Brother's birthday

(December 17, 2013)

November 16 of this year, the 14th day of the 10th month of the lunar calendar, is my brother's birthday.

My brother was born in 1941 and is 72 years old this year.

I'm going to celebrate my brother's birthday, and that's what I'm supposed to do as his own sister.

Looking back on my brother's life, he had a very difficult life, and his life was bumpy and full of troubles and pain.

In this, the most important factor is that my brother married an unvirtuous person, and his wife is nicknamed "Li Ba Crooked".

This nickname was given to her by Li Ba's crooked colleague, and it can be seen from this nickname what kind of person she is.

Back then, everyone in the family could see that Li Ba's crooked character was not good, and her mother's family did not have a kind person, besides, Li Bacro's neighbors also told us about her and her family's bad deeds.

However, the elder brother did not realize the seriousness of the problem, and he did not believe in the bad character of his fiancée and the misdeeds of his father-in-law's family. Because, my brother's heart is too kind, his heart is too affordable, and his mind is too simple.

And his fiancée, who is a sinister and cunning duplicity, easily deceived his brother.

No one in the family, from parents to brothers and sisters, approved of the marriage, but the elder brother was obsessed, and the family had to approve it.

After getting married, Li Ba's crooked deeds happened one after another, and the evil deeds of her mother's family also happened one after another.

But the elder brother did not see them for what they really were.

Li Ba is crooked, he rejects his mother-in-law's family, takes advantage of his mother-in-law's family, sow discord, makes trouble out of nothing, and makes waves.

Li Ba's crooked behavior, the family can tolerate and accommodate, and the most important thing is that she is also ruthless to her husband, my brother, and does everything she can to hurt and even destroy.

Li Ba is crooked, she has figured out her husband's heart and morality, and she also understands her husband's deep affection for her. But instead of cherishing all this, she used it as a weight to dominate and hurt her husband.

Li Ba is not treating her husband with a loving attitude, she doesn't take her husband in her eyes, it's not that she doesn't have a husband in love, on the contrary, she is satisfied with the husband she chose.

But she is a quirk by nature, her concept of life is distorted and deformed, she thinks she is a flower, inserted in cow dung, she values herself too much, and she exalts herself too much.

At home, she sees herself as an unstoppable empress, self-serving, and she sees her husband as a slave, and she is the only one.

Li Ba is an extreme egoist.

She bullied and destroyed her husband at will, she controlled the financial power of the family, controlled her husband's economic lifeline and freedom of action, she commanded and commanded, all the housework was borne by her husband alone, she scolded her husband when she opened her mouth, beat her hand when she raised her hand, shouted and drank, and did everything.

Moreover, Li Ba is crooked in front of her family and outsiders, and tries her best to belittle her husband, even in front of her children, provoking the relationship between her children and their father.

If her husband had three calamities, she not only ignored them, but also gloated.

Li Ba was crooked, stole the family's money and belongings to her mother's family, and she saved money privately to go out to loan sharks.

In order to achieve her goal, Li Ba unscrupulously created her husband's peachy scandal to blackmail and destroy her husband.

Li Ba distorted her husband's spirit and body, and she used some unfortunate events in the family or even unfounded to satirize and ridicule her husband, rule her husband's mind, and prevent her husband from touching his family, lest he wake up.

Li Ba never unwashed her husband's cotton pants, and the cotton pants that she had worn for many years had no effect on keeping out the cold, so her husband had hemorrhoids and bled incessantly.

Li Ba was crooked in front of outsiders, raised his hand to open the bow left and right, rubbed her husband's big mouth, and drove her husband out of the door on the night of the harsh winter wax moon, wandering on the street, the soles of her cotton shoes were frozen hard......

Li Ba's various bad deeds and evil deeds have brought endless disasters and pain to her husband.

But the elder brother's awakening was both late and slow, and he was also worried that his children had not grown up and started a family, and he had never broken with his wife.

For thirty years, my brother has been in dire straits, pain and troubles have been haunting him, and he has lived a more difficult and painful life than anyone else.

However, dark clouds can't hide the sun, and the cold can't lock in the spring light.

Finally one day, the elder brother woke up, and he was completely disappointed in his wife.

After repeated thinking and painful choices, my brother and his insidious and vicious wife parted ways!

It wasn't until the end that Li Ba saw her husband's resolute attitude and repented, but this repentance came too late, and everything was irreparable!

Li Ba was so helpless that he had to sign the divorce paper.

When they parted, Li Ba said with tears in his eyes: "You are a good person!"

Hehe, I knew today, why bother in the first place!

After the divorce, Li Ba crooked was obsessed with her husband who was far away from her, and always wanted to remarry, but this is also a dream of Handan!

Li Ba Crooked never got married again, perhaps, she still has illusions in her heart, looking forward to reuniting with her husband, right?

After eight years of divorce, Li Ba got ovarian cancer in loneliness.

On the Dragon Boat Festival after ten years of divorce, Li Ba died crookedly, and God punished her and extradited her to the bottom of the Nai He Bridge!

As for my brother, after the divorce, thirty years of suffering were relieved, and he tied the knot again and embarked on a bright road!

Thirteen years ago, my brother came to Jiacheng with his wife and son and started their new life.

My brother's family started from scratch, and a few years later, he opened a supermarket, bought two buildings, married a daughter-in-law, and had a granddaughter. The building and the supermarket are cost-effective, worth three or four hundred thousand. There is no worry about food and clothing, the life is leisurely, and there are no more hardships and troubles.

The supermarket at home does not have to worry about the elder brother, he just takes care of it for two hours in the morning, and then, he is fine, he can watch TV, play mahjong, sleep, and eat whatever he wants, everything in his own supermarket.

My brother is over 70 years old, and due to the torture of the first thirty years of suffering, his face has been carved with wrinkles and old age spots, and his hair has turned gray, but this has not affected his mental state.

The year before last, in November 2011, it was my brother's 70th birthday, and I wanted to celebrate his birthday, but unfortunately, he had a cerebral infarction and was hospitalized for a month, but he did not celebrate his 70th birthday.

In November last year, I celebrated my brother's birthday, which was arranged by my family, and my husband made a few good dishes and brought my brother-in-law's house to them, but in order to avoid them being distracted, it was not made public.

This year, in November, my brother's birthday came again, I went to the hotel to arrange for my brother's birthday, and it was also public, generous, and upright, but no matter who cares, my brother will not accept it.

November 16, the 14th day of the 10th month of the lunar calendar, is the day of my brother's 72nd birthday.

I arranged a reunion dumpling restaurant near my home.

I rightly informed Jiacheng's two relatives, my brother-in-law and nephew.

Relatives, sister and younger brother died one after another, the eldest niece's family went to Bingcheng, the younger brother and sister went to the capital to work, and her son went to settle down in other places.

Counting around, that is, eleven people: my brother and his son, daughter-in-law and granddaughter, brother-in-law and step-sister, nephew and family of three, plus my husband and me. My sister-in-law can't come to the supermarket.

I think my brother's life is not easy, and he needs to be happy and healthy in his old age.

There are five of us brothers and sisters, my brother and sister have passed away, my sister is far away in the capital, only I am by my brother's side, I want to give him a decent birthday, make him happy, everyone comes to cheer him on, can add to my brother's happiness.

Besides, my sister-in-law also said that she and her brother were going to live in Tangshan.

When I heard this, my heart fluttered. It turned out that there were several relatives in Jiacheng, and as a result, as soon as we came, those who passed away, and those who went to other places went to other places, and there was not much left, could it be that we came to interfere?

I have more reason to arrange a hotel, if it is really as my sister-in-law said, in the future, in the winter, my brother's birthday, is that I want to give him again, far away, it is beyond the reach of the whip.

At 5 p.m. on November 16, all the relatives gathered at the reunion dumpling shop.

A table of colorful delicacies, a full glass of liquor, beer and drinks is enough for everyone to enjoy.

Eleven sat around the table.

The husband raised his glass to his brother and said, "Second brother, happy birthday!"

Everyone present, young and old, raised their glasses and said, "Happy Birthday!"

The two girls seated, my brother's granddaughter Tingting, raised their glasses and said, "Grandpa, happy birthday!" The nephew's daughter Kiki also raised her glass and said, "Uncle, happy birthday!"

The children's voices are very young, but they are particularly pleasant to hear, and the meaning is special and pleasing to the eye.

As for the old birthday brother, of course, he was in good spirits, he didn't say anything - he didn't like to talk, and he wasn't good at socializing, he just smiled.

I feel that my brother is very happy and happy!

The birthday banquet is lively!