Chapter 162: The most important thing for girls is self-love
I think that my father must have felt like this at that time, warm, comfortable, comfortable, and quiet, so my father loved my mother so much, and I was a little jealous. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info
Yan Huan'er never thought about what the love between her father and mother was like, but on such a sunny and warm afternoon, she couldn't help but ask Yan's mother this question.
"Mom, how did Dad and you meet? Is Dad your first love? ”
Mother Yan was cutting beef, and when she heard this, she paused for a moment, and a strand of hair slid down her cheek again.
With her back to Yan Huan'er, Yan's mother's voice was very soft.
"Your dad and I met at a show. At that time, my mother ...... Oh, I was also watching the play, but the chair suddenly broke, and my mother fell, and it happened that your father was there, so I helped my mother up, and we met. At that time, your dad, ah, your dad was such a good person. ”
Mother Yan picked up the knife as she spoke, and the voice of "Duoduoduo" was still orderly.
Yan Huan'er followed her mother's words, and the shadow of Ma Jianshe floated in her heart.
"Mom, what kind of feeling is love? How did you and Dad get started? Yan Huan'er asked in a low voice.
When Yan's mother heard this, she turned her body, glanced at Yan Huan'er, and asked with a smile: "Huanhuan, do you have a favorite boy?" Are you going to start a relationship? ”
"No, no, no, I'm just curious, I like to hear my mother talk about the past, and my father's business. My classmates are in love, but I don't understand what it means to be in love, so I want to know that. ”
Yan Huan'er blushed a little, but finally said what she had been confused all along.
"In love? This feeling is not something that can be explained in one sentence. Huanhuan, mom just wants you to be safe, if you have a boy you like, you must tell mom first, you know? ”
Mother Yan said very gently.
Yan Huan'er said: "I haven't yet, so if you understand it clearly, you will know what kind of person you will like." ”
Mother Yan smiled and said, "Silly girl." Like a person, don't you know if you ask your heart? Will it be happy? Will it be sad? Do you think about this person? Do you get nervous when two people meet? These are all manifestations of love. Huanhuan, do you have these phenomena? ”
When Yan's mother said this, she stopped the kitchen knife in her hand and looked at Yan Huan'er who was sitting on the small bench peeling winter bamboo shoots with a smile.
Yan Huan'er took the winter bamboo shoots there and compared her situation.
"Mom, I don't seem to have any of these situations, no, I seem to have one. For example, I sometimes think of this classmate. But this classmate is just my classmate, and he has a girlfriend. ”
After Yan Huan'er finished the last sentence, she lowered her head a little gloomily and continued to peel the winter bamboo shoots, until the white and chubby winter bamboo shoots finally showed their faces.
Mother Yan was a little surprised when she heard this, thought about it, and replied softly: "Then it doesn't count." ”
Mother Yan cut twice, stopped again, and said: "When a girl falls in love, she must love openly, and secret love is the least beautiful feeling."
Huanhuan, if you have a boy you like, be brave, ask him if he likes you, and if not, don't waste your time.
You know? In this world, there are many good people, but you must cherish those who are really good to you. Sometimes, to miss one person is to miss a lifetime.
Fortunately, I didn't miss your dad, and I am very happy and satisfied. ”
Yan Huan'er has never discussed her feelings with her mother, it turns out that her mother's feelings for her father are so straightforward and clear.
Yan Huan'er asked again: "Mom, then you and Dad, who said it first?" ”
Mother Yan suddenly laughed and said, "Of course it's your father, I'm in a hurry to wait for your father to say it." Of course, I just said yes. This sentence should be said by the boy first, otherwise, he will be proud in the future. ”
In her mother's words, Yan Huan'er suddenly discovered that her mother also had her own lively and youthful side.
Before that, the image of the mother was that of a weak woman who needed the protection of her father and herself. It turned out that my mother was also like a little girl, and she was so lively.
Yan Huan'er scraped the winter bamboo shoots in her hand with a knife and put them into the basket on the side.
"Mom, tell me a little bit about your past with Dad, I love to hear it. What's next? Yan Huan'er asked.
Yan's mother said, "It's none of your business, you can go out." ”
Yan Huan'er replied: "Then how can it be done?" I've just been cooking a little bit, and I'm going to appreciate how Dad likes to be in the kitchen. ”
When Mother Yan heard this, she smiled softly.
The mother and daughter cried a lot, but they no longer carefully avoided the topic of talking about their father. At this moment, the hearts of both mother and daughter calmed down because of the same man.
Mother Yan replied: "Girls, when you reach the age, there will be someone you like." It's a very beautiful relationship to like someone, so mom wants your feelings to be under the sun, so the classmate you just said, mom doesn't think it's okay, it's not suitable! ”
Yan Huan'er thought about getting along with Ma Jianshe in the past six months, she was not nervous when she met, she didn't want to miss if she didn't meet, it was only recently, or because she was stimulated by his girlfriend, so what her mother said, although there was a misunderstanding in it, Yan Huan'er felt that it was more troublesome to explain, so she didn't reply, and it was a tacit acquiescence.
Seeing that she didn't speak, Yan's mother thought that Yan Huan'er had listened to what she said, and finally added: "Huanhuan, when a girl falls in love, the most important thing is to clean herself and love herself." Even if our family is poor, we must be poor and have backbone. Find a boy who is really good to you, and your mother will rest assured. ”
Yan Huan'er smiled and said, "I, I haven't been discovered yet." Moreover, my mother and I have made up my mind not to fall in love for four years in college. I want to learn how to make money. In the future, I must live the same life as when my father was there. ”
Mother Yan said another word of silly child. The indescribable distress and pampering in the tone.
At this time, Yan Huan'er heard her mobile phone ringing, turned around and walked out of the kitchen.
It turned out to be Huibao's phone.
"Yan Huan'er, how are you? Where to have Chinese New Year's Eve dinner? Hui Bao was still giggling on the phone, as if he was laughing with others.
"I'm at home. Is there anything wrong with you? Although Yan Huan'er was a little disappointed in her heart, it didn't seem to be the phone call she wanted.
"Then you're done eating, do you want to come out and play? I made an appointment with a few classmates to set off fireworks in the evening. Hui Bao asked over there.
"No, I'm going to accompany my mother. Besides, I don't dare to set off fireworks. I'm just good at watching fireworks at home. Thank you! I wish you a happy Spring Festival and good health to your parents. ”
Yan Huan'er wanted to end the call.
Hui Bao smiled at the other end: "Okay, okay, I also wish your parents good health, you, all the best, fulfill your wish as soon as possible." I'll play with you again in two days. ”
Yan Huan'er replied that it was okay and closed the line.
Back in the kitchen, Yan's mother asked, "Whose phone is it?" It's a good friend to call at this time. ”
Yan Huan'er replied: "It's my classmate, who said that he was going to go out with me in two days." It's a fellow countryman, he said that his family lives in the Cultural Palace. ”
Mother Yan smiled and said, "That's good, I will have a companion when I come back to school in the future." Invite him to the house another day to sit down, and his mother will also meet him. ”
Yan Huan'er replied that she was good, but her mind didn't know where to go.
On the night of Chinese New Year's Eve, the mother and daughter set a table of dishes, and Yan Huan'er took out the cup that Yan's father drank and put it on the table, which was regarded as spending the New Year with her mother and father.
In the night sky, fireworks are like meteors, piercing the darkness of the night, blooming with the brilliance of this moment. Yan Huan'er and Yan's mother stood in front of the window with each other, quietly looking at the colorful outside.