(99) Mother's cry
A mother who gives her all to her son. The son grew up, married a wife and had a daughter, and had a successful career, but abandoned his mother. When my mother was leaving, she had a beautiful dream.
The philosophy of motherly love may never be understood by some people......
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In that bustling metropolis, my mother enjoyed the joy of family and life to the fullest. There are buildings and villas and high-end cars at home, and they live the most modern life. The children did their best to be filial, the old lady was carefree, and the embarrassment and pain of the past were gone.
The mother only needs this only child in this life. This only child has fulfilled the duties and affection of boys and girls, thinking about what her mother thinks, worrying about her mother's worries, and worrying about her mother's anxieties. My mother only felt that she had not suffered all kinds of sufferings and sins in vain in this life, and that everything she had paid had been rewarded.
As for the mother, she still dedicates light and heat to the family. These people are the elements of her life (including her daughter-in-law). The family is harmonious, caring for each other, considerate of each other, helping each other, and there are no rifts and troubles at all. Mother has always believed that her three generations will not be a vicious circle, but a virtuous circle.
The son is tall and blessed, for he came to earth at the hottest hour of the day, and he is wise, shrewd, and capable, with the ambition of the new century, and with the courage and skill of a contemporary. In his career, he has gone through ups and downs, and now it is smooth sailing and soaring. Emotionally, he respects his mother, loves his wife and daughter, and is kind to his relatives and friends.
He's quite busy, indeed. From a small town to a metropolis, it's all about individual struggle. A large part of this spirit of struggle comes from the mother. His mother gave him not only too much love, but also the ability to survive and the truth of life. In addition to the mother, there is also the love, care, teaching and encouragement of the mother's family. He is not a "descendant wolf", he will never forget all this, let alone sell all this, he is "the grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring", because since he came to this world only thirty years of historical facts fully prove one point: no one can compare with the kindness of the maternal line.
In particular, he received great love from his mother, and he deeply understood the breadth and depth of this love and the immensity of the price to pay. He never forgot about it - it was the soul calling. He repaid his mother's deep kindness with the brilliance of success, and he warmed his mother's heart with unshakable and indestructible persistent feelings.
He loved his mother very much—she had sacrificed so much for herself: youth, energy, blood and sweat, love, fame, happiness...... My mother endured too much for herself: Bo Xinglang's fierceness, coldness, selfishness, and death, the cold reception, instigation, demand, and injury of the husband's family, the embarrassment, pressure, fatigue, and helplessness in life, the mental sorrow, annoyance, suffering, and destruction, and the exclusion, framing, blackmail, and persecution of the powerful...... What kind of mother has not experienced the suffering in the mortal world? Mother is not unhappy but abandoned for herself, with her mother's talent and virtue, she can find a like-minded husband, she can live a happy life, she can have a comfortable and happy spiritual world, she can become a powerful "head of the kingdom...... It's not that her mother hasn't thought about it, and she's not a weak person, but she can't see the tears of the little boy, she admits it and endures it. With great courage and tenacity, she faced the bleak life and raised her only beloved son. For the sake of her son, she gave up her long-cherished wish to have a daughter. Mother's dedication is simply incalculable, gold is worth a thousand taels in the end, and love and righteousness are always priceless.
He finally grew up, he can't be like a layman who "marries a daughter-in-law and forgets his mother", his mother is the creator of his life, his mother is the founder of his career, and his mother is the giver of his happiness. Without his mother, there would be no him, and there would be no everything he has today. He can't let his mother, who has worked hard for him all his life, suffer misfortune in her old age, suffer from misery and hardship, and die in sadness and remorse!
He knew that when people reached this age, what they needed most was spiritual comfort. He always chatted with his mother with his childish innocence and maturity when he grew up: "Mom, look how good this day is!" "Mom, what else do you want...... Mother was so happy, she always let out a kind and satisfied laugh: "Son, Mom doesn't lack anything." "Mom is so happy...... "The son and his wife emphasized their mother's kindness, poured out their mother's love and warmth, poured out their mother's bitter and difficult first half of her life, and spread to his wife the vow that he would never let his mother suffer any more grievances: since his mother sacrificed everything for herself, she should also sacrifice everything for her mother, this is natural, this is human nature, otherwise, it is the beast nature of wolves!
The daughter-in-law is quite beautiful. It has the edges and temperament of women in the new era, and has the demeanor and charm of classical women. She is considerate of her husband and cares for her children, and respects her husband's mother even more. In particular, she can understand that her mother-in-law's blood and tears for her husband are all women, she does not have the jealousy and arbitrariness of today's women, she understands that between her husband and her mother-in-law, she should be a harmonious angel and not a devil who sow discord!
She also understands that behind a successful man there is always a self-sacrificing woman. If her husband succeeds, so does she. She feels no guilt when she shares the splendor and joy of success.
She is not a selfish and lazy woman. She was born in a family of scholars, who was affectionate, educated, and learned, and received a good education since she was a child. She loves to talk and laugh, and she is affectionate and righteous. The whole family liked her, and the old man was very satisfied with her. Contemporary people think that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult and difficult to get along with in human relationships, but she can get along with her mother-in-law in harmony, as if she is her own, filling the gap of her mother-in-law without a daughter. She often teaches her children to honor their grandmothers by word and deed, because she understands better how much influence a mother can have on innocent children.
The little granddaughter, of course, is also a boutique shaped by the world. Cheng Huan was on his grandmother's knees, flying around like a little butterfly all day long, adding endless fun to his grandmother: serving tea and pouring water, beating her back and rubbing her legs...... Grandmother regarded it as a jewel in her palm - she was a replica of her own mold and transcended!
This little granddaughter is also quite beautiful: her face is like a peach blossom, her eyes are like autumn waves, her mouth is like a red pearl, and her teeth are like snow. What's even more gratifying is that the IQ is quite high, and I will never forget it, and I will learn it as soon as I learn, although I am not of school age, but I am already "full of economy and have both ability and political integrity". This is naturally inextricably linked to the old grandmother, who is a person of advanced knowledge who teaches her like a student.
In this family of four, the spiritual and the material are perfectly combined, the older generation celebrates their old age, the new generation has a successful career, and the next generation thrives. Look at this family, it can really be described as the most perfect epitome of the new century!
On summer weekends, the whole family goes out to enjoy the light. The four of them sat in a luxury limousine, the little granddaughter snuggled in the arms of the old grandmother, the son held the mother's shoulder and pointed out the window, and the daughter-in-law combed the old man's upturned hair behind the mother-in-law.
The laughter of the whole family sprinkled behind the speeding car: hahaha......
At noon, the mother collapsed on her side and cried out in a daze: "Oh my God......"
Mother's nine curved ileum roots were broken, the ups and downs were all in vain, the mother's blood vessels shrunk and trembled, the flowing blood turned into tears, and the mother's heart was broken, and what flowed out was bright red blood.
The mother's body gradually ossified, and only the wisp of incense still lingered between heaven and earth......
(May 2002)