Chapter 268: The Universe in the Pot is Big, and the Sun and Moon in the Cup Are Long
"Brother, many of my classmates say that wine is not a good thing, and persuade me not to drink it. Pen ~ Fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info"
Xia Liu looked at Xia Chen, pointed to the farm not far away, and said, "The meat on the other side is a delicacy for many people. But for women who want to stay in shape, it's poison. For those who have a national faith, they hate from the bottom of their hearts those who live mainly on these meats. You say it's the flesh's fault, or the man's fault. ”
Xia Qian thought for a while and said, "I think it's people's fault." ”
"To be precise, it's the human heart. Everyone's outlook on life, values, and worldview is different. They rely on their own subjective assumptions to impose their ideas on others. As many people say, a man who doesn't smoke or drink is a good man. So the question is, is such a man really a good man?"
"So, it's up to you how to do it. A measured person will reasonably control the amount of alcohol he drinks and make a small drink pleasant, which is the best way to drink. Some people who are half drunk and half awake, that is called medium drinking. Some people who drink to kill their sorrows drink excessively, which is an inferior way of drinking. There are also some who are accompanied by wine all day long, without moderation, and get drunk like mud every day, which is the next way to drink. ”
"But, these are not drinks. To really drink, you don't have to know astronomy, geography, and the changes of the past and the present. But humanities, geography, terroir, and human feelings all have to be understood. Drinking is a kind of culture, a kind of cultivation, and a kind of feeling. It's just that "the pot is big, and the sun and moon are long in the cup." "Under the misinterpretation of many well-intentioned people, drinking is derogatory. Just like the previous childe, Miss, was misinterpreted into another concept by people. ”
Xia Cheng opened his eyes wide and opened his mouth wide, as if he had heard something earth-shattering, which hit his mind, and Xia Houguo on the side was surprised: "I have drunk wine for almost a lifetime, and my feelings have been drunk in vain?" However, I think that drinking is like an empty bottle in your hand, as long as it does not exceed the mouth of this bottle, how much is not afraid, this is a matter of scale. ”
Xiahou Hu continued: "Liu'er, your words can kill half of the people who love to drink in the country with a stick. I think that drinking, like eating, will make you angry if you are too full, and hungry if you are too little. No more, no less, just the right good. ”
Xiahou Xu retorted: "Your views are on the wrong side. Drinking with relatives and friends, that's a picture of joy, just feel free. Drink with the elderly, it is better to drink less, that is respect. Drink with the youngsters, just have fun, and have fun. It's best to have a drink with your peers. ”
Although the words of several people are as calm as possible and smiling, fools can also see that they are competing against each other, this is the generation gap.
For politicians, a glass of wine represents too many things, and this glass of wine is as big as the universe and as long as the bright moon. The toast should not only be just right, but also gain face. The way they play around the wine is different from that of poets, poets pay attention to literary style, and they pay attention to not only literary style, but also emotional intelligence, IQ, and how to behave in the world. Of course, these are not enough, they can always say a few words to the face of their opponents, and they can get rid of their embarrassment without showing a trace when they talk and laugh. They are as treacherous as foxes and as sleek as loaches.
For entrepreneurs, the meaning of wine is slightly different. They toast with a smile on their faces, but this smile changes with the level of the visitor or the person who is talking to them. They don't play tongue twisters, and for them, tongue twisters take enough time to find a lot of money. They are good at communicating with people through wine glasses, but this communication is very knowledgeable. When talking to others, they will talk about the development of different places, and in an instant turn to the direction of the company's development. Observing words and feelings, demeanor and conversation, they quickly positioned the level of the interlocutor, and selected the group of people who were close friends according to their own needs.
Ordinary people drink and are very particular about drinking. First of all, the act of toasting highlights the relationship between the two. Drinking with his loved ones, although his words are easy-going, his eyes will show a caring look from time to time, and no matter when, he will subconsciously sit next to him. Toast with friends, speak kindly, move casually, look through a little bit, sit upright, and always laugh for something. For ordinary friends, there are levels. For people who are still old acquaintances and have average relationships, they will always bring up the past and look for words. For friends of friends, laugh it off and .......
In the evening, when I got home, the uncles and nephews who were not convinced moved out of the stool, fried a plate of peanuts, accompanied by a plate of braised pork, brought a pot of wine, and sat in the courtyard under the starry night sky, singing about wine. A little, after Xia Liu left, Xiahou Guo, who was not happy, took another pot of wine, and the three brothers drank it again.
"Dad, do you know Wen'er's birthday?"
Seeing Song Wen looking at him expectantly, Xia Liu avoided his clear eyes, because he really didn't know. Song Wen let go of his father's hand and buried his head in a low mood.
"October 1st?"
Thinking about the time when he left, Song Wen was about to be born, Xia Liu had to guess a day, and then looked at Song Wen with a painful look, which means, what do you want, just say it, buy it.
"Dad, you're so annoying, you don't tell me even when you know it. ”
"Damn, really? It seems that father and son are still of the same heart!"
After muttering a few words in their hearts, the father and son walked into the house, bathed Song Wen, carefully guarded beside him, heard his slight snoring, sat on the chair, and sat quietly in a daze.