BJ's trip

Friday, October 24, 2014

On September 9, 2014, I came to B******J from Daqing West, and the sky was clear and clear. My husband's foreign daughter and his wife drove to the station to pick them up. The car drove on the wide street of BJ, the trees on both sides and the flower beds in the middle of the road are very neat and clean, worthy of BJ, the capital of the people, the heart of the motherland, which is completely different from other places, giving people a refreshing and pleasant feeling.

However, my heart is extremely heavy, as soon as I enter BJ City, and when I see the young man of my husband and daughter, I think of the only child who has long passed away - my Tie'er, if he is still alive, he will drive to pick us up, isn't he?

Sitting in the driving car, the more I thought about it, the more sad I felt in my heart, and I was so sad that I burst into tears, but I couldn't cry out loud, let alone let people see me crying. Besides, I don't have a score in my heart, and I don't know if I can see my granddaughter who has been separated for three years and has been cut off from news on this BJ trip. I also miss my brother-in-law and sister who haven't seen each other for three years, as well as my younger brothers and sisters who work in Beijing......

In the evening, the younger brother and sister came to see us at my husband's brother's house, I didn't call her, the light was blind, she was still far away, but she still came, she was a shrewd person, no matter how strange the place, she could find it. When she heard that we were here today, she came to see us, and it was very happy to see each other. Two hours later, she went back, looking at her back as she faded away in the night, and couldn't help but think of her deceased little brother......

On the evening of September 12, the younger brother and sister came to my husband's brother's house again, and she came to visit her house with us. After breakfast the next day, we took a bus with my younger siblings to her house, which took more than an hour to arrive.

The little brother and sister's home in Beijing is the so-called, that is, temporary, she works in a certain unit, the unit gives her a basement to live in, this basement, there are more than 50 square meters, very spacious, beds, tables and other household belongings, are the little brother and sister in the unit to find waste products, she just bought a little cooking utensils, you can live, but she rarely cooks at home, the unit has a canteen, meals do not cost money, accommodation does not cost money, water and electricity do not cost money. I saw that her living environment was not bad, so I recorded a picture of her family and wanted to show it to my sister to reassure her.

The younger brother and sister are cheerful and outgoing characters, and now, she has no worries, and her only son, within a year, has solved four big problems: daughter-in-law, daughter, house and car. The little brother and sister's monthly salary is 3,800 yuan, but she spends it every month, what physiotherapy, what play, what shopping, etc., she lives a chic and happy life, like a fairy.

In my hometown, the little brother and sister still have a building, which was purchased by the two of them when the little brother was alive, and now it is rented out for 7,000 yuan a year. The younger brother and sister also have more than 1,000 labor insurance premiums every month, and she gives this labor insurance and rent to her son's family, and her son lives very happily. It's a pity that when my little brother was alive, he spent all day worrying about the cost of buying a house for his son's marriage, desperately earning money, treating himself harshly to save money for his son, and finally died of a serious illness because of the sorrow and fatigue all year round!

The younger siblings are ingenious, and the cooking is delicious and delicious. After the two of us came to her house, she started to make RB's food sushi, which was very troublesome, but the younger brother and sister were very serious and patient in making it, and she said it was delicious, but I didn't think it was good.

At noon, the three of us took a bus to my sister's house, and it took about two hours to get to my sister's house. Ha, my sister's house, which I have been thinking about day and night, has finally arrived, and my heart is very excited, and my sister and brother-in-law are also very happy. I look at my brother-in-law and sister, nothing has changed, even if my brother-in-law has prostate cancer, he is not as thin as wood.

My sister has already prepared the meal, but not all of them are ready, but the ingredients are prepared. My sister's legs, there is a problem, a thin film of the kneecap, has been worn out, of course, the pain is unbearable, walking, every step, she is shaking from side to side, very hard, seeing the shaking sister, I feel very sad.

Before we came, my brother-in-law ran a long way and bought a cooked chicken, and my sister cooked the elbow meat. The younger brother and sister and the husband started to cook, and when it was not long, the five of us sat down to eat delicious food, and the brother-in-law was very happy, he made an exception and drank some beer, and the brother-in-law and sister also asked me and the little brother and sister to drink some beer, and the husband drank the BJ Erguotou that the brother-in-law had already bought for him. There were five of us, talking and laughing, very warm and happy.

After the meal, I wash the dishes, this is all I can do, I can't cook well, I can only act as a rude girl. Then, my brother-in-law, my husband and my little brother and sister, the three of them played mahjong, I chatted with my sister, and the sisters were very happy to see each other, and they talked about everything and were very affectionate.

A few days later, my brother-in-law and sister decided what to eat, and they also asked us what we liked to eat, and they gave us money to let us both go to the morning market to buy vegetables and fruits and other items. I wash the vegetables, and I don't want my sister to work hard anymore, but my sister still actively participates, and then, my husband cooks, and my younger siblings go back to work.

Of course I live very fast, I also realize that I have to live every day, contact and chat with my brother-in-law and sister-in-law, and share the hardships for them, especially my sister, my sister has been dead for five years, and the three sisters, there is only me and my sister left, besides, my sister is seventy-six years old, and I am also sixty-six years old, how precious time should be for us sisters, not to mention, I can't come to BJ and my sister to get together every year.

No matter what my sister wants to do, I rush to do it, or accompany her to do it, her action is too inconvenient, but I am very sharp with my hands and feet, try not to let my sister to work, her swaying from side to side, really makes me feel uncomfortable.

Every day at half past four in the afternoon, I accompanied my sister to the nearby rehabilitation room for physiotherapy, which is a rehabilitation device invented by someone, which is to sit on a chair and overpower to promote blood circulation and help physical and mental health. My sister has been on physiotherapy for some time and feels that her sleep and bowel movements have improved.

In that physiotherapy room, I saw a staff member named Liu Wentong, and when I saw him, I was shocked, he was tall, chubby, especially that face, white, chubby, with a pair of small single eyelid eyes inlaid on it, somewhat like my deceased son. They all know my sister very well and are very affectionate and caring for her.

Every day, I look at Liu Wentong a few more times, looking at his figure and body that resembles my son, as well as his white and pure face and small single-skin eyes.

On September 18, my brother also came to my sister's house from his hometown, and when he saw us coming, he came to the party because his husband cooked and could replace his sister's hard work.

Originally, there were five of us brothers and sisters, but my sister and brother passed away one after another, leaving only my sister, brother and me, and it was not easy for our three compatriots to get together in BJ, unfortunately, my sister and brother were gone, if they were all alive, our five brothers and sisters would be together in BJ, how fast it would be!

There is also a regret, that is, during the Spring Festival in 2007, my sister celebrated her 70th birthday at the house of her third daughter in Harbin, and my brother, sister and younger brother all went, but I did not go, and the five of us brothers and sisters did not take a photo. But fortunately, in the 70s of the 20th century, the five of us brothers and sisters had a group photo, at that time, we were all young, but in old age, we did not take a group photo, I really regret it.

This time I came to BJ, I tried my best to take a group photo of the three of us, and my brother-in-law and little brother and sister took a few photos of our sisters and brothers, which is of extraordinary significance.

The two daughters and nephews in the capital, they are very busy, but they take the time to bring their partners and daughters to see us, their daughters have grown taller, like two big girls, I see them, naturally think of their granddaughter, I don't know how tall she has grown, let alone whether I can see her.

At half past eight o'clock in the evening of September 26, the husband called his daughter-in-law, but the daughter-in-law still answered, and the husband explained that we were going to visit the two of them, and the daughter-in-law agreed, but said that the granddaughter was nervous about studying and would arrange a meeting. This news made everyone very happy, no matter what, I can still see my granddaughter, which is much better than I imagined.

A few days later, my granddaughter called and said that we had arranged for us to go to their house at 6 p.m. on October 7 and stay there, which further proved that we could see our granddaughter, and this news made everyone even more happy, so I sent them a message saying: "I will meet you both soon, grandma, I am very happy, I miss you day and night." "I'm always looking forward to seeing each other sooner rather than later.

September 25th is my brother-in-law's birthday, on this day, the children do not have a holiday, on the evening of the 27th, the second foreign daughter's family arranged a birthday banquet for my brother-in-law's birthday, which was in a very high-grade hotel. This is the eighty-third birthday of my brother-in-law, the old man is dressed neatly, holding a knife, solemnly cutting the cake, and the two foreign daughters share the cake for everyone, regardless of men and women, young and old, they all share the happiness of their brother-in-law's birthday, and they all raise a glass to celebrate his birthday, and the brother-in-law is of course very happy.

My brother-in-law and sister measure their blood pressure every day, and they also let the three of us measure it, my husband doesn't measure it, and my brother and I measure it every day. My sister's blood pressure monitor is electronic, which can measure not only blood pressure but also heart rate. As a result, my blood pressure was unstable, a little high, and my heart rate was very fast, mostly between 80 and 90, rarely in my 70s, and over 100.

My brother-in-law said that my heart rate was too fast and that I needed to see a doctor to have my heart checked, and my sister said the same. In the past, I didn't care about heart rate, I didn't know what my heart rate was, and how fast it was.

On October 2, my brother-in-law specially went to the PLA General Hospital for me, which is the 301 hospital with *** inscription, he wanted to worry about the number of Zhao Yusheng, the best doctor in the Department of Internal Medicine, Dr. Zhao showed his brother-in-law the heart, and other doctors asked his brother-in-law to do heart surgery, but Dr. Zhao disagreed, and asked his brother-in-law to treat conservatively, and the result was very good. Now, Dr. Zhao is already an expert in incurable diseases, and his number is very difficult to hang, but his brother-in-law has experience and will register in front of the automatic registration machine, and his brother-in-law is the number of October 4.

My brother-in-law is 83 years old and still suffers from diabetes and prostate cancer, but he has worked tirelessly for me.

When he went to register, he asked a simple doctor to prescribe a large biochemistry, blood and urine test sheet, and electrocardiogram checklist, and before the doctor saw me, the results of these tests and examinations came out, and when he saw a doctor, he gave the doctor a reference, of course, when the doctor saw a doctor, he also had to do this.

As soon as the test results came out, my fasting blood sugar was 7.22, and the reference value was 6.1.

On the 4th of October, my sister is going to accompany me to the doctor's appointment, how can I let her go? Her legs walked, it was too hard, and she couldn't go far, but my sister said that she knew Dr. Zhao, so she had to go, and I had to agree.

Near my sister's house, I couldn't take a taxi, so I had to walk to the bus stop, this site, about a thousand meters away from my sister's house, my sister is on crutches, shaking step by step, enduring severe pain, this more than 1,000 meters away, for my sister, is undoubtedly a long march. But for the sake of me, the only sister, she gave up and paid a heavy price. After getting off the bus, I have to walk a long way to enter the threshold of 301 Hospital, which is a shorter road.

After Dr. Zhao looked at the test sheet and electrocardiogram, he asked me to further test my blood sugar to see if I had diabetes, and then do a holter electrocardiogram to check for heart problems. Dr. Zhao is an old man, very thin, very tall, he wears a mask, I can't see his face, brother-in-law said, although Dr. Zhao is an expert, but his attitude is excellent, and his medical ethics are also noble, he never prescribes more drugs to patients in order to earn a few kickbacks, nor does he accept money from patients.

Before that, my brother-in-law foresaw that he would have to hang up Dr. Zhao's number again, so he went to 301 Hospital again and hung up on Dr. Zhao's number on October 9, which was in the afternoon.

On the ninth day, my sister had to accompany me to see a doctor, and I really couldn't bear it, but my sister insisted on going, saying that she must take care of my illness and go back for symptomatic treatment. As a result, my sister still accompanied me to the hospital.

My re-test, the blood sugar after meals is 11.11, the average of the past three months is 7.1, Dr. Zhao said, this is diabetes, I listened, I was very troubled, I usually see my sister Zhang in the east house, suffering from diabetes, every day I take insulin, eat to control, I am a person, I eat very casually on weekdays, in the future, it will be controlled, fortunately, my diabetes is not serious, no need to take insulin, take medicine, control diet.

As for the heart, there was a diagnosis of coronary heart disease, premature ventricular contractions, premature atrial contractions, with an average heart rate of 90, a maximum of 103 and a minimum of 72. My sister asked Dr. Zhao in detail, how to treat my two diseases, how to take medicine, and how to take health.

Dr. Zhao prescribed metformin medicine for my diabetes, and as for heart disease, he asked me what medicine I had taken recently, and I replied that he had taken compound salvia tablets, but he didn't say anything, nor did he prescribe me medicine for heart disease. Later, my sister entered Dr. Zhao's office again and asked him if I could take Coronary Heart Salvia Dripping Pills, and Dr. Zhao replied that I could take it.

Two days later, my brother-in-law went to 301 Hospital and bought me ten bottles of metformin, and my brother-in-law also enlightened me that if you are sick, you must have a good attitude and no mental burden; Second, we must despise it strategically and attach importance to it tactically; Third, we must actively treat, fourth, we must take good health, and fifth, we must exercise strongly.

My brother-in-law said: "When I was young, I had a big hole in my lungs, I had diabetes at the age of 60 and prostate cancer at the age of 80, but I had a good mentality, no mental burden, good treatment, good maintenance, and good care by your sister." Originally, I said that I would be content when I lived to be 60 years old, but now, I am 83 years old, and my health is getting better and better. ”

My sister saw that I had diabetes, at noon on the afternoon of the ninth day, she personally prepared lunch for me, she scrambled rice for me in a state of difficulty in moving, which contained eggs, cucumbers, carrots, the ratio is 2:8, I was so moved to see my sister at such an age, under such difficulty, cooking for me, carefully prepared, I am so moved, I want to understand my sister's painstaking heart, cherish my sister's deep friendship. How lucky I am to have such a good brother-in-law and sister!

My brother-in-law and sister not only treated me, but also enlightened me and told me to live well and be happy every day. In that case, why should I not live well? My brother-in-law also wanted to buy me a book on diabetes so that I could master my knowledge, and when I got home, my brother-in-law said on the phone that he had got the book and he was going to mail it to me, and my brother-in-law and sister were so good to me!

On October 4th, Fuyuan's nephew, accompanied by his daughter-in-law, accompanied by his mother, my little brother and sister, came to visit my sister's house, and the nephew and daughter-in-law saw my eldest aunt for the first time. The brother-in-law and sister were very happy, and the nephew arranged a reception banquet in the hotel. Everyone sat at two tables and ate "Haidilao", which was really staggered and laughed frequently.

At around 4 p.m. on October 7, my husband and I took the bus to our son's house. After entering the door, I saw a huge house, the change was very small, but the house was dead, and it had been more than six years since the death of my son, and I couldn't see my son's figure in front of me, but in my mind, the figure of my son kept flashing, son, my father and mother are here, and you're gone! It's so sad!

My daughter-in-law received us, and my granddaughter hadn't come back from school, but I was imagining my granddaughter's figure in my heart: she was not tall, was she fat, and was she good at studying......

More than an hour later, my granddaughter finally came back, my husband and I greeted him, and my granddaughter's call of "grandpa" and "grandma" made my heart drunk and happy! My granddaughter has grown taller, one meter six or seven, only one centimeter shorter than me, she is fat again, but I can't say that she is fat, she is too fat, but her face is still white, like a bright moon...... Her eyes were much smaller, similar to her father's......

I gave my granddaughter money, she didn't want it, she kept putting the money on the dining table, the next morning, I found out, picked up the money again, went to my daughter-in-law's bedroom, gave it to my granddaughter, my granddaughter still said no, and said: "Raising money hurts feelings", ho, that's a good thing to say, wow, money, I put it on my daughter-in-law's bed.

On the evening of the 7th, my daughter-in-law arranged a restaurant, and the third aunt near her house also arrived with her daughter-in-law and grandson, and her third aunt was very enthusiastic when she saw me, we hugged us, and she brought me gifts: a bag of dates, a bag of almonds, and a bag of cornmeal, but I gave her grandson a meeting gift of 200 yuan, she said: "I will give you a sesame seed, you give me a bread." ”

Her third aunt sat next to me, and on the other side of me was my granddaughter, and her third aunt said, "Save money, your granddaughter has more places to use money." We immediately stated: "We don't give it to our granddaughter, to whom, there is no one else." I said, "In addition to food, clothing, and medical treatment, we have one share, which belongs to my granddaughter; There are a million, also my granddaughter's. Who does her third aunt mean by this?

The next day, after breakfast, my granddaughter went to school and my daughter-in-law went to work, and we both went back to my sister's house. In any case, everyone is still very happy, after all, they have met the granddaughter who has been thinking about it for a long time.

When I went out with my sister, I found that my sister's popularity was very good, no matter where I went, the security guard at the gate, the neighbor of the old lady in the courtyard, the owner of the supermarket restaurant, saw my sister was very enthusiastic, and opened the door for her to be very convenient, that is, I went out with my sister a few times, and those people were also very polite and caring to me. Perhaps, I can't be like my sister, but I can try to learn from her.

On September 26, my husband and I went to the Auchan train ticket office near my sister's house and bought three hard sleepers.

At three o'clock in the afternoon of the 12th, my brother-in-law made the east and invited us to a nearby restaurant, which was a northeast taste, and the sister of that place often went to them, all of which were northeast dishes, which was arranged by my brother-in-law for the restaurant where we had a meal. The children didn't have any work, just six of us, the eldest was my brother-in-law, eighty-three years old, and the youngest was my younger brother and sister, fifty-two years old.

On the evening of October 12, my nephew and daughter-in-law came with a large bag of things to give to the three people we were going home, in addition to the food on the car for the three of us, there were also four roast ducks, which were Quanjude, orthodox brand, 83 yuan apiece, and gifts for my brother and granddaughter. After the nephew and daughter-in-law left, the second daughter and her husband came with Niulanshan liquor, oatmeal, and eight-treasure porridge and gave them to us, and my sister and brother-in-law had to give us the three of us the train ticket money.

On the morning of October 13, my brother-in-law and sister arranged several dishes for us. At eight o'clock, the three of us said goodbye, my brother-in-law shook hands with us one by one, my sister sent us downstairs, we walked away, I looked back, and saw my sister still standing in place waving......

At eleven o'clock at noon, the K339 train started slowly and gradually left BJ.

My mind flashed back to the conversations I had with my sister for many days, and I remembered my sister's instructions: "Live well and be happy every day!" ”