "Mom, Mom, I miss you so much." The brother-in-law asked her sister about her current situation, and her sister answered them one by one, and she said, "Sister, come back, I'll go back to my hometown." The sister said, "Sister, don't be like this, I will come back this time, and in the future, I will never come back." Live your life well. ”

The younger brother was reunited with his family, and the younger brother and sister cried with joy, and she choked up and said, "You have been gone for four years, and I am lonely, and I often dream of you." The younger brother smiled and said, "I know, I understand, I miss you too, didn't I come back to see you?" The nephew hugged the child and said to his younger brother, "Dad, look at your eldest granddaughter." Then the nephew said to the child, "Baby, quick, call grandpa." The one-and-a-half-year-old child, when he saw the strange grandfather, sweetly exclaimed, "Hello grandpa." The younger brother hurriedly hugged the child, and his face was full of bright flowers, kissed the child's white, tender little face, and said, "Good granddaughter, I can see you." The nephew and daughter-in-law came up to her brother and said, "Daddy, you are good." When the younger brother saw his daughter-in-law, he said, "Yes, you are a good young man." ”

My son, also with his daughter-in-law and daughter, came to me and my husband, I looked at my son, he was still so tall, chubby on his round face, his small eyes smiled into a slit, he said: "Dad, Mom, I have been away from you for seven years, I miss you so much." "I saw my son who had been separated for seven years, and my daughter-in-law and granddaughter, who I hadn't seen for a few months, and I was so happy in my heart, my daughter-in-law was also virtuous, and my granddaughter was also close, and the family was really chatting hotly.

At 2:40, everyone gathered around the two centenarians and came to the Xinglong Food City Hotel, the whole hotel, just our family, no outsiders. There are eight tables in total. Seven of us children sat at the same table with our parents, and the other sons-in-law and daughters-in-law, they couldn't come forward, and the seven of them sat at the same table. The rest, the third, fourth, and even fifth generations of their parents, sit at the other six tables.

Each table is 12 dishes, the dishes, are very rich, meat and vegetarian, colorful, fragrant, and the atmosphere of the hotel is very harmonious, warm, comfortable and cheerful. At three o'clock, the family banquet began, and the brother-in-law (of course, not the eldest brother-in-law) made the opening remarks: "Today, it is the Chinese New Year's Eve of 2015, all members of our family, about 80 people, gathered at Xinglong Food City Hotel, gathered together to celebrate the Spring Festival, I wish you all the best, family happiness, cheers!" ”

After the brother-in-law finished speaking, everyone applauded warmly, and the applause was thunderous, and in addition to the parents, dozens of other people stood up and raised their glasses to drink. The brother-in-law said: "Next, all of you raise your glass, and wish the two centenarians happiness like the East China Sea, health and happiness!" All men, women and children said in unison: "I wish my parents (grandparents, grandparents, grandparents, grandparents, grandparents) are as blessed as the East China Sea, healthy and happy!" After speaking, everyone drank it all. Everyone looked at the two centenarians, full of smiles and radiant energy, and they were all deeply inspired and happy.

The atmosphere of the family banquet is even more intense, it is really staggered, pushing cups and changing lamps, guessing the boxing order, and it is very lively. The family banquet lasted for more than two hours, it was more than five o'clock, it was late, the red lights were hanging outside, a red light shrouded the dark night, firecrackers rang out, and the whole world was a jubilant scene.

The younger brother walked out, he came to the middle of the ground, and said in a loud voice: "Relatives, today our whole family gathers together to spend the Spring Festival together, everyone is comfortable, everyone is happy, let us all remember this day of jubilation and joy forever." ”

Dad whispered in Mom's ear for a while, and then he said, "We are going back, and from now on, we will never come back, and you all must live well, and you must live in harmony with your husband and wife, and you will honor the elderly, and you will love your children." After Dad finished speaking, Mom also spoke: "Children, don't miss us anymore, we are all fine over there, you don't have to be sad for us, we will bless you over there." ”

After Mom and Dad finished speaking, everyone heard the horn of a car outside, very loud, one after another, which was completely different from the sound of cars heard on weekdays.

The younger siblings walked to their parents, picked up the two old men and walked out, the eldest sister, the eldest brother, and my son, followed behind, and my son walked last, he hugged his fists and said, "Relatives, take care, don't say goodbye, never see each other again, I wish you more happiness." ”

All the people walked out and stood in front of the gate of Xinglong Food City, no one made a sound, silently watching, the younger brothers and sisters supported their parents, they got into the car, after the door was closed, they galloped away, and in an instant, disappeared into the vast night.

This Spring Festival gathering, I feel relieved, the feeling is two points: one is that the family should be harmonious, love each other, live up to the same bloodline, family harmony, in order to prosper, smooth and smooth, from the family and the country, from the country and all mankind, should be so, the world is harmonious, the world is beautiful, isn't it good and happy! The second is to treat life and death correctly. Life is the mother of death; Death is the destination of life. There is life and there is death, it's just a matter of time. Life, to live a chic, happy, happy life; To die, you must die peacefully, calmly, and open-mindedly.