Jia Xiufang didn't know that he was talking about his smart daughter, and she echoed it. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

"But isn't it? I, since I was a child, I have always told her, don't talk to strangers, don't take strangers' things, my daughter is also smart, never let me worry about it, I feel sorry for the parents of these girls, fortunately the child has been recovered, this is also a blessing in misfortune, but, now these gossips, that is, some people like to chew their tongues behind their backs, what can I do when these girls come back..."

Jia Xiufang was worried, Xiaoqian couldn't listen to it anymore, put down the chopsticks, and said unconvinced.

"Is it the girl's fault that she was abducted? What should I do, what should I do when I come back? When I am bitten by a dog, I don't beat the dog, and I complain about being bitten, is this the consciousness that the family of a psychiatrist should have?"

Jia Xiufang shook her head, "I'm not saying that those girls are at fault, I'm just distressed, but if I don't say it, others won't say it? Do you remember that in the front yard of our house, there was a little girl in her teens who went to the construction site to play at night, and was -"

She wanted to speak and stopped, Yu Minglang and Xiaoqian immediately understood, and Yu Minglang nodded knowingly.

"I see, that's pathetic. ”

"Isn't it, her mother is crying miserably. Jia Xiufang shook her head.

Chen Zilong, who was gnawing on prawns, looked up suspiciously, "What are you talking about, what did you go?"

Jia Xiufang sandwiched a prawn, "Eat yours, children's family, eat more and talk less!"

treats minors like Chen Zilong, of course, you can't let him know too much.

Jia Xiufang thought that Xiaoqian and Yu Minglang had already done everything that should be done and what should not be done, so these topics can also be talked to them.

"How did I hear that she was mentally ill and crazy? It turned out to be because of this?" In Xiaoqian's memory, there was indeed such a little girl, a little younger than her, Xiaoqian was not very old at that time, so she knew that she was crazy about a little girl, and the whole family moved away.

"But isn't it? Her mother stopped the police at that time, her father was not convinced, so he had to call the police, but after calling the police, as soon as the police car came, everyone knew that something had happened to the child, and as a result, someone ran to her door every day to see the excitement, pointing and pointing, the child's mother was a strong one, because this quarrel with the child's father, in the middle of the night, across the street, from the upstairs of our house, you can hear them fighting and throwing things, a good home, just like that. ”

"Damn!" Xiao Qian was angry when she heard it.

"But isn't it, at that time, some people talked about it every day, and when some people went to our house to wash clothes, they also said this, and some people said that I would interrupt, and I didn't want to say this. ”

Although Jia Xiufang nags and has the habit of chewing her tongue as a housewife, she is unwilling to chew such a tongue.

Chen Zilong asked puzzledly, "Mom, what else do you want to talk about?"

Jia Xiufang knocked him on the head fiercely, "Your mother is such a person in your heart? Yes, I like to talk about the shortcomings of parents, aren't we women who come out of the village like this? But not you can say anything, such as this kind of thing, our family also has a daughter, compare your heart to your heart, you say this, isn't this a sprinkle of salt on the wound? I think that child is strange and pitiful, it is to make these people crazy. ”

A few years earlier than it is now.

If something like this happens, there's anything to say.

Some people say that the little girl was born with a water-based poplar, and she wore short skirts at a young age - for a while, it was quite popular to wear short skirts on the knees, and everyone who had little girls in the family wore them, after all, the children were young and not yet developed, and it was nothing to wear.

Jia Xiufang also bought it for Xiaoqian from the night market, but something happened, and it became a sin to wear clothes that were too short, so Jia Xiufang hid her skirt and didn't give it to Xiaoqian.

The most exaggerated thing is that the little girl is like the teacher at school, and she sits on the stage at a young age...

The child's mother was told that she was going to collapse, and then the whole family moved away, and I don't know if the crazy little girl was cured, it's a pity.

"Who are these people!!" Xiao Qian cursed.

"Isn't it? What do you blame the child for when something happens, I remember that child, she is a very good little girl, I often see her buy some soy sauce for her mother or something, she is very sensible, but her life is not good, it is really pitiful, hey! Qian'er, if you graduate in the future, meet such a girl, treat others well, and charge less money. ”

"We're not the same as the doctors in the mental hospital, if it's just a mental illness, I can deal with it, and if it develops into a neuropathy, I can't do anything about it. If possible, I would prefer to take other people's injuries as a talking point in my own life, and wantonly discuss those who hurt others and bring secondary harm to others to gather together for intensive treatment, and they are the ones who really should be treated. ”

Those who are not sick drive people with poor experiences crazy.

"I've seen a lot of this happen, and I've had some similar things happen in the past when I've been doing tasks. Even if the victim is not wrong, conventional public opinion will still attack these girls, and the victim cannot explain it. At the end of the day, our legislature should consider how the cost of getting victims to come forward and be exposed is lower than the cost of not being exposed. Yu Minglang looks at this issue from a legal point of view.

He studied law, and the cost of the existing law for the victim to stand up and correct is even greater than the cost of not correcting, because the victim girl has to be under tremendous mental pressure to stand up.

"Women should take all kinds of ways to protect themselves, but this alone is not enough, how to cancel the harm to the victim's public opinion? These are the brutal oppression and persecution of women by male power, and the sad thing is that more women are also using such concepts to oppress their compatriots, what makes us forget sympathy and attack those who are already unfortunate?"

Xiaoqian analyzes this problem from the perspective of a psychologist.

As soon as the two discussed this topic, they each came up with their own specialties and expressed different opinions, but they had a common focus.

"In terms of legislation, it is necessary to protect the rights and interests of women more and increase the cost of crimes against women and children, and with the continuous improvement of China's laws, the situation will become more and more optimistic. ”

Xiao Qian agreed with Yu Minglang's point of view and added.

"This kind of place... The female complex stems from the possessiveness formed by men in the patriarchal society, and men want their women to belong to them completely, so it is often difficult to accept women who have been transformed by other men, and this kind of people usually have the pursuit of perfection, lack of self-confidence, lack of security, etc. - Yu Minglang, are you a, a man with this complex?

The two talked about a common topic, regardless of Jia Xiufang and Chen Zilong, they couldn't understand it anyway.

"Guess?"