"Many times, we always say that a person with a dream is happy, because it gives him the goal to strive for, but at the same time, there is another sentence, people with dreams are also hard, because you must first make efforts to pursue your dreams, struggle, money is not omnipotent, but having a money foundation is also the most basic condition for realizing dreams."

"Many young people think that I am pursuing my dreams and can put everything behind, but first I will ask him a question, in the process of pursuing your dreams, whose money are you spending on food, clothing, housing and transportation?"

"People can't live without dreams, but they can't only have dreams, but also family, love, and friendship."

"Dreams are great and beautiful, but life is not only about dreams, but also about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, as well as parents, brothers, sisters, lovers, and friends."

"Actually, you are happier than most people, your parents, more open-minded than many parents, you pursue your dreams, they didn't stop you from the beginning, and even in order to play games, they also helped you ask for leave from school, and also found you a club trial, people should be content, and they should know how to be grateful."

"You really have nothing to complain about, if your parents don't give you a chance to try in the first place, then you can be unwilling, but you have tried, failed, what reason do you have to complain?"

"They've done enough for you, but what about you? What does it bring them? It's their worries day and night, it's the knees they've bent over their entire lives. Is this what you want? ”

"You said in the show, as long as I think you are not suitable, then you give up your existing thoughts and behaviors, so good, today we will not talk about anything else, just say that you are indeed not suitable for this profession!"

What Ye Qiu said, in fact, many people have heard it more or less, but from Ye Qiu himself said it, it was different.

At least, for Qiu Dongdong, every sentence made him ashamed, he always thought that in order to pursue his dreams, he could give up everything and make any effort, but he ignored that the dream was his own, but he couldn't afford the cost of chasing his dream.

And all this requires his parents to pay for him.

"Here, there are a lot of people who see that the income of e-sports players has gone up and the scenery has risen, so they use those successful examples as an excuse, thinking that they can be as successful as them, but in fact? You only see their success, their scenery, but you don't see what they have encountered and what they have paid in the process. ”

"No one can succeed casually, people must have self-knowledge, have dreams, when you have the ability to pay for it, you can be willful, you can be persistent, but before that, please work hard to live, because dreams are not realized, you may not be able to live, but if you don't work hard to live and work hard to make money, you can't even guarantee the most basic life, what kind of dreams?"

At the same time, there are many people in front of the TV, including parents, young people and children who are in the prime of their dreams, and people who are working hard for their dreams.

"Do you hear that? It's good to have a dream, don't you want to be a singer? Okay, I can let you try it, but if you try and it doesn't work, then you should stop thinking about it for the time being. ”

"If you don't see it, there is a cost to pursuing your dreams, you have to be able to solve your own food, clothing, housing and transportation first!"

"I suddenly want to go home, maybe I can go find a job first, wait for the income to go up, and then think about my dreams."

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In the past, TV movies, ah, celebrity quotes, etc., were all singing about chasing dreams, how inspirational, how great.

Always talking about the need for anyone to have dreams, dreams are beautiful, always say, have dreams to put into action, but few people will mention, dreams also need costs, chasing dreams must first consider whether you can afford the consequences of failure.

In other words, it's not that no one mentions it, but often these words are automatically ignored, and people will only give examples of whom, who has gone through a lot of hardships and finally succeeded, but they didn't think at all, on the road to chasing their dreams, there are also many people who fail.

Especially for those children who have not yet entered society, this topic goes straight to the core.

When they have no source of income and still need to spend their parents' money on food, clothing, housing and transportation, they are squandering their parents' sweat to blindly pursue their dreams.

Only if you have the ability to bear the consequences of failure can you be qualified to consider chasing your dreams.

Otherwise, even if the dream comes true one day, what's the point? Because on the way to realize your dreams, your parents have paid more than you, they don't have to work so hard, but because of your dreams, they work hard and work harder to make money, and once your dreams fail, then they will bear the consequences, not you.

A completely new topic, or an issue that had been neglected in the past, is once again being brought anew.

If you have a dream, you might as well do it, whether it is right or not.

Many times, there are always people who say what they want to do, but they have only been imagining it and not putting it into practice.

This kind of thinker, who is often called a dreamer, can only think, but has never dared to try.

But today, the topic has been thrown up again.

There are many people who think and few people who do it, not because they don't have the courage to do it, but because, in reality, it's not that they dare not do it, but they can't afford to do it.

Such people are better than those who cling to their dreams regardless of everything.

There are many inspirational stories, but if you look closely, you will find that those inspirational characters, they all have a premise, that is, they can bear the cost of failure and be able to take responsibility for themselves.

In the real world, there are too many people who only know how to realize their dreams, but they don't care whether they can afford to fail, and in the end they pass it on to their loved ones and families.

"I've been working as hard as I can, often working overtime in the office until midnight. Everyone advised me, why do you have to fight so hard, after all, there is no burden in life. I want to make money to buy a house for my parents near my house. In order to make their lives comfortable, I don't want to use my husband's money, and I'm afraid that my mother-in-law's family will have opinions, so I still want to use the money I earn to buy them for them. The saddest time for me was when I saw my parents reluctant to come to see their grandson. So, sometimes it's good to be able to achieve my dreams, but if I can help my parents achieve their dreams, I will be even happier. ”

"My dream is to become an online writer, and I have been working hard for it, but I have not been able to succeed, and the money I earn is not enough to spend on myself, now I think about it, I am quite ridiculous, I have always thought that I am doing the right thing, but I have never thought about it, my parents are old, and they are so desperate to make money, they are not for themselves, but for me, and I have never thought about my future, in fact, my parents are more concerned than me."

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