265.Cancer (II)

There is a phenomenon that when women are young, they are staunch opponents of inheritance, but for some reason, once a woman marries, she stands on the side of men, and women who do not give birth to boys are regarded as outliers. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. biqUgE。 info

This phenomenon of women contemplating women deserves a good study by our sociologists.

This is not a simple phenomenon.

This phenomenon involves a variety of deep-rooted beliefs about the lineage.

It is difficult to break this philosophy without the hard work of several generations.

Just like in the early years, when the family planning policy was implemented, it was very difficult, so difficult that no one listened to the opinions of the working group. If you don't give birth, you will hide from it. As a result, superborn was one of the most unique landscapes of that era. Today, although the family planning policy has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, there are still people who find ways to violate this policy.

Backward and poor places are still places where the family planning policy cannot be implemented to the end.

People in these places do not think about how to get rich or how to live a prosperous life, but all they think about is how to have a child, as if the child is their only support in this life, in this life, and in the next life.

Even today, including many wealthy places, there is still a preference for sons, for example, when a child is born, relatives and friends will get together to celebrate, and if a girl is born, relatives and friends will lament - it is good to have a daughter, but it is a bit harder.

In the countryside, to say that someone's life is miserable does not mean that he has no money, but that he has no children.

This is a strange phenomenon.

Do you get rich when you have children? There is a man, who gave birth to five children in one breath, and felt dissatisfied, and hid to give birth to a child, a litter of six children, looking gratifying, but because the family is too poor, those children have not graduated from junior high school, so they dropped out of school to work, so far the eldest is in his thirties, because he is lazy to do, and the money he earns is pitiful, so he is still single, a family of six, only one married a daughter-in-law, as someone joked that you have a lot of children, well, there are five pairs of empty eyes looking at a sleeping woman, as if your family is short of women for eight generations!

When I said this, I couldn't bear to hear it.

There has been a shortage of women for eight lifetimes, not that there are no women in his family, but that women are rare in his family.

A family like this, let alone giving birth to six children, even if it gives birth to a camp, it can only discredit this era.

This kind of reproductive method is no different from that of livestock.

But in China, this phenomenon is all too common.

After thousands of years of accumulation, it seems that people are addicted to having a man, and it is difficult to quit in a short time.

Opium addiction is easy to quit, and once the idea of wanting to have a man is formed, it will be difficult to quit for eight lifetimes.

It's a woman's nightmare.

This is the sorrow of men.

Whether it is a man or a woman, once you enter the party hall of marriage, you always have to pay a heavy price for it. Of course, in today's cities, much has changed in this regard, but there are still entrenched ones.

This view of the inferiority of men and women must be eradicated.

This view is like a cancer rooted in people's psyche, which is always difficult to eradicate. If you want to eradicate it, you have to affect the peace of your ancestors. This is the sorrow of our society, and it is the sorrow of our time.

It's the age of gods and horses, but there are still people who hide in the deep mountains and old forests in order to have a child, or hide in remote and uninhabited places. It wasn't until his beard grew long, until he gave birth to a son, until his mother-in-law had become a big winter melon, that he would take them and that child back to his house, and talk to the old lady and father about his great achievements.

This is not uncommon in China.

What is rare is their spirit of abandonment.

If every Chinese had used this spirit to build the great cause of socialism, socialism would have been built in China at least 100 years earlier. It is a pity that some people in China only have this spirit when they are born, and as for the construction of the country and society, it is someone else's business.

This kind of person will only enjoy the various treatments provided to him by society, asking him to do something for others or society, which is impossible, because this involves the inferior nature of the Chinese - self-interest.

Whether in the countryside or in the city, we often see people arguing over a dime or a kilowatt-hour of electricity, and finally have to end up fighting.

If this kind of bad root is not removed, it will be difficult to change the inherent bad habits.

Bad habits exist because of this part.

This part is a cancer of society.

Teach him to read, he doesn't read, he says that reading is someone else's business and has nothing to do with him at all.

He asked him to go to training, but he didn't go, he said that it was a rich man's business, and he was a poor man, so he was not suitable for that kind of thing.

Asked him to learn the technique, but he didn't go, he said that the work was too hard and tiring, and it was better to sit in the sun and bask in the sun.

These are the people who are dragging down our society.

These are the people who have damaged the image of our society.

These are the people who are destroying the natural progress of human society.

These people should all be dragged to labor reform, and only labor reform can make them realize how important skills are to a person, how inseparable they are from this society, and let them realize what they should do for the society, rather than just asking for this society.

It is precisely because there are too many people in this area that Feng Zilong will transfer Zhang Sangou's money away, he wants to change the fate of some people in this way, so that they can understand how to live with dignity is the most important thing, as for whether they can live to live a long life or whether they can pass on the ancestry, it is not important.

He had promised a village that he would let them live happily. At that time, he promised that he didn't think of anything else, he just thought of it and said it, and he didn't think about how difficult it would be to change them, he only thought about doing this, so he did it......