006: Warm and cold
Before Li Wen's boyfriend came, Shu Tao felt a little sleepy, and said goodbye to the three of them early when he thought that he would have to go to work tomorrow.
After Shu Tao left, Erman sneered at Li Xuan and said: "You are really good, take the wine given by others and tell Shu Tao, this is specially prepared for her, it seems that you are really good at planning and putting all the good things on yourself, if it weren't for Li Wen's straightforward heart to sell you a yard, it is estimated that Shu Tao would really believe in your evil way!"
Li Xuan just smiled and said, "She's still young, and isn't she in a bad mood today to find us, just let her be happy." β
Li Wen said angrily on the side: "Yo, it's not that I'm honest and wrong, let your act of borrowing flowers and offering Buddha show your feet!"
Li Xuan asked, "Is the matter of the house settled?"
She sneered and said: "Hey, how can I get it, my father and my mother divorced, split this family, I don't know when it's a head, I don't want to live with them recently, I'm looking for a place, but there is no suitable one, you say it's inconvenient to share a house, and the rent is expensive to live by yourself, besides, when can I find a man to buy a house with me!"
Li Xuan smiled and said, "It seems that Erman, a celibate like you, would still want to marry someone?"
"Hey, it's not because life is forced to think about this decision, you said that you want me to be born like a book peach without worrying about food and clothing, why still want to find a man, live alone, and travel around the world with rich dad's money!" Erman stretched.
"Hey, don't look at that girl who doesn't worry about food or clothing, she hasn't been idle to find a boyfriend for a quarter of an hour, and her requirements for men are not low, and in a few minutes, she can count the capital of the man shaking in front of his eyes, you have to learn from her!" Li Xuan closed his laptop and put it in his bag.
"But what? People like me who don't need men to live psychologically, but the reality forces me to find a man to live with, a girl like Shutao lives a carefree and carefree life but is extremely bored and wants to find a companion to pass the time! One wants a man's money, the other wants a man's time, but what is the final result? A woman who wants a man's money gives her time and her youth to a man, and a woman who wants a man's time to spend time with her money and her body, and it is not cost-effective to think about which business to go! Being a woman is not a way to make money, but a risky job!"
"There's no need to be too pessimistic, feelings are sometimes worse than a bottle of shampoo. β
"What do you mean?"
"Sometimes two people spend a short time together, and before a bottle of shampoo is used up, the two of them break up and say goodbye. So everything goes naturally, I'm past the age of talking about feelings, and I'm a man, what woman dares to entrust me, and like you said, you think too much, you need to ask too much, we can't afford it. β
Erman thought that the man in front of him was so sober that it was a little intimidating, but it was so honest that it was reassuring.
Perhaps it is such a relationship that has maintained them until now.
Some people are together because of love, for them, marriage is just a piece of paper, while some people are together because of transactions, and vice versa, love is just two words for them.
But there are some people together, not for anything else, just for you to understand and I understand, just as Liao Yimei said in "Soft", after all, it is not difficult to get love and sex, but it is difficult to gain understanding.
But in this world, it is really not easy to find a person who fully understands his own thoughts, and we can only choose not to try not to gain the understanding of most people, because sometimes it is really people who can go to a level and the same platform to reach a real consensus and recognition;
Just like Shu Tao was misunderstood as showing off his wealth for no reason, Li Xuan was misunderstood as ruthless, Erman was misunderstood as self-assured, and Li Wen was misunderstood as blind.
Shutao returned home, walked in the warm futon, thinking about Li Wen's words, why should he fancy the other party's money, as long as he loves you.
This is quite lightweight, and it is natural that only those who already have it dare to stand and talk like this without backache! Just like Li Wenxin's longing to have a Fendi handbag, it is not necessary to save for more than half a year to buy one!
For Chu Tao, being able to meet a man who really loves him is like Li Wen wanting to own a brand-name handbag, there is really nothing to do but wait.
If this is the case, don't try to make a earth-shaking change or a gritted tooth and make up your mind to make us move towards a satisfying life, the legend of the phoenix is easy to promote, but it is difficult to maintain the normal state after rebirth, people are easy to be satisfied, but it is a solid mentality that can maintain the peace of mind of the pearl hibiscus.
As long as there is still a desire in the bottom of the heart, it will be itchy, and it will be searching, which is the need for eternal peace!
Shu Tao put on the mask and fell asleep several times in a daze.
At this time, the phone rang, and when she looked at the number, it was a transatlantic call, from her sister who was far away in the United States.
"Hey, what do you say!?" Shutao asked.
"The annoying mother has finally gone back, and I'll be in the country tomorrow, hahahaha, I'm finally free!" Shulei on the other side was overjoyed.
"Hey, you're graduating in one year, have you figured out where to work, do you want to come to our company?"
"I don't want it!" Shulei said, "You think I'm you, and my parents can play whatever they want? I'm tired of all those business negotiations and collusion between officials and businessmen! I'm going to do romantic things!"
"Don't talk nonsense, what kind of collusion between officials and businessmen, which eye do you see our father bribing officials!"
"Oh, I can't grow cabbage myself, and I haven't seen cabbage grow in other fields! Besides, the real estate industry is not a soup of clean water!"
Shu Tao hurriedly interrupted the nonsense sister on the other side and asked: "What are you talking about romantic? Won't it be pampered and loved? Or find someone to marry, and accompany your future husband to grow old?"
"you!" Shulei retorted, "It's not about marrying!
"Understood, if you dare to be in love, you are going to be a matchmaker at the marriage office!hehehe!" Shutao giggled!
"Sister, you have a little imagination, when you come back, I'm going to do a wedding!" Shulei said eloquently, "You see, people nowadays are more and more interested in getting married, you say that I don't use this to make money, what can I do to make money! From ancient times to the present, weddings, funerals, marriages, and children are the three things that can make the most money, why don't you do it?"
"It seems that you can't get rid of the clichΓ© of money. β
"Of course, it's a beautiful thing to do, I need design, lighting, flowers! It's all art! And I originally learned Landscaping Designing in the United States, which came in handy!"
"Okay, good, sister with ideas!" Shu Tao's drowsy mood just now was sobered up by Shu Lei's trouble, and she then asked, "How are you and your boyfriend Fu Yuanshan?"
"We'll get married when we come back!"
"Really, isn't Mom disagreeing?"
"I like what's wrong, why do I want her to agree, it's not that she wants to marry!"
"But I heard my mother say that I am afraid that such an intellectual child is unacceptable, and it is only his father who is a teacher, and his mother is a farmer-turned-non-farmer. β
"How do you know so clearly? Is it that my mother is going to find someone to investigate again? I hope she is doing well, and stop going to other people's homes like a reconnaissance team!"
"You, come back or bring him to his house for dinner, and let the old lady help you think about it. β
"Just you? You only buy those expensive designer bags? And help me look at men? Your vision is limited to fashion shows, not suitable for picking men!"
"How did you talk to your sister?" Shu Tao suddenly felt a little self-pity when she heard Shu Lei's words.
You can tell at a glance whether LV is true or false, but how can you tell whether a man's heart is true or false?
"Okay, let's not talk about this! But as you just said that you want to get married when you return to China, I'm happy for you. β
"What's the matter, sister, are you unhappy at home?"
"I'm very tired, pretending to work in my own company every day, listening to the grassroots people scolding the upper echelons like a spy, sometimes they count down my dad in gossip, I really can't listen to a word of these words!"
"It's hard for you, or you change jobs!
"I'm afraid it's not good! Mom won't agree!"
"Mom, mother
She really envies her sister's daring to love and hate, unlike herself, the idol burden is too heavy, sometimes she really directs and acts in a play, and she is fascinated, and finally she can't get off the stage!
At this time, she wanted to resign tomorrow, and as for the back road, she didn't want to! Just like her sister said, people know how cold and warm they are!
She looked at the neon light and shadow outside the window, and looked at the boats coming and going on the river, and suddenly realized: in the inexorable passage of time, any form and any nature of life is a different path to perdition, and there is no good or bad at all, so there is no need to deliberately slander or praise her own life rules, cold and warm self-knowledge is the best explanation.