Monday, November 4, 2013)

On October 30, night fell, and the street lights were already shining outside, and cold stars dotted the dark sky.

I looked up at the quartz clock hanging on the wall, it was already 5:40, and the six o'clock for the dance steps was approaching.

I'm going to it.

At this moment, my mobile phone rang the music of "Liang Zhu", and the beautiful and gentle music called me.

I walked into the Westinghouse quickly, picked up my phone and saw that it was my nephew Xiaojun's phone.

Xiaojun said, "Second aunt, are you at home?"

I said, "At home." ”

Xiaojun said: "Second aunt, my third sister is here to see you." ”

When I heard that it was my third niece who was coming, I was overjoyed and said happily, "That's great, come quickly." ”

Xiaojun said, "My third sister is talking to you. ”

The third foreign daughter said, "Second aunt, it's me." ”

I said, "It's Song'er, you're so good, I miss you." ”

The third daughter said, "Second aunt, I miss you too, what about my second uncle?"

I said, "He's at home, so come quickly." ”

My husband also heard my call, but he couldn't hear all the calls, so he asked, "Who is it?" ”

I said, "She asked you about it." ”

My husband said, "You tell her to come and live in our house." ”

I said to my third daughter, "Song, your second uncle told you to come quickly and live in my house." ”

I put down my phone, turned off the computer, and sat down on the sofa in the living room to wait for the three foreign girls to come.

After graduating from JL University, she was assigned to work in the Price Bureau in Harbin, and it has been more than 20 years now.

At the age of thirty-six, she gave birth to her daughter Chen Yuanyuan, and when she became fat, she had the appearance of an adult.

The third foreign daughter loves to talk and laugh, and she is very shrewd and transparent in her speech and actions, like her mother.

My husband and I went to the house of the third foreign daughter in Harbin in 2005 to help her take care of the children and take care of the housework.

We lived in Sanwai Girl's house for a total of four months, and our relationship with each other became deeper and deeper, but we still went to our son in the capital.

Later, we saw the third foreign daughter and her daughter twice at BJ's sister's house, and since then, we have never seen each other again, and as for the third nephew and son-in-law Xiao Chen, we have never met again.

I sat on the couch and waited, and my mind flashed back to me from time to time when we were at the house of the third foreign woman.

At 6:20, there was a knock at the door, and I quickly got up and went to open the door, and it was my nephew Xiaojun who came in, and behind me was the third foreign daughter.

I look at the three foreign girls, they are still so tall, not fat or thin, with a sweet smile on their faces, and they don't see old at all.

I, my husband, and my three daughters sat on the long, soft sofa, and my nephew Xiaojun sat on the stool, opposite us.

The four of us chatted all over the world.

The third foreign daughter, this time she came to Jiacheng, not for business, but for her father's medical expenses.

It turned out that the medical expenses for my brother-in-law and sister were all handled by the eldest foreign daughter, but in the past few days, the eldest foreign daughter's unit has been reformed, and they are not allowed to come out and let them be on standby in the unit.

The eldest daughter works in a bank, and her grassroots projects have been handed over to the provincial bank.

There are two ways for the eldest foreign girl to work: one to go to the provincial bank, and the other to go to the savings bank.

Go to the savings center, there are indicators, but if you can't complete the indicators, your wages will be affected, so that you don't have such indicators when you go to the provincial bank, so it seems that it's best to go to the provincial bank, but I don't know where the big foreign girl can go.

The eldest foreign daughter couldn't come out, so she had to come out to pay for her father's medical expenses.

The father of the third foreign daughter, who is my brother-in-law, is eighty-two years old, and his physical condition is not bad, he has diabetes, but he treats and maintains it well, basically, there is no problem.

Unfortunately, recently, my brother-in-law was diagnosed with prostate cancer after an examination in the hospital.

The condition is not too serious, but after all, it is cancer, isn't it talking about cancer discoloration, this cancer is scary.

My brother-in-law's prostate cancer requires medicine, injections and radiotherapy, and it is said that the cost of a year is 200,000 yuan.

My brother-in-law and sister were originally in Jiacheng, and later went to BJ to settle down.

Originally, my brother-in-law was a retired person, and the medical expenses were fully reimbursed, but it must be in Jiacheng, and the medical expenses of 200,000 yuan could not be fully reimbursed.

The problem now is that the application report is handed over to the superior, and the application report, my own one, has already been written, and some certificates have also been opened, that is, the application of the Health Insurance Bureau has not been written, and I need to find them to handle the application.

The third foreign daughter said: "My sister's work is inseparable, I just came to do it, and I am also very busy now, and I have to take the exam." ”

I asked, "What else are you going to try?"

The third foreign woman said, "Advance to the exam." ”

I listened and said to myself, oh, this exam is not just a teacher's business.

Later, the third daughter chatted with her husband, and I chatted with my nephew.

I asked, "Jun, how is your supermarket?"

Xiao Jun shook his head and said, "It's not good. In front of my house, another supermarket was opened, and his family sold it at a loss, and it was sold cheaply, so he solicited customers and went to his house to buy it. ”

The current situation is that there are many stores and no increase in customers, so it is not easy for everyone to do business.

I asked again, "When will your mom and dad come back?"

A month ago, my brother and sister-in-law went to a relative's house in Tangshan.

Xiaojun said: "Today, my parents returned to Tangshan from my aunt's house in BJ. The conductor I know is off today and will go to work in six days, I contacted him, and my parents took his car to make up the ticket, or else, the ticket was not easy to buy. ”

I said, "When your dad comes back, let him come to my house, everyone gathers, eat, drink and have fun, and your dad still has to have his fingerprints taken." ”

Fingerprinting is a way for the social security bureau in our hometown to check the certificate of retirees every year to prevent people from fraudulently receiving wages when they are not there.

It is to use a fingerprint device to send fingerprints back through the computer.

Half an hour later, my nephew came home, and the three of us were left talking.

My husband said, "Song, your heart is fine, that year, we were at your house, treating your child, and you were speechless to ask the doctor." ”

When the third foreign girl heard this, she couldn't stop giggling, and she said, "I can't remember what I asked, but I have to ask clearly." ”

My husband said: "Song, you shouldn't go to the price, you should study medicine, if you study medicine, I guarantee that you can be a hard hand." ”

The third foreign woman clapped her hands and said: "But no? I was really wrong, if I was a doctor, how popular it would be, how big an official it was, and I couldn't help but get sick, hey, everyone can use it." ”

My husband said: "Remember, there were two times, Xiao Chen drank too much, he didn't know anything, and he was sent back, you were fine, you didn't get angry, Xiao Chen threw himself on the ground, and hit the wall, I looked at him, and he didn't sleep all night." ”

The third foreign daughter said: "At that time, Xiao Chen was still popular, the leaders attached importance to him, and he also went abroad, and often had dinners, and many people were jealous of him." Now, but no. ”

Yes, as long as you have a little status, the wine can't be resisted, if you *** morning stage, it would be good.

The husband said again: "Song, do you remember, that time you and Xiao Chen had a quarrel, you dropped the basin, and Xiao Chen kicked the garbage can away." ”

When the three foreign daughters heard this, they laughed again, and I laughed too.

I said, "You two, you fell, kicked, and I cleaned it up." ”

My husband said: "That Xiao Chen, I still can't beat you when I arrive, but I am not convinced and grinding." ”

The third foreign daughter said: "Now, he is even more grinding, he is forty-six, and he can't go up, he is still a postdoctor, I said to him, forget it, you should do your job well, take good care of the children, go home and cook some food, you can't be an official, just be a good husband and father." ”

I listened to it, and I also regretted that the third nephew and son-in-law were a good man and learned, but he would not be fashionable in philosophy. No matter how great the knowledge is, you can't go to the Jinluan Palace. But he wanted to be aggressive, and that's a good thing, didn't Hitler say that a soldier who doesn't want to be a marshal is not a good soldier.

People live once, they have to make a difference, they have to go chic, not in vain!

The third foreign daughter said: "Xiao Chen's this, it is the result of his family's education, when he was a child, whether he complained about him outside or not, when he went home, he had to be beaten, this kind of education is to die to save face and suffer crimes, pit his children, dare not break through, and can't get on the big board." ”

I think there is a certain truth in the words of the three foreign daughters, this kind of family education, which restricts people, has a direct impact on the formation of people's world view and outlook on life.

I said, "Your second brother-in-law, Xiao Zhang, will not restrain the child and let her develop freely." ”

The third foreign daughter said: "That's right, don't restrain the child, the child can make a difference when the child is older." ”

The husband said: "I see, your Xiao Chen and your eldest brother-in-law are the same people, and your second brother-in-law is different from them." ”

The third foreign daughter said: "My second brother-in-law is the only one, and now, he is at the deputy department level, he is both capable and able to deal with things." ”

My husband and I listened to it and felt something, but I think that although Xiao Zhang can do things fashionably, he is still very particular about people and is a good person.

The third foreign daughter said: "Our family is all duty, I am still an honest and bullied person in the unit, and some people are broken." ”

I listened to the words of the third foreign woman and felt that the political struggle was cruel.

My husband said, "What level are you now?"

The third foreign woman said: "I am at the division level, and I am the deputy director. ”

I didn't speak.

My husband said, "That's fine." ”

The third foreign girl said: "I don't want anything else, I just want to be at the right level." ”

I asked, "How old are you?"

The third foreign daughter said, "I am forty-five. ”

I said, "Well, you and Xiao Chen are not small, and the future is not big." ”

The third foreign daughter said: "No, Xiao Chen is also at the department level, but he is not a leader." At the beginning, I didn't agree with him going to his current unit, if he was still teaching at the University of Technology, he would earn more than this. ”

My husband asked, "How much is your salary, what about your sister?"

The third foreign daughter replied: "My salary is more than 3,000, Xiao Chen is 6,000, my sister is more than 3,000, and my brother-in-law is 5,000 or 6,000." ”

I listened to this, and said in my heart that each of their families has much more income than us, and each generation is stronger than the next.

I said, "Song, you still have to run to the right level." ”

The third foreign daughter said: "I think so too, just be in the right place, just do it, Director, that's impossible." ”

Speaking of this, the third foreign girl laughed, and she said: "In Harbin, the division level is nothing. ”

The three of us chatted until ten o'clock, and then we rested, and the three foreign girls slept in the north room.

I've been lying down for a long time, but I haven't fallen asleep, I found that the lights are still on in the north room, I think, the three foreign girls are playing on the computer?

The next day, before dawn, it was dark outside, and I saw that the lights in the north room were on again, and I said in my heart, the third foreign girl got up so early to play on the computer?

I went to the North House to drink water, and the water cup was in the North House.

I pushed the door in and saw the three foreign girls sitting on the bed reading a book, and I asked, "Reading so early?"

The third foreign girl said, "Isn't there an exam?"

I listened, quickly finished my drink, withdrew, and closed the door.

After breakfast, the three foreign women went to the compound of the municipal party committee to run errands, and when they left, she asked for the address of my house.

The three foreign daughters returned to Harbin at half past one in the afternoon, and last night, Xiaojun bought her a ticket.

At about eleven o'clock in the morning, the three foreign women came back, saying that it was done smoothly.

My husband went out and ordered lunch at a nearby fragrant cake shop.

The third foreign woman said, "I invite you, just in time, I came out in a hurry, and I didn't bring anything for you." ”

I said, "How can you be asked to pay for it when you come to my house?"

I asked the third foreign girl to send my work to the eldest foreign girl on my QQ mailbox, but I won't send it.

The third foreign woman said that she brought a USB flash drive, and she entered my work into the USB flash drive and took it home.

At twelve o'clock, my third daughter and I came to the Xiangxiang Cake Shop, and my husband ordered four dishes: a plate of three kinds of fish (carp, crucian carp, catfish), a plate of pork ribs, a plate of cold vegetables, and a plate of fried shrimp with cucumber.

My husband bought a glass of liquor and asked for a bottle of beer.

My three daughters and I each drank a glass of beer, and my husband took care of the rest.

I hurried to finish my meal and went to pay the bill.

The third foreign daughter had to pay, and her husband held her pocket.

I paid, one hundred and thirty dollars.

At half past twelve, I sent the three foreign women out of the hotel, and I took out twenty yuan to take a taxi for the three foreign women, but she didn't want it.

When I got to the road, the three foreign women crossed the crossing to take a taxi, but she wouldn't let me pass.

Soon, a taxi came, the three foreign women got into the car, we waved goodbye to each other, and the taxi sped away.

In the evening, at 8:20, the third foreign woman called, saying that she had arrived home safely.

When she was leaving, I told her to call home, otherwise I would be worried.

The husband said: "There is no shortage of anything, but there is a shortage of people, just let them come, don't want them anything." ”

Yes, my husband and I have no worries about food and clothing, but we are empty nests, and our relatives are here, and there is family affection, which is better than anything else!