It's probably because yesterday's show involved a third party in the family, and almost all of the people who came in today were confiding in this area. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

What should I do if my husband has a mistress.

What to do with the seven-year itch.

There is even a consultation husband who sleeps and snores and wants to divorce.

Xiaoqian has long been familiar with these things, night talk programs are to listen to all kinds of emotional problems, people rarely think of asking for help when they are in a good mood, and only when they are troubled, they will think of making a phone call.

And most of the troubles are related to family, she has long been numb when she listens, but Yu Minglang, who accompanied her throughout the whole process, was thoughtful.

He kind of understands how Xiaomei's premarital phobia came about.

She grew up in a special family, and the disagreement between her father and mother made her subconscious rejection of marriage.

Although Jia Xiufang has a good life after reorganizing her family, Xiaoqian does not go home often, and her impression of home is still stuck in that childhood full of quarrels.

When I grew up, I majored in psychology and clinical practice, and I came into contact with all kinds of people with problems and unhealthy families.

It is also normal for her to feel anxious and fearful about marriage, and Yu Minglang admits that he was a little uncomfortable when she first avoided marriage.

When he went to the bookstore to check the information, this discomfort turned into distress, especially when he went downstairs to buy water and heard the conversation between two staff on night duty, his distress became more and more obvious.

Xiao Qian came out after recording the show, and saw him half-leaning on the door in contemplation, and stretched out her hand and shook it twice in front of his eyes.

"What are you looking at?"

"Resign."

"What did you say?" Xiao Qian thought she had misheard.

The director on the side pretended to pack up the materials, but in fact, his ears were pricked up.

"Resign, if you are embarrassed to talk to Professor Liu, I will say it."

He didn't want her to do it anymore.

He felt sorry for her after only listening for a while, and doing these things made her subconscious more uneasy about marriage.

"How did you remember to say this?"

Xiaoqian didn't know what stimulated him, he was fine when he came, and he didn't let her do it after recording an episode?

"Go back and talk about it." Yu Minglang didn't want to say this in front of outsiders.

On the way back, Xiaoqian asked about this topic again.

"Why do you suddenly want me to resign?"

"I just went downstairs to buy water when I heard two people on night duty chatting, and they said..."Yu Minglang thought of the conversation of those people, and his face darkened.

"What did you say?"

"I said that there was a host who was doing a psychological talk show on the radio before, and he committed suicide."

"I've heard about this too, it's my last host, and I'm a very good person, but it's a pity that I'm still so young."

The suicide rate of hosts of psychological talk shows is quite high.

In fact, it is not only the host of the talk class, but also the suicide rate of psychologists.

"Don't do it, it's not good to do something, you have to come out so late, delay your sleep, and listen to others pour emotional garbage every day." Yu Minglang didn't want to interfere with her work, but after hearing that someone had committed suicide, his heart was blocked.

He couldn't imagine what he would have done if it was Xiao Qian.

"Don't you know what major I am? The clinical thing is to act as a listener to various emotional problems, and the radio can only be regarded as emotional garbage and have no psychological problems, so this is just an internship work given to me by the teacher, and the psychological counseling I want to do in the future is much more serious than this, and you are not suitable for me to do this, so what should you do if I really work in the future? ”

As soon as he heard her say that it would be more serious than this in the future, 26 suicide methods immediately appeared in Yu Minglang's mind, and his face turned pale and felt like he was about to suffocate.

I blurted out without thinking about it.

"Don't do it, I'll take care of you when you go home."

Xiao Qian looked at him deeply, "I won't talk about this question in the future." ”

As soon as Yu Minglang heard her tone, he knew that he was self-defeating.

"I'm just worried about you, why do you do it if you're exposed to negative information every day and it's already affecting your own life?"

"Then you can go home too, I will raise you, can my profession be more dangerous than you? If being a special forces is already a serious threat to your life, then why do you do it? ”

"It's not the same at all!" Yu Minglang was a little annoyed.

"It's no different, special forces are also high-risk occupations, higher than the occupational risk coefficient of our psychiatrists, if it is really true, many occupations are high-risk occupations, and they all feel that they are dangerous and do not do it, so what should we do with these vacant positions? If you think it's dangerous and want to take a glass bottle to cover me inside, who will be the psychiatrist? ”

"You don't want to change the concept, I don't mean the same thing as you at all, I hope you can be happy every day, not so stressed." In the face of her sharp teeth, Yu Minglang was a little frustrated, but he still insisted on his opinion.

"Where do you see I'm unhappy? I don't feel very stressed, I'm comfortable with this kind of counseling, and I don't bring my emotions at work to my home, so you don't have to worry about me suffering from depression due to stress like those seniors. ”

You're not depressed, but you're afraid of marriage! Yu Minglang couldn't say these words, he could only be anxious in his heart.

When he went home, he went to the supermarket, Xiaoqian thought he had bought a set, and thought about how he would buy it at night after buying it in the morning?

Oh, it must be that he knows that tomorrow and the day after tomorrow are Saturdays and Sundays, and he wants to do it a few more times?

This idea makes her a little shy and a little bit expectant, Yu Xiaoqiang is not the kind of person who can only make a single move, it can be called full of tricks, there are different surprises every time, for Xiaoqian, who is under a lot of pressure now, it may be a good way to decompress.

As a result, she was looking forward to it in vain, after going back, Yu Minglang did not take a mandarin duck bath with her like yesterday, Xiaoqian lay down early after taking a bath, and after waiting for a while, he didn't react, went to the living room to see him standing on the balcony, and took out a small box from his pocket, but the box was not a set but a cigarette.

I've barely seen him smoke, so what is it that makes him so stressed?

Xiao Qian leaned against the bedroom door and looked at him, Yu Minglang held the railing of the balcony and smoked silently, but she was thinking about her.

Xiao Qian thought about it, but still didn't come forward to disturb him, she knew that every man has a certain stage that will be particularly lonely.

The biggest difference between men and women is that women's first reaction is to talk to friends, but men prefer to return to their own spiritual world, the spiritual world is their secret garden, men don't like to talk and don't need comfort, when they encounter difficulties, what they need is cigarettes, alcohol and a space to be alone.

Xiao Qian gave up the idea of stepping forward to accompany her, and retreated to the bedroom to lie down, she also needed a space to be alone now.

Maybe what Qiuqiu once said is right, there is a strong T living in Mr. Qian's soul, and sometimes her thinking is really close to men.

But although he lay beside her this night, the nightmare that disappeared for a day came back, Xiaoqian woke up from the nightmare and sat up, and found that Yu Minglang hadn't slept, and looked at her with deep eyes I don't know how long it was.

Niu Niu Mi said

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