Yan Shunhua accepted it when she saw it, and smiled and put Shen Huaping, who was full of food and drink, into the crib. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

"Since you swear that there is no problem at all, then in the future, you will be mainly responsible for the eldest and the second, and I'll mainly look at the third and fourth. ”

It's not that it's biased to anyone, but if the husband and wife divide their labor, it will be more clear, of course, as long as the child needs, no matter which one it is, she will listen carefully to their needs and try to cooperate with them in the game.

Anyway, it's only a few years when I urgently need my mother, and no matter how good the relationship is when I grow up, it can't be as close as when I was a child.

Shen Jingyuan didn't like this idea, obviously, he wanted to treat everything equally.

"Why do we need it so clearly? It's all our children, and they don't mean that they need their fathers more, or they need their mothers more, but they definitely need the same needs for their fathers and mothers. You're making a fool. ”

Yan Shunhua heard him unintentionally laugh at her for being a philistine person in one day, and unceremoniously said that she was making a fool, although she knew that he didn't mean to mock, and she didn't feel angry in her heart, but she was somewhat unhappy at this time.

"It's all the meat that fell from my body, and of course it will be treated equally.

I just mean that the two older ones are the elder brothers, of course, they have to be treated more carefully. You were raised by your grandfather as an heir, and the family's method of cultivating children is only clear to you, and I have never had such an experience in the past or later, so there must be something unexpected.

As for the two small ones, they should be able to be a little more relaxed, right? As long as there are no major problems, they can do as much as they want.

Wouldn't you be big-hearted and hope that all your sons would make great achievements?

The Shen family started by military merits, although the war is ruthless, but since the Dingguo Mansion eats the king's luck, it is natural to share the king's worries, as the so-called seeking his own government in his position, no matter which son you train to go to the battlefield, I don't care, but at most two.

Give your two sons to inherit the family glory that must be inherited, and the remaining children I want to let them develop freely, and become whatever they want, even if they yearn to become rice worms, they can also let him. Don't mind if someone says something like a waste person, it's good for us to be the pet of our parents, anyway, we have the ability, don't we?"

After giving birth to Shen Huayuan, in fact, as novice parents, they also had a lot of imagination about the future of their children, but considering the identity of his eldest son, they all knew that if this child does not like the burden of the family by nature, or his brain is stupid and cannot be exercised at all, I am afraid that the pressure will be greater than Shen Jingyuan, but because of the identity of the eldest son, he can't easily shirk it, and it is basically impossible to be free.

As parents, they can only train him to be a capable person as much as possible, even if they can't forge ahead, it is good to be able to achieve the goal, which is the minimum expectation.

I have to say that Shen Jingyuan actually has a small regret in his heart. Because Shen Huayuan, who is now two years old, does not seem to be a gifted child for the time being, compared to Shen Jingyuan himself, or his deceased eldest brother, as well as his father, and grandfather, the little ones are not as smart as they showed when they were young.

For now, Shen Huayuan looks like an ordinary child, and compared with the elders, there is no special extraordinary.

When the couple talked about it, Yan Shunhua would inevitably say that his judgment was too harsh. After all, whose children are so young don't all revolve around eating, drinking, sleeping, and the only thing to do?

Not to mention that the child is only two years old, even if he is seven years old or seventeen years old, there are many children who come to stretch out their hands to open their mouths, and ordinary people don't even have the ability to take care of themselves, but after the real learning out of the society, after tempering, there are always some ordinary people who can do absolutely extraordinary things in ordinary positions, and even many of them are blockbusters, and they are not lost to the proud son of heaven who has been amazing and talented since childhood.

This may not be a universal example, but it is not an exclusive case, throughout the ages, all walks of life have seen people who have accumulated a lot of money and become a blockbuster, or simply because of the initiation of Daigo, so they are late bloomers.

"Aren't you afraid of raising your son to waste? Even if you're in your original hometown, if a man really only knows how to eat, drink and have fun, it will be spurned, right? Even if our family has the conditions, I don't think it's something worth advocating.

Of course, it doesn't matter if the children just want to live a comfortable life, and don't want to join the army or join the military, so they are tinkering with some small businesses at home. But I, Shen Jingyuan's child, must not be a person who eats white rice.

He can not make meritorious contributions, or he can have no merit in the country and no fault in the clan, but he must have a skill to support his family, which is the minimum requirement. Even if you don't want to marry a daughter-in-law and have children when you are an adult, you have to have the ability to support yourself, and you have to rely on your own ability to really achieve the goal.

It would be a waste to rely on the support of family and friends to achieve even the most basic requirements of life. Even if our Shen family is raising a daughter, she is not so spoiled.

We have the ability to raise children in this way, but future generations may not have the ability and objective view. opened this precedent, which means that in the future, there will definitely be descendants who do not make it to talk about it, there is a learning and a change, and the atmosphere changes, and it is not far from the building will fall. ”

Yan Shunhua didn't think so far, because she herself is a loose character, and her biggest wish is to walk around and have a look, and then live plainly and plainly without tooth decay until she dies of old age, but this wish has been completely invalidated after meeting Shen Jingyuan, so when considering the way of raising children, she feels that since she has four sons, half of it will be given to the family and half will be given to her, which is very fair, isn't it?

But now that she heard Shen Jingyuan say this, she really took it for granted.

The children are still too young, and maybe they will have sons in the future, if she can persuade him to continue to give birth, according to her current age, there are still ten years of childbearing age, work hard, three to five children is not a problem, at least you can have two more, then five or five points, there will also be a son, if the Shen family's daughterless fate continues, both are sons, then there will be six sons.

Under the age of seven, it is estimated that it is difficult to grasp the nature of children, let alone help them design a life path in advance.

What's more, it's not that I haven't been a child, and few little ones will really like to walk according to their parents' design.