The father and son had inconsistent educational beliefs, which also caused an important reason why when Yan Hantang was still alive, in order to prevent Yan Qiyue, the only grandchild at that time, from being led astray by his son Yan Yucheng, and finally Yan Hantang deprived him of his father's educational responsibility. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

Yan Qipan has always been taught by Yan Yucheng himself, but what makes him laugh and cry is that this child has become more and more stable as he looks at it so far, and his temperament is far better than that of his grandfather like his father.

On the contrary, his daughter, who now looks quite similar to him, wants to do what she wants to do against the wishes of her elders.

In the past, although he dared to think and thought a lot, he rarely put it into practice, so he lived tremblingly, although he studied seriously, and married and had children according to the wishes of his elders, he was also serious and willing, but for the first half of his life, he felt some regrets.

If he really wanted to try to disobey his father's words, what kind of path would he take in the end? What kind of gains would he have? What kind of insight would he have? What kind of people would he meet, and would he be able to achieve something? Or would he be destitute and even more destitute and discouraged?

He really wants to give it a try, and after trying, he won't have regrets, even if he has regrets, it's a different kind of regret, not the kind of unwillingness to give up without trying.

But life is like this, even if you start all over again, it is estimated that according to your temperament and specific environment, it is very likely that you will still take the old path.

Just as he often reminds himself to let his children decide more about the life they want to live, to respect their individuality, to respect their ideas, but in the end, as a father, he inevitably wants to use his own experience and his own ideas to influence his children, to decide the fate of his children, and to send them to the best smooth road that has been paved for them in his cognition.

But the honey of A is arsenic of B.

In his eyes, it is a smooth road, flowers blooming, but in the eyes of children, it may not be so, in addition to boring, maybe even more will be considered by them to be full of thorns, debris will trap them in the quagmire of showing their talents in all directions.

"No, he wouldn't do this to you.

Dad, you don't know, grandfather actually really loves you, and he also wants to talk to you well and say something from his heart. But every time you see him, it's like a mouse seeing a cat, except for reading and reading.

In order not to increase your psychological burden, and for not being able to honor your ancestors but putting such a burden on you, your grandfather felt guilty, so in the end, it evolved into the point that you couldn't speak first without mentioning him, so that there was nothing to say between the two of them except to discuss books. ”

Granny tattoo is not a woman who loves to chew the root of her tongue, but she loves her only granddaughter very much, and the little dragonfly is a natural gossip very keen on the short little guy in the family, so every time she begs her grandmother to tell the story of the past, no matter what, every day to say something, every day to say something, over time, it has accumulated a lot of information.

In the end, all of them were dug up by Yan Shunhua, peeled off the cocoon, and picked out a few main pieces of information that would definitely not go wrong, one of which was the strange situation of the master's father and son.

In the eyes of a woman like Granny Wen, the family should be harmonious and lively, and it is really weird that the father and son of Yan Hantang and Yan Yucheng get along solemnly and dullly.

Yan Yucheng naturally didn't know that all her information actually came from her mother-in-law indirectly, and thought that it was really passed on to her father's mouth, so she was stunned for a while, and finally her eyes turned red again unexpectedly.

"Hey, Dad, don't you, you want to cry again?

Grandfather can't stand you the most, this is this, he loves to cry at every turn. He told me all day long that he didn't know if he was born a girl or a girl, and he was in tears all day long when he encountered something. ”

As soon as Yan Shunhua said this, Yan Yucheng's original feeling of missing his deceased father even more because he was moved couldn't help but turn into shame.

"You're out of your mouth again?!, how can you really get married in the future?

At home, your father can still tolerate you, anyway, you are also my daughter, and I am also your father, and it is not like this to go to someone else's house.

If you don't do it well, you will definitely be reprimanded and even disregarded. Sometimes beating you and scolding you is really for your own good, but to be completely indifferent to you will make you even more restless, as if you are boiled in a hot pot, and you are alive as if you are dead. ”

Yan Shunhua made a shy gesture.

"Daddy made a bad example.

Before, you asked me not to always say anything about the underworld, life and death, etc., but now you yourself are alive and dead, and the typical only state officials are allowed to set fires and the people are not allowed to light lamps. ”

Yan Yucheng's expression froze, did he have to carefully analyze and quote scriptures when talking to his daughter in the future?

"Dad, this is reminding you, what is like what you said before that you are deliberately threatening Dad?

Yan Shunhua shrugged, "Dad, you are the boss, you have the final say." Anyway, no matter what my daughter says or does, in the end, I still have to agree with my father, who let me be your daughter no matter what. ”

Yan Yucheng couldn't cry or laugh when he heard this.

"Are you still complaining? Dad is really good for you.

The person who is willing to take care of you, even if he hates you, then he still has a relationship with you, but it's just a bad fate. But if you don't want to deal with you, you will really go your separate ways, even if the love is deep. ”

This is quite appetizing to her, Yan Shunhua smiled.

"Dad, you, if you want to teach me these life experiences, let's take my time, my daughter just woke up, but I don't want to listen to so many big truths at once, and my head will blow up." Next, I just want to eat, drink and have fun, and nothing else.

In the past two years, you don't have to look for any man for me, I have to take a good time, sort things out, see how I will behave in the future, and how I will have to prepare to live the life I want.

All of these are big problems that plague my daughter, as long as they are sorted out and straightened out, I will be able to live a peaceful and happy life in the future. If you interrupt my thought process, and I don't know if I marry a good person in the future and still live a happy life, then I have to blame you. ”

Yan Yucheng smiled angrily.

"What kind of nonsense are you talking about?

That's unrealistic, and you still want to straighten out your life? Your father and I have lived to be forty years old, and we still can't straighten it out, so what can you straighten out at your age?"