(236) Chunyan, rest in peace!

Saturday, April 6, 2013)

At around 11 o'clock in the afternoon today, I chatted with my old colleague Sun Xiuying online.

She suddenly told me, "Li Chunyan is gone!"

When I heard it, I was still very surprised, although I knew that Li Chunyan's life would not be too long, but I was still a little surprised by her passing.

I didn't want to believe that this was true, so I asked Sun Xiuying: "Is the news accurate?"

Sun Xiuying said with certainty: "The news is absolutely reliable, it's been three years!"

Sun Xiuying said that she heard from Teacher Tao Yujie, who was the introducer of Li Chunyan's marriage, and they may have been in contact.

The information is accurate, that is beyond doubt, it is an ironclad fact!

My heart suddenly became sad, old friend wow, old colleague, old neighbor, after all, she drove the crane west and died!

Chunyan, farewell, you have to go all the way!

When I mourned and mourned, I naturally remembered Chunyan's life, her indelible past, and one scene after another flashed in front of my eyes like a movie lens!

Li Chunyan, we knew each other before she got married.

Her family moved to a mud bungalow in my backyard in the month and year, and there was only one road between our two families.

Chunyan's father's name is Li Changsen, and he worked in the court until his retirement.

Chunyan's mother, whose surname is unknown, worked as a worker in a pastry factory.

Chunyan is the eldest and has three younger brothers, the eldest brother Li Chunjie is my younger brother's junior high school classmate.

At that time, my younger brother and Li Chunjie, Si Duanming, Wang Jinyue, Wu Zhaohai, and Zhang Huanwu were all classmates in junior high school, and they had a close relationship, and they were often together, going to school, chatting, playing, etc.

In this way, I also met Li Chunyan.

Chunyan is very tall, about the same as me, about 1.68 meters, and she has two long big braids, which are very thick and dark.

Chunyan's appearance is not bad, her eyebrows are very dark, not her daughter's willow eyebrows, a bit of a man's thick eyebrows, her eyes are big, double eyelids, her mouth is not so delicate, but it is not ugly.

Chunyan later came to work in our school, she graduated from middle school, also taught Chinese, and we were in a teaching and research group.

We get along well and have a close relationship.

From 1978 to 1981, together with Che Ancai, Xiang Zhiqi, Chai Hua and Sun Xiuying from our teaching and research group, we were admitted to the correspondence course of Chinese in ZH City.

The six of us were very serious about studying, and in the end, we passed all the exams, completed the course, and got the certificate, while some people from other schools did not, and of course did not get the graduation certificate.

At the time of graduation, the six of us took a group photo with the two teachers of the correspondence course, and the two teachers had a very good impression of us.

We not only study hard and work hard, but we are also serious and responsible for our work, and we are good class teachers.

If you are not a class teacher, you will attend every class.

A few years later, when Chunyan came to talk about marriage, Tao Yujie pulled the red line, and Chunyan married her husband Xu Chunlin.

Xu Chunlin is very handsome, has a peaceful temper, and has an old mother at home, just this one son, Chunyan naturally lives in the same room with the old woman after getting married.

Chunyan's house is on the third landlord's side after my house, with a separate courtyard and a grass house.

Later, they built a flat-roofed red brick house in the courtyard, and Chunyan, Chunlin and their daughter Xu Fei lived in it, and the old woman lived in the grass house by herself.

The relationship between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not bad, although there are also contradictions, but Chunyan's face is still bright.

Chunyan was kind-hearted, and until her mother-in-law died of illness, she didn't hear that she quarreled with the old woman.

Two years later, the school transferred teachers to the second middle school, and Chunyan was also transferred.

The second middle school is a junior high school, and our school is a high school, so there is a big difference.

Chunyan didn't stay long in No. 2 Middle School, she went to a business school by herself, and she still taught Chinese classes.

In the winter of 1995, Chunyan came to my house.

She said that she was sick and could not attend classes, so she asked the principal of the business school, Ma Changqing, to ask me to teach her classes at the business school.

She also said that Principal Ma was worried that I would not agree, so she asked her to talk to me properly.

I can't help but agree, how can I not come to the rescue when my old friend is in trouble?

Besides, the principal of the business school used to be the logistics director of our school, and I can't help but give face, and there is also a pay, ten yuan for a class.

Money is not important, but old friends are in trouble, and Principal Ma trusts him.

Actually, I was quite busy at that time, I was the head of the teaching and research group, teaching classes, and also leading the Woye Literature Club, reviewing, proofreading, publishing books (school magazines), and carrying out activities, doing the ideological work of the members, and I was very busy.

But, I also have to go to business school!

I had never seen a Chinese textbook in a business school, and I didn't have a teaching reference book, so I had to prepare for the lessons on my own.

A year later, our school distributed junior high school textbooks to every Chinese teacher, and I found that the articles in the Chinese textbooks of the business school were all junior high school textbooks!

Chunyan worked in a business school until she retired, but she was not of retirement age and retired early.

Our relationship has always been close, and later, Chunyan officially recognized me as the godmother of her daughter Xu Fei.

Her daughter doesn't look like her, she looks very much like her father, but her daughter's face is very white and delicate, and her father's face is ruddy.

In this way, our relationship has reached a new level and is closer than before.

Although Chunyan is a woman, she has a bit of a man's flavor, her temper is a little impatient, she speaks straightforwardly, and she doesn't beat around the bush.

Chunyan has congenital heart disease and mitral stenosis.

As she grew older, her heart disease progressed.

Chunyan had saved enough 10,000 yuan to have surgery. However, the doctor said, it was too late, too old.

Chunyan is very hardworking, and she usually does a lot of work, even if her illness worsens, she has no food to open her mouth and clothes to stretch her hands.

Chunyan's daughter studies very hard, she studies in the middle of the night at night, and does not rest at noon, so she does not need to be disciplined by adults at all, and adults have to persuade her to pay attention to rest and combine work and rest.

Chunyan's daughter was very competitive and was admitted to the kindergarten school in QQHE City. After graduating, I went to teach English at a technical school in HG City.

Chunyan's daughter got a boyfriend at the school and went home to get married, and I attended her wedding.

After I entered Beijing, I heard that Chunyan and her husband had gone to Hegang to live with their daughter.

Chunyan's father, while playing mahjong, suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and died, and her mother lived on her own.

Within a few years, Chunyan's mother had a stroke, paralyzed in bed, unable to take care of herself, Chunyan took her old mother home, and served her paralyzed mother with her husband, serving her paralyzed mother with her husband, serving feces and urine, feeding food and medicine, and taking care of her mother until her death.

It is conceivable that Chunyan herself is sick and has to serve her old mother who is paralyzed in bed, which is already difficult for her, which shows her filial piety.

But I think, thanks to her husband, who must have contributed the most, her husband is a kind-hearted, gentle and considerate good person, who not only takes care of Chunyan, but also has to serve the old mother-in-law who has been paralyzed for several years, and is so uncomplaining and thoughtful!

Chunyan has a serious heart condition, thanks to her marrying such a gentle and considerate husband who knows pain and heat.

Her husband never gets angry with her, and sometimes, it is Chunyan who loses her temper, but her husband doesn't care about her in general. Otherwise, if the husband is short-tempered and doesn't know how to care and be considerate, I'm afraid Chunyan will already die and die!

Recently, I don't know why, I miss Chunyan very much, and I want to find her contact number and renew the old relationship!

It's a pity that her soul is broken, which is really a big pity!

Although Chunyan has no beautiful appearance and no amazing behavior, she is sincere and straightforward, honest and honest, and is a good friend.

Chunyan can work hard, teach her husband and children, respect the elderly, be diligent and thrifty, and is a lovely colleague!

She is also like ordinary millions of people, interpreting life, not in vain!

Chunyan, rest in peace!