(290) The gap between mother and child
December 17, 2013)
Since March of this year, every Monday at 6 p.m., I have been attending a Bible study at the East House next door.
It was a Christian worship study group with six people: Sister Zhang from East House, 73 years old, Sister Ma Shuzhen, 77 years old, Yang Guiqin, 50 years old, Sun Limin, 50 years old, Li Guijie (67 years old), plus me, 65 years old.
Later, Sister Ma lived in her son's house, which was too far away from us, and Sister Ma's son was not at ease, so Sister Ma did not come.
Recently, two more old sisters, both in their fifties and sixties, came in, and I don't know their names.
One night, Li Guijie did not arrive on time.
Sister Zhang called her on her mobile phone, but the other party did not answer.
Sister Zhang sighed and said, "This Li Guijie's family is really enough, without her, it would have to be dispersed." ”
Then, Sister Zhang talked about the situation of Li Guijie's family.
Li Guijie is taller, and his hair is all white, but he is permed with curls, although the curls are only at the lower end of his hair.
Her sadness was not engraved on her face, perhaps under the teachings of the Lord, she didn't think about it.
Li Guijie's wife is called Zhou Wencheng, and they have two sons.
The eldest son, Zhou Qin, is in his forties and has not yet married.
The second son, Zhou Qing, is in his thirties and has never married a wife.
Li Guijie and Zhou Wen CD are retired workers in the sugar factory, each receiving a monthly pension of 1,500, and their two sons are unemployed.
Li Guijie and his wife are both Christians.
Zhou Wencheng's current condition is urinary incontinence, often peeing his pants, and his leg has been broken.
Despite this, whenever he went to the church to worship or preach, Zhou Wen CD went to the church to participate in activities with the support of Li Guijie.
Christian anthems, quite a lot. As long as it is a party, whether it is a meeting or a group activity, the song must be sung. Li Guijie and Zhou Wen sang well on the CD, the words were correct and round, and they were pleasant to the ear.
Zhou Wencheng, I haven't seen it, I don't know what it is.
But when I look at Li Guijie, she is deeply religious, and whenever she talks about Christianity, she will talk endlessly.
Perhaps, Li Guijie is in charge of such a difficult family, and it is the power of God that supports her.
I don't know about this, but Sister Zhang's words have proven it.
Previously, Li Guijie's home was still very harmonious, but later, it was no longer good.
When Li Guijie's eldest son was in his thirties, he had a girlfriend named Guohua, who was about 20 years old.
This national flower, although it is the daughter of ordinary people's families, can be said to be a small jasper, with clear eyebrows and graceful eyes. Moreover, he is kind-hearted, tactful, reasonable, diligent and capable.
Zhou Qin loves his girlfriend very much, and he looks forward to the sweet life after marrying the national flower.
The national tweed is also affectionate, gentle and considerate to Zhou Qin.
Zhou Qin is also handsome and chic, full of masculinity. The national flower pinned the happiness of her life on Zhou Qin.
Therefore, the two are like glue, and even inseparable.
Now that Zhou Qin and Guohua have been heart-to-heart, the next step is to tie the knot.
However, no one expected that an unexpected situation would happen.
Zhou Qin's younger brother, Zhou Qing, is a psychopath.
A few years ago, Zhou Qing was stimulated and suffered from schizophrenia, and as for what stimulation he received, his family did not know.
Zhou Qing went out to work, and was suddenly sent back, and he went insane.
And at this time, Zhou Qing's condition suddenly worsened, he didn't understand anything, he yelled all day long, he didn't know anyone, he smashed things when he saw them, he beat people when he saw them, he talked nonsense, and he couldn't be at peace day and night.
A few people in the family watched, and it was difficult to parry.
Zhou Qing is like this, Li Guijie is very anxious and uneasy.
Li Guijie discussed with her husband Zhou Wencheng: "Wencheng, Qing'er is like this, if you don't look at it, you can't do it, let's send him to the hospital." ”
Zhou Wencheng was also very angry, so he agreed with his wife's words and said, "Then let's go." ”
The next day, the whole family sent Zhou Qing to a psychiatric hospital.
When the doctor saw Zhou Qing's teeth and claws, he understood that the illness was not light, and immediately hospitalized him.
A few days later, Zhou Qing's condition improved slightly and became quieter.
Zhou Wencheng wanted his son to be discharged from the hospital, because he spent a lot of money in just a few days.
The family has some savings, but it is intended for the eldest son Zhou Qin to get married.
Zhou Wencheng said to Li Guijie: "Guijie, Qing'er will be discharged from the hospital when he sees a good situation, go home and raise it slowly, and the money will have to be given to Qin'er to get married." ”
When Li Guijie heard this, he immediately sank his face and said angrily: "Why are you so confused, Qing'er has just seen well, how can he be discharged from the hospital? His illness is important, everything has to make way for him to be treated, how is Qin'er still married? Let's talk about it when I have money in the future." ”
After listening to his wife's words, Zhou Wencheng said: "That Qin'er's marriage is also important, and the old country is still urging it." What to do?"
Li Guijie glared at her husband and said, "Well, I'll go and say, you don't care, it's important to see Qing'er anyway." ”
Zhou Wencheng didn't speak again, his heart was full of melancholy, the younger son wants to be treated, the eldest son wants to get married, neither of them is a trivial matter, and each one needs a lot of money. However, his family's money is counted, just a little bit, where is it enough for the expenses of the two sons?
Money, it's so important, a penny can hold back a hero, not to mention, it's not just a penny!
Li Guijie saw that her husband stopped talking, so she said, "You look at Qing'er, I'll go to the country." ”
Zhou Wencheng heard this, and hurriedly said: "What are you going to say, don't talk nonsense, cause trouble, Qin'er's marriage will be cool." ”
Li Guijie shook his head and said, "You don't have to worry about it, I will say it." ”
Li Guijie walked all the way, thinking all the way: The illness of his youngest son is urgent, and he can't be delayed. The marriage of the eldest son, let's talk about it later, it's yellow, aren't there more people with two legs?
As soon as Li Guijie entered the door of the country, he saw the mother of the country and the father of the country.
When the mother of the country saw Li Guijie, she happily greeted her and said, "Mother-in-law, are you here to talk about their marriage?"
Li Guijie's face sank again, and she said: "My son can't marry your girl, I have to treat my younger son, and I have no money to get married!"
When the parents of the country heard this, both of them poured a basin of cold water, from the outside to the inside, it was cold!
What kind of words is this, even if you see a doctor, if you are married or not, you can't say that. The mother of the country was very angry, so she reasoned with Li Guijie, but as a result, the more the two mothers talked, the more stiff they became, and in the end, they all gave up.
The mother of the country said angrily: "Okay, Li Guijie, my girl won't marry your son, let's cut it off!"
Li Guijie also said angrily: "If you don't do it, you will pull it down, can my son still beat a single?"
After Zhou Qin found out, his heart was cold, and he was also very painful, and he was very angry with his mother.
He immediately went to the national flower to explain and wanted to save this family business.
However, the mother of the country was extremely angry, and she had to ask her daughter to cut off contact with Zhou Qin.
In this way, a pair of lovers suddenly beat the mandarin ducks and flew separately!
Zhou Qin saw that it was irretrievable, people were like stupid, and his budding and longing for women suddenly came to naught!
The more Zhou Qin thought about it, the more disappointed he became, the more he thought about it, the more painful he became, and the more he thought about it, the more he hated his mother!
Zhou Qin ran to the hotel and got drunk.
Since then, Zhou Qin seems to have changed as a person, and he doesn't go to class, and he either drinks or sleeps all day long.
The wine, too, was drunk so much, it was like drinking water, and when you drank too much, you would come home and make trouble, throw things, and smash the kitchen.
He was originally very handsome, but he was no longer rough, unkempt, and looked like he was at the end of his rope.
What's more serious is that he hated his mother to death, often scolded his mother, and even beat his mother.
Zhou Qin has a deep hatred with his mother.
Later, when the Christian sisters found out, they persuaded Li Guijie and pointed out her mistakes.
Zhou Wencheng was very sad when he saw his son like this, he counted Li Guijie and blamed her for acting rashly and causing such serious consequences.
Li Guijie also regretted a little, and finally understood that he had done too much, harming his son and the whole family.
However, it is too late to regret, and there is no regret medicine in the world, and there is no way to remedy it.
Moreover, she felt that she was really incapable of solving the problems of her two sons.
That Zhou Qin not only did not go to work to earn money, but also did nothing at home, relying on the pensions of two old people to survive, becoming an out-and-out old man. Zhou Wencheng has leg disease, urinary incontinence, and high blood pressure, and he doesn't do any work, and he has to be served by Li Guijie.
Zhou Qing's mental illness is still a common crime, if he doesn't catch it, he will be Amitabha.
Outside the house, only Li Guijie is in charge alone, she may be bloody, when we study, we see her sleepy and napping.
More than ten years have passed, Zhou Qin is as always, drunk and dreaming of death, no girl favors him anymore, he is even more painful and decadent!
Li Guijie, it's really hard to see the light of day!