Chapter 49 Dealing with Dependent Personalities is like this

"Son, my mother is expensive, if you don't support me and my brother, I have to let my father sell the song hall to sit on the stage, and my brother will have to collect protection money for the tattooed dragon on his body, maybe one day, he will be hacked to death. Pen %Fun %Pavilion www.biquge.info"

Xiao Qian's words made Jia Xiufang's face bloodless, and her lips trembled.

"No, no, he can't, he's your own father, your own father..."

"Stained with pornography, gambling and drugs, there is still human nature? Mom, do you remember, whose child in the back street sucked that, sold his 4-year-old son, what's the difference between my dad and him? ”

This is called concept stealing, saying a word is right, and then bringing people in, changing concepts, this is called brainwashing!

"This one has no conscience, I should suffer as much as I suffer with him, and it doesn't matter if it's not good for me, how can I do this to you and your brother, create evil!" Jia Xiufang burst into tears.

Xiaoqian saw that she was crying, and she was not in a hurry, and slowly let Jia Xiufang cry, knowing that the time she was crying was the time for emotional catharsis, it was useless for her to say anything, just wait for a few minutes.

Sure enough, when Jia Xiufang had cried enough, she wiped her tears in confusion and said to herself, "What will I do in the future, what will I do..."

Xiao Qian ruined the scumbag father almost ruined, and began to give Jia Xiufang a second hint.

"Mom, my dad is already like this, this house will be ruined sooner or later, my brother and I are still so young, what do you say we should do?"

"That's right, what are you going to do..."Jia Xiufang trembled and hugged her daughter.

"Do you remember, we went to the night market at night, and when we came back, we saw those women in miniskirts at the door of the Shanghai Song Hall, they were wearing heavy makeup, and some were directly hugged by men, Mom, can you remember?" Bring in a hint of scenery.

Sure enough, Jia Xiufang remembered, "I remember, I still smacked them, what can't I do with my hands and feet." ”

"Mom, you said that my dad is outside, if he owes a lot of money and can't afford it, take me to the song hall, and I will also wear a short skirt and let people hug me-"

"Ahh Jia Xiufang shouted, she is a conservative woman from a good family, and when she thinks of the girl she has raised for so many years, her spirit collapses.

Xiaoqian just wants her to be like this, collapse, the worse the collapse, the better the effect in the later stage.

"Even if this fire wasn't caused by my dad outside, but he took the money and ran away, is this a fact? When he comes back, do you think he still has any money? A few years' savings can be lost in a few days, is the next step to sell the girl? After selling the girl, selling the son, you look at the big dragon's sassy appearance, be a little ruffian and rascalβ€”"

"Absolutely not!" Jia Xiufang burned with a raging fighting spirit. "With your mother in one day, you sisters and brothers can't live like that!"

That's what she wants! Xiaoqian guided for so long a day, and finally succeeded!

She put her hand on Jia Xiufang's shoulder and hinted at her mother in stronger language.

"Mom, my dad is finished, but you're still there! You have two children, and my brother and I need you! Can you watch my brother and I get cheated by my dad? ”

"Unless I'm dead!"

Jia Xiufang is now completely brainwashed by Xiaoqian.

"We need you!"

This sentence is very important and needs you.

Jia Xiufang has a tendency to have a dependent personality, although the clinical manifestations are not assertive and blindly obey the words of others, but the paradox is that people with a dependent personality also extremely lack the feeling of being needed.

In order to chase this feeling of "being needed", he even does not hesitate to lower himself and seek to please others.

is like her mother, who eats leftovers, does tiring and dirty work, and sacrifices herself for the sake of her family.

While relying too much on her useless father, she constantly lowers her status in the family, carefully pleasing her husband just to seek the feeling of "being needed".

Xiaoqian constantly weakened the status of the scumbag father in her mother's heart, and at the same time hinted to her mother that in addition to marriage, Jia Xiufang can also find a sense of being needed from other places, such as the "need" of her children for her, which will help Jia Xiufang gradually become independent.

In particular, Xiaoqian is a very good child, a daughter who can be admitted to a key university, and Jia Xiufang has a strong need, and Jia Xiufang is motivated again.

"There is a mother in one day, no one can drag my daughter to that place, to be a serious woman!"

A woman, in addition to her love for her husband, the biggest sustenance is her love for her children, in order to protect her children, she can give everything, Xiaoqian now wants to transfer all her mother's love for her father to her and her younger brother.

Obviously, it was a success.

"But Mom, it's useless for you to shout so hot, you said that my dad continues to gamble like this, break shoes like this, and you don't have enough money to make from exhaustion, if he sells me, what will I do?"

"Iβ€”" Jia Xiufang was asked.

She only knows how to protect her two children, but she hasn't figured out how to protect them.

"Mom, you get a divorce, after you divorce, fight for the custody of me and my brother, I'll help you get the house, you hold the house, raise our sister and brother, no problem, even if the scumbag is in debt outside, you don't have to pay it back."

This is the ultimate goal, divorce!

"But, divorce, I, I..."

"What are you afraid of? Think about it, if you divorce him, he can't care about asking for money, you open a dry cleaner, it's no problem to support me and my brother, we don't have to be sold. ”

... Jia Xiufang is really interested.

What Xiao Qian hinted at her before has already had a great effect, and today, the set of things she said to her was all specially formulated for her personality, and the intonation, content, and expressions all poked Jia Xiufang's heart.

Words are an art, the language of a psychiatrist is the key to opening the patient's heart, how to find the key to the problem according to the personality, no one understands these better than Xiaoqian.

Jia Xiufang's weakness is the dependent personality and deep-rooted traditional concepts, Xiaoqian is now using the traditional concept of a woman's unjustified love for her children to attack Jia Xiufang's little dependence on her husband, and let her deeply experience the feeling of "being needed" from the process of protecting her children.

Meet her dependent personality.

In order to achieve her goal, Xiaoqian did not hesitate to weaken her strength, and said that she was a girl who had no offensive power and needed her mother's protection, obviously, the effect was very good, and Jia Xiufang now had the idea of divorce.

Xiaoqian continued to add oil and vinegar.

"Mom, if you don't get divorced, I will definitely be sold, you see, he can even let me marry an infectious disease for the bride price, for the sake of money, he can't do anything! Next time you owe money, you will definitely sell me! Mom, if you're a few years younger, he'll sell you too! ”

Niu Niu Mi said

Thank you for the sachet reward of the little fish in Xiangjiang, and thank you for the 3 peace charms of Yimu Β°! Thanks to w1574 for the peace charm~

Today, you want to make a few more people~