Ten years of hard work

Lin Hainan sat on the sofa while thinking about his own experience and the theories he had learned over the years. He thought silently in his heart: For growing up, but just learning to protect yourself, that's all, that's all, that's all, I classify this bitter memory as "beautiful life, beautiful mood", because when I go through it, it may be hardship, embarrassment, heartache, confusion and confusion, but after growing up, I will definitely appreciate this experience after transformation.

It's the company I've really learned about my professional presentation, and it's the company with the most frequent and intense personnel struggles of the three companies I've worked for. So many times I miss the past, the leaders at that time, and the colleagues at that time, especially the years when my colleagues in the first company got along with me and the care and care of the leaders of the second company.

However, now I don't regret this choice. It is said that the process of growing up is painful, and if this pain can really make me grow, then I accept it. Never, after so many years and seeing friends I haven't seen for a long time, the first sentence is always that Yuanyuan has not changed, regardless of personality, thoughts or appearance;

It's kind advice, and while I often think it's a shame to be called naïve in my twenties, I don't mind it from my friends, but I'm starting to mind my own incomprehension. I came to this company because of the good attraction and my expectation of real estate advertising. But I couldn't see the personnel struggle that Jia told me, at first Jia patiently gave me an analysis, and in the end she gave up completely, saying that she had never seen someone as naïve and immature as me.

I said I don't want to grow up, she hatefully said that you must grow up, you must learn to protect yourself, we resolutely refuse to hurt others, but we must not let others bully us, so we must grow up, protect yourself and protect your family. It's not that growing up means you're treacherous, cunning, or otherwise.

But in my bones, I always thought that when I grew up, I would become complicated and no longer able to have an innocent and simple life. So in Jia's repeated narration, in the contradictions between her left and right and gradually felt the-for-tat and side-knocking from her colleagues, Yuanyuan began a difficult growth process on one sleepless night after another. Now Yuanyuan is gradually able to see the company's personnel trends and that delicate relationship, but I am still surprised and surprised by the dirty things done by some colleagues.

But I believe that out of the mud and not stained, believe in this old saying, Yuanyuan does not refuse to grow up, but just learns to protect herself, that's all, that's all. Yes, these truths have been clarified at this time, and at this moment, the state of mind is also more open, not to mention that he has to comprehend it, and the philosophical things alone have long been no longer a problem for him, because of all these years of hard work to confirm and understand this.

"Hainan, who do you see coming?" Just as Lin Hainan was concentrating on his thoughts, his mother Jiang Yanlan came over and said to Lin Hainan. Lin Hainan suddenly came back to his senses from his thoughts, and as soon as he raised his head, he saw an old man who resembled a fairy wind bone, Lin Hainan not only couldn't help but shout: "Grandpa, grandpa, how do you have time to come and see Nan'er?"

"Grandpa has been busy with official business recently, so I haven't been able to come to see Nan'er, I'm really embarrassed, Nan'er don't blame grandpa." The old man patted Lin Hainan on the shoulder and said. "Where is my grandfather, the national affairs are already very busy, my grandfather has worked hard, for the people's livelihood, you are really hard, Nan'er is happy because of such a grandfather, and you should be even more proud, how can you blame your grandfather for not coming to see me? ”

"Hahahaha, Nan'er has grown up, and she is no longer the child who has been running behind her grandfather when she was a child, very good, very good. Grandpa is glad you are so sensible. "Okay, Hainan, I still have something to discuss with your fathers, you can go out and play first." "En, okay, Nan'er retires. As he spoke, he made a gesture of giving up, but the whole family laughed. Lin Hainan walked out of the villa, walking on this private path, the breeze was warm, the sun was just right, the rose in the corner of the wall, just bloomed just right, and it happened to attract Lin Hainan's attention, he looked at this rose, and couldn't help but think: Looking at the same rose, people's reactions are different, and the attitude towards the rose reflects their different lives.

Some people, seeing flowers, heart blooming, intoxicated by the beauty of flowers, intoxicated by the fragrance of flowers, suddenly feel that life is a sea of flowers, they linger in the flowers, happy to think about it, feel that life is so beautiful and lovely, if they are interested, they can't help but pick off the flowers, insert them in the hair, but when they pick the flowers, because they only see the flowers in their eyes, they do not see the thorns, and their hands are unfortunately pricked and bleeding, and the pain is endless, until this time, they blame themselves for carelessness. This is like some of us, because of the quality of benevolence, simplicity, kindness, think of everyone in the good, with the heart of a gentleman to spend the belly of the villain, therefore, often hurt by the villain, such as Mr. Dongguo saved the wolf, like a poisonous snake bitten the farmer, they will regret, will be indignant, but when the wound gradually heals, they are still kind to others, infatuated with the heart, still feel that there are many good people in the world, life is very content, very happy, because they can't lose the goodness in their bones. They believe that Heaven has no relatives and is always with good people.

Some people, when they see roses, will like them for a moment, but he soon found the thorns under the flowers, and his happy heart suddenly dropped, and he would think, although this flower is good, but it is very bad to have thorns, and his eyes suddenly moved away from the flower, only staring at the thorn, endlessly, and ignoring the existence of the flower. He was sorry for the thorn hidden under the flower, as if it did not grow on the branch of the flower, but on his heart. In life, there are also such people, anything, only look at its negative side, just like the old woman, because the two daughters sell umbrellas and shoes, they are afraid that their daughter's umbrella will not be sold on sunny days, and they are worried that their daughter's shoes will not be sold on cloudy days, so they are not happy on cloudy days and sunny days. Because of such thinking and such an attitude towards life, his mood is always gray, and every day of his life is spent in sighs and sighs, and he lives a suffocating and aggrieved life.

There is also a kind of people, they see both flowers and thorns, when they enjoy the flowers, they will not get too close to the flowers, they will not reach out and touch them, even if they want to pick one, they are also careful, they will not let the thorns pierce their fingers, they enjoy the happiness that the flowers bring them, and they do not touch, do not provoke, do not hate, they are calm, they even wisely feel that the sharp thorns are the respectable 'flower messengers'.

Because, it lets you know that there is a price to be paid for destroying beauty, and the life spent is also dignified. It enlightens people that whether it is a beautiful mood or a beautiful life, it is not so easy to get, and it takes hard work and effort. It is warning people that the life span of each flower is only a few days, more than ten days, such a short life, people should stop being ruthless, let the flowers bloom and fall by themselves, and sing the song of life for a few days. Life is a rose, fragrant, delicate and beautiful, but at the same time, the inconspicuous thorns are also hidden inside, we don't want to be that blind optimist, only see the flowers without thorns, be hurt again and again, eat a trench, grow a wisdom, don't trip over the same stone twice.

Don't be that pessimist, you can't see the flowers when you see the thorns, you think of the withering before they bloom, and you always get entangled in that thorn and destroy your beautiful life. We have to be the wise man, and treat the flowers and thorns correctly. Life is a rose, flowers and thorns always coexist at the same time, we should not be delusional that only flowers have no thorns, that is against the laws of nature, and do not only look at thorns and ignore flowers, that is even more undesirable. There are pains, joys, smooth roads, and ups and downs in life, and even there will be more pain than joy, just as there will always be more thorns than flowers.

Knowing this, when the flowers of happiness bloom, let's not get carried away and get carried away, you know, the thorn is there, eyeing you, if you are not careful, you will be pierced by it. And when we encounter the devastation of wind and rain, the red spots, the flowers are green, fat, red and thin, we should not blindly be sad, or even painful and unable to help ourselves. Because, that flower, the rose of hope, is quietly budding when you are pessimistic and disappointed.

Just like roses, everyone treats life as if it were roses, and it is just like this rose, which makes people love it, and at the same time, once they are pricked by roses, they will also be stinging like roses, like the pain of drilling their hearts, and they are as lovely as roses in their hearts. Thinking of these, Lin Hainan suddenly felt that his mood seemed to be much broader, and his heart was also a lot fuller.

Wednesday went to fight rabies seedlings, has been queuing, queuing to get medicine, queuing for injection, anyway, I can only feel the whole eye, look at the eyes are people, everywhere people, after the injection home, no mood to update, too tired, so I slept a little, yesterday morning got up and started to write articles, has been writing, in the afternoon, my computer convulsions can not save documents, at that time the heart of hundreds of thousands of alpacas floated together, this mood really don't want to say, has been tossing until ten o'clock in the evening finally published the article successfully, and then there is no time to update, this morning to get up and make up madly, three chapters, three chapters, a chapter will not be lessAfter all, I'm a hardworking kid!