Chapter 1182: Win-Win

is worthy of being a mother and son, Yan Qipan also knows his mother very well, so he knows if there is one as soon as he makes a move, and he is even more accurate than his father. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info

"God operator?"

Although Yan Zhang didn't understand what it meant, when he heard that even the Son of Heaven was respected as a guest, he also knew that it was probably a noble existence that even his son-in-law had to give three points, and he couldn't help but be a little stunned, and he couldn't figure out who the master was, but this did not prevent her from making a judgment, that is, what her son said was right, if you compare it like this, it is really hard to say who is touching whose light.

But even if her own family is not as good as the Yan family's four rooms, can she let them snatch her daughter over? Is she a serious mother? Before she dies, her daughter has to call someone else her mother, which makes her feel good.

Because Yan Yucheng had lived in Yanjia Village, he knew about this stubble, so he lowered his voice and said, "It is said that he is a master of the world, who knows astronomy and geography, and there is no inaccuracy if he pinches his fingers." It's just that it rarely appears in front of people, even the people in Yanjia Village are not common.

The only grandson grew up eating hundreds of meals at the beginning, and later fell in love with the Yan family's four rooms, so he ate and lived in the Yan family, and finally married the eldest girl of their family, although he was not a son-in-law, but he was like his own son, and he was very close to the people in the four rooms. ”

Yan Qipan added, "Now that the eldest sister's family is no longer in Yanjia Village, it is said that she has followed that master and does not know where to go." Even the second sister hasn't seen her for many years, and the most she usually does is exchange letters. But the brother-in-law should know where to find each other. ”

Yan Zhang's heart couldn't help but feel bitter when he saw that his son was speaking for others all the time, "Why are you shouting about your sister's eldest sister and sister's short? No one has ever seen it, so you have to dig out your heart and lungs to people, are you stupid? Even if your sister has a fate with them, it is more because of your brother-in-law that it is like this now."

You are the future patriarch of our Liyang Yan clan, you don't need to be so low. Although our family is not as good as theirs for the time being, it is uncertain who will be strong and who will be weak in the future. ”

Yan Zhang has also seen some picture books of stories drawn by his daughter to his son, so he naturally wrote down some words.

Yan Qipan puffed his eyes, "Mother, you are living the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain." Why do you want to compare it with the second sister's mother's family?

My sister said that if you want to get along with others, if you want to live with the sincerity of others, you must first treat others with sincerity. Be a low-key person, do things in a high-profile way, as long as you are a fellow person, you don't need to distinguish between high and low at all, the win-win situation between the two is called powerful, hello, I am good, everyone is good, it is called ability.

My sister taught me that no matter when I take over the burden of patriarch from my father in the future, I must understand the importance of the pattern from now on.

To be a man must be worthy of heaven and earth, worthy of his parents, and even more worthy of his own conscience. As for some other things, you are strong, I am weak, you are rich and I am poor, you are expensive and I am cheap, etc., it is a meaningless comparison, because these things can be changed through hard work, and only real quality is the cornerstone of being invincible. ”

Yan Zhang was completely stunned, because although she supported the communication between her daughter and her son through the drawing book, she also complained a little in her heart that her daughter's drawings were some playthings.

But she didn't expect that in the place where she couldn't see, it turned out that the daughter also taught her son in this way, and obviously taught better than her mother, and the son obviously agreed with her daughter's statement.

However, ask yourself, she also likes her daughter's atmospheric teaching more, compared to her, her daughter who has married a wife is really different from before, and her vision can see higher and farther places.

Yan Yucheng glanced at his wife, and when he saw that she was silent, he nodded at his son.

"Your sister is right, the most important thing in being a person and doing things is to be worthy of conscience. As long as you do a good job, how outsiders evaluate or react cannot shake your own will. You can hear your sister's hard work, and it's obviously improving, which is good.

Since your brother-in-law values the people of Yanjia Village so much, if they come in the future, you will respect and honor them as if they were serious elders, with your sister and brother-in-law here, you will not lose you, can you write it down?"

Although the wife is not unclear, but sometimes without being reminded, it is really easy to be blinded, inexplicably, Yan Yucheng has regained some of his self-esteem as a husband, but he was suppressed too much by his wife's powerful aura a few days ago, so that he has been low and small for so long, and he has forgotten that he is far better than her.

Yan Qipan saw that his mother was silent, so he answered yes, and then left to go back to his room.

"Do you really think there is no need to worry? I'm not saying that I want to make my daughter ungrateful, I just think that even if you want to reciprocate something, you don't need to admit your relationship. ”

Yan Zhang raised his concerns during the period.

"You can also see the attitude of the third lady of Nabai today, she completely treats the Shen family as her own family, sees us, and treats serious in-laws and elders like us as guests. And the strange thing is that the subordinates of the Shen family also take it for granted, which is really outrageous. ”

Yan Yucheng didn't expect her to notice such a detail, and after thinking about it, she wasn't too sure, but even if things were really as his wife said, it was not unacceptable, because it would only confirm that the son-in-law was indeed a long-term and still respected the former father-in-law's family.

He doesn't think there's anything wrong with this, the son-in-law can do that the wife in front of him is gone, and he still treats the other party's parents as his own father and mother, so for him and Yan Zhang's serious father-in-law, even if the attitude is not close, it will not be bad.

What's more, now that his daughter has given birth to four sons for him, this is a great credit, and if he doesn't look at the face of the monk and the face of the Buddha, he will only be better and better for their Yue family in the future.

With the Shen family here, then he doesn't need to worry too much about his son and grandchildren. As long as there are no major mistakes on the surface, Liyang Yan's will be worry-free for a hundred years.

This is the most tangible benefit of a daughter's marriage.

Although he didn't sell his daughter to agree to this marriage, I have to say that he is really grateful to the Xilong Yan family for giving birth to a good daughter, so that after the death, he also let his daughter have such a good marriage.