"Because I thought that the man had a normal complexion, not like an addict, and a gambler would not dress so formally, and he did not smell alcohol and was not an alcoholic, so what could make you say divorce in one bite must be domestic violence. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ”

A mouth is to fight back, and when I was freshman, I thought that the two should have a principled problem, and for marriage, the principled problem should be × sucking, gambling and domestic violence.

"Yes, that's a good point, you can be more careful and more confident, she deliberately answered her position with someone when she called, which shows that her husband has a very strong desire to control her, and she has a wound in her eye socket, the first thing her husband did after coming is to observe whether there is a man around her, although he is very polite, but his eyes and demeanor can not hide that he is a man with an aggressive personality, and the probability of domestic violence is 90%. ”

A little bigger, she actually thought so, but not as fast as Mr. Qian.

"What a difference between 20 and 2000. Freshman said from the bottom of her heart that she really admired Xiaoqian's atmospheric and calm attitude when she treated patients, which was an effect that she couldn't achieve even if she tried desperately to cultivate, and freshman thought that the temperament that doctors should have had was like Xiaoqian, and patients would be very down-to-earth when they saw such a doctor.

"Everyone starts at 20, and if you work hard, you will definitely be able to go to the next level. It is very suitable for you to deal with some of these cases at this stage, and gradually increase your experience. ”

"But she won't look for me. ”

"When she is beaten next time, she will come to you, and you will know how to treat you at that time, remember, the principle of dealing with women who have been abused is not to ask them why they don't get divorced. ”

"Why do you say that?" a chengguan asked curiously after hearing it, he was all subjected to domestic violence, why didn't he ask why he didn't leave the scumbag?

"There are many reasons for domestic violence, and the methods of dealing with it are also different, more women do not leave not only psychological reasons but also pathological reasons, if the woman who is abused by domestic violence has battered spouse syndrome, if you don't treat her, she still can't live independently, it is easy to cause tragedy, you go to the women's prison to see, how many of the female prisoners who killed their husbands are the situation I said? You can also go to the men's prison to see the male prisoners who hacked their wives to death may also be in this situation. There are some women who don't have the instinct to survive independently at all, and if you let her divorce, she feels that the sky is falling, and if she is not cured, she will be even worse. ”

When the repression breaks out to a certain extent, either the woman hacks the man to death, or the man who is domestic violence can't stand the woman and wants to leave and beat the woman to death, so it doesn't hurt or itch to ask people why you don't get a divorce, which is definitely not what a professional psychologist should do.

Xiaoqian's explanation made the chengguan not understand very much, and only felt that it was very complicated.

"When you are not the party, never stand in the right angle and talk without backache, if there is no way to solve her troubles, don't ask her why she didn't divorce, only understand her situation, think of practical solutions for her so that she can find herself again, and when the time comes, either leave or how to look at the situation, this is the right way to deal with domestic violence. ”

Domestic violence is a very common social phenomenon, there are many and complex reasons, each psychologist has a different plan for treating domestic violence counselors or those who are being consulted by domestic violence, but no matter which set of plans, they do not come up and blame people for why they do not divorce.

Although in the eyes of many people, being beaten and abused and not getting a divorce is a crime, that is, poor people must have something to hate, but how do these people know that if they don't leave, they may be threatened by their husbands to leave and kill you and your whole family, or they may be reluctant to have children and swallow their anger for the sake of their children, or it may be that Xiaoqian has produced pathological causes and has developed a pathological dependence on domestic violence men, similar to Stockholm syndrome.

And if the problem is not solved, even if they get divorced, they will still be chased and beaten, and a large proportion of women who have been subjected to domestic violence will still be beaten by their ex-husbands after divorce.

There are even some women who are subjected to domestic violence and do not divorce, precisely because of the gossip of bystanders, and now the society is not very tolerant of divorced women, who will be secretly said by the people around them behind their backs if they divorce, even if the mistake is not made by a woman, divorce will still be missed.

When you talk from the perspective of a bystander, have you ever thought that your actions have become a sword to hurt others?

Xiao Qian pointed to the freshman year, how should she deal with this kind of counselor, and the freshman carefully wrote it down.

After talking about domestic violence, Mr. Qian remembered something again.

"When you were interning at the central hospital, did you come into contact with the person I was talking about?"

Xiaoqian is talking about Ye Daqian, which is also the homework she left for her freshman year recently.

The two of them walked to the lounge of the chengguan brigade as they spoke, and the two of them walked at the end, speaking in a loud voice, but there was still a senior sister who deliberately walked slowly, pricking up her ears and trying to listen to what they said.

"I went to contact a patient yesterday who has PTSD and constantly dreams of being bitten by dogs. ”

"Tell me what you think. Xiao Qian asked.

"It's not difficult to get sick, but the difficult thing is the contradiction in my heart, on the one hand, I feel disgusted with what he does, on the other hand, I am a doctor, he is my patient, I can't ignore him, what should I do?"

In the past, Mr. Qian came forward to settle everything, and when I was troubled in my freshman year, I thought of looking for Mr. Qian.

"Ye Daqian's case is handled by yourself, I will not give you any specific advice, you just need to remember that if you handle this case well, you will be able to become a qualified psychiatrist in the future. ”

Psychiatrists must have medical ethics, no matter who the patient is, what he has done, whether it is a heinous crime or not, the patient must do his best to treat in front of him - this is what the freshman thought before he came into contact with Ye Daqian. But after coming into contact with Ye Daqian, the first person has sympathy and anger for this kind of hateful villain, as a normal person with a conscience, she deeply disdains Ye Daqian's behavior of bullying the young girl, but as a doctor, she can't help it.

Mr. Qian threw her a super difficult option, and her freshman year was very confusing.

"I asked my second brother very tactfully, of course I can't leak the patient's information, so I asked him, a bad guy comes to me for a doctor, what should I do?"

"What did the second brother say?"

"The second brother said... Let me do it myself. ”

"Poof. Xiao Qian smiled, it was really Yu Er's style.

"You guys don't help me, I'm a headache. "Freshman has never encountered such a tangled matter, the doctor's vocation and moral sense are intricately intertwined, and what she should do is a crucial step for the newcomer.

As Mr. Qian expected, the freshman is now numb.

"You will be an independent licensed consultant in the future, and there are thousands of problems to solve, this little thing can't help you, think about it yourself, in fact, the second brother has already told you the answer, these things we outsiders can't explain to you in detail, you can go and understand it yourself." ”

The more Xiao Qian said that the freshman year, the more confused she became, and the second brother told her the answer?