Chapter 304: Single
If Shao Jun knew that at this moment, she was recalling the theories about cucumbers from the seven aunts and eight aunts to the leaders and the cleaning aunts, I am afraid that she would not feel cute but terrible.
Because he was thinking about things in his heart, Yan Shunhua forgot about his existence at all, let alone dwelling on it.
For her, because her family is wealthy, especially after joining the work, she has a salary that is enough to support herself, and she is originally a family with a house and a car, so she will not marry herself aggrieved because of economic problems.
Only someone's house can become a home, otherwise even if it is a beautiful villa, it is just a building, a lifeless dead thing.
Of course, even if there are people, it is only one of the necessary conditions for making a home. Without feelings, let a man and a woman live under the same roof in the most intimate posture, life will be like a pool of stagnant water, and as the years go by, sooner or later it will become an infernal hell.
It's just that no matter how rational and firm you are, there will be occasional moments in your life, when you want to find a passable man at random to marry, have children, and make do with each other to live your life.
Those moments of weakness and exhaustion, neither good nor bad, are like the calm and deflated after the excitement of youth, or like the comfort and soreness after intense exercise in the scorching summer, life is so gorgeous and gorgeous to remove makeup, revealing hidden edges and strong muscles, as well as the color that becomes more and more pale and bleak as the years go by.
Maybe it's because the love is too strong that it can't last. A person's body and mind can be thrilled for a short time. But there is no way to maintain a high frequency of enthusiasm forever, otherwise it will only accelerate the consumption of vitality and wither more and more rapidly.
One piece and one relaxation is the way of civil and martial arts. Love is often eternal in an instant.
When bathing in love, everything is beautiful, especially the other person, who is simply the embodiment of perfection, the advantages are infinitely magnified, and the disadvantages are ignored.
Until the chemistry between the two gradually disappeared, and the passion of love slowly subsided. The shortcomings that I had not noticed before became clearer and clearer, the discomfort of getting along became deeper and deeper, and quarrels and cold wars became more and more frequent. Even once developed to the point that in each other's eyes, each other's advantages also have a tendency to transform into disadvantages, and if you can't find a balance to continue to develop, then nine times out of ten you will break up.
Even if there is no way to really break up for various unavoidable reasons. The hearts of the two will also drift apart until they are 108,000 miles away. The gap is deepening. If you don't speculate for more than half a sentence, even if you are old, it is a hundred years of good cooperation between the two who hate each other and ignore each other.
As for the deep meaning contained in "Holding the Hand of the Son and Growing Old with the Son", there are very few of them. People in the world yearn for mutual support expressed in the allusion of "getting along with each other", but the final result is often towards "it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes".
If you want to rely on a marriage letter or how many children you have to trap a man, it is better to treat yourself well and treat yourself. If you have money, you will spend it.
Buy beautiful clothes and dress up, whether it's a holiday or not, as long as you want, then immediately send yourself all kinds of flowers;
Pick up a bunch of books you want to read and read them all. Regardless of whether the content and sentences are memorized in the end as a topic of conversation at leisure;
If you want to taste delicious food, let go of your appetite, eat and drink, and insist on exercising and fitness in the future, so that the only house that will never change in this life - the body, becomes more and more beautiful and healthier, instead of being like a building in disrepair, early joint wear, legs and feet are not good, teeth are loose, and gray hair is gray.
Work hard, study hard, play like crazy, rest lazily, whether you can meet the so-called man with the right temperament with your soul in the vast sea of people, you can walk freely and happily all your life, and live without tooth decay until the day of old age and death.
"Everyone is working hard, it's useless to think so much, maybe one day the high-end and high-grade prince will come to us on a dark horse, and I can't miss it with my eyes wide open. ”
"That's right, it's a lifetime to make do, and it's a lifetime to find someone who likes the other party and likes yourself. Although it is said that getting married as soon as possible can be relieved as soon as possible, who knows if there will be any sequelae left by rushing to get married? There should always be a rush, and the days of marriage are better than the days of singleness, so that there is the motivation to get married, right?
What's the point of two people living happily as one person living alone? ”
"Who said that a single dog has to eat dog food? How good it is to live alone, eat whatever you want, and wake up at what time you want to sleep on holidays, even if you lie in bed after breakfast and lunch, no one will come to you without eyes.
Wearing big pants, you can walk around the house casually, no matter how casual and sloppy you are.
Whether you're talking to yourself, daydreaming, no one will be babbling about how shameful you're wasting your time. ”
"That is, even if it is limited, you don't need to sneak up on your ears and close the door to watch it, like a sneaky spy in full disguise. ”
"Haha, when I first came out of work, I rented a house, I was nervous about money, and the clothes I bought were all stalls. Once, when I was exercising at home, the movements were too vigorous, and as a result, the sweatpants cracked with a 'click' when I did the split. At that time, I was thinking that I was fortunate that I didn't share a house with others in order to save a little rent, otherwise I would be embarrassed and embarrassed. ”
"It's really embarrassing. But not me. I remember a time when I was busy and dizzy, I didn't even wear underwear and rushed into the elevator to go to work, if I didn't happen to meet the cleaning aunt, I guess I would have to drive to the company to find out. ”
"Speaking of trouble, when I graduated from graduate school, because I was unsatisfactory in my job search, I was so stressed that I overate, and I became a big fat girl because of sitting for a long time not long after I got to work.
Later, I went on a diet to lose weight, and ate eggs, cucumbers and sweet potatoes every day. One day, the big boss came to inspect and walked up to me with a smile and asked how the work was, but I couldn't control my body and replied to him with a stinky fart. ”
"Haha, if it weren't for that squid fart, how would you have gone to the gym and worked hard to get on the road to healthy weight loss? ”
"That's right. ”
"That fart is definitely good, well-played, croaked. (To be continued.) )