"I will ask my counselor if this man is still worth keeping, if there has been many times of violence, it proves that the other party has lost his mind and exposed his character flaws, such a man is not worth keeping whether he loves or not, while helping the counselor to regain herself, I suggest that she solve the problem through legal means... But this is not the case with him, the first time he did it, we also have feelings. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info"

Xiao Qian snorted, "All the women who have been beaten are numbing their hearts with the poisonous chicken soup of feelings, I admit that a lot of love and domestic violence exist at the same time, but do you want this kind of love? As a doctor, you actually mixed your life like this, don't you know where the root of your problem comes from?"

"I'm not so lucky..."

", my apprentice's luck is not as good as yours, but she can already deal with domestic violence cases excellently, she only said four words, I believe that she has more clinical experience in domestic violence cases than you, and your incompetent performance after being subjected to domestic violence is also inevitably related to your experience of treatment failure, just because you lack these four words. ”

"What four words?"

"Find yourself. Just these four words, Liu Xiaohua, what is your self-worth? Is it stupid to worship a famous teacher with a high degree but to inflate yourself and find a man with excellent conditions who is willing to bow down and be small? ”

"I..."

"If you just want to keep a relationship and seek perfection, then what are you studying hard for so many years? Your parents have raised you for so many years, are they just making you live a muddy life in the cloak of an urban elite? I don't mention your parents, I'll just say big boss, what are you doing now worthy of the big boss?"

When it comes to the big boss, Liu Xiaohua is still not convinced.

"She looked down on me all the time. ”

"She looks down on you and she accepts you? She looks down on you, she will change the way to remind me and let me take care of you? If you don't have the relationship of the big boss, do you think I will stand here with you, see you like a wreck, and clean up the mess for you? The big boss has always had a bad heart, if you let her know about this incident, will she be upset? You look all over the world, whose big boss would take an apprentice like this? She doesn't let you take on such a case, not because she looks down on you, but because she hopes that you don't want to break down as soon as you get out of the mountain, and the apprentice who has worked hard for several years is suddenly abolished, will she be sad?"

This sentence is true, Liu Xiaohua thought about the majestic expression of the big boss, and felt that she had really disappointed her this time, and sat on the bed with her face covered as if she was missing a piece in her heart.

People always have to be frustrated before they can figure it out, and Xiaoqian's words made her completely enlightened.

"I won't give you anything specific advice, I'll just tell you, if you don't want to be a waste wood for the rest of your life, you don't want to disappoint your teacher and your family, you should quickly stand up and find a way, you want to treat the patient, you want to save your marriage, this is all based on finding yourself. The question you have to consider now is not whether to divorce or not, nor how to escape your work mistakes, you must first find your own position, and only when you find yourself not to attach any feelings, will you follow your heart to find a suitable solution. ”

"What is my ego... Chen Xiaoqian, what kind of words do you think of me, is it very incompetent and useless?"

"Want to hear the truth?"

"Listen. "It's already like this, Sister Hua feels that no matter how much stimulation she has, she can listen to it.

"You have a small heart but a big vanity, and you want to run when you are not stable, but you don't know that in the profession of psychological counselor, only academic qualifications are not enough, and anyone, including me, has to go through a lot of clinical practice, and also meet a good master, and only after time can you become a counselor who is in charge of himself, which is different from any industry. ”

A good psychological counselor must not only have a high degree as a threshold, but also go through a lot of time to hone the clinical, if Xiaoqian did not have so many clinics in her previous life, where would she have today's ability?

"Yes, I'm such a failed person..."Sister Hua lost her soul, Xiaoqian said it very objectively, but why didn't she find out before?

"You're wrong, you're not a failure, you're just too anxious, maybe my existence has put too much pressure on you, made your mentality distorted, and you want to prove yourself too much, but where do you see my hard work and hard work?"

"Have you worked hard? I see you always at ease, you can always easily get things that we can't get no matter how hard we try. ”

"You didn't see it when I worked hard, I also used to sleep all night in order to memorize those rap theories, when you gossip with people, I was still studying Freud and Brentano to have sex across time and space, when did you see me talking to a bunch of people? I have not watched a TV series in the more than 4 years since I entered school, and I have only been in the cinema a handful of times, are you sure my life is easy?"

People always like to look at others and use their strengths to compare their own weaknesses.

Xiaoqian's life is indeed a bit boring or even boring compared to ordinary college students.

Only when she is with her friends and Xiaoqiang, she will relax a little, compared to her previous life, she has worked harder in her previous life than now, and the accumulation of two lives has been exchanged for her current success, how can these efforts be seen by outsiders.

"Liu Xiaohua, your character is not my turn to judge, from a personal point of view, I don't like your character, and I won't be friends with people like you, but looking at your profession objectively, I think your professional skills are still good, with the basic qualities that a psychological counselor should have, I recognize your professional efforts. ”

Unexpectedly, Chen Xiaoqian, who was holding her chrysanthemum, would be able to say such a thing, and Sister Hua was so shocked that she couldn't even cry.

"You, why would you say that?" shouldn't Chen Xiaoqian scold herself and mock herself?

"This is the difference between me and you, I am a character who talks about things, and I am destined to be a big boss in the future, and you are at most a person who is skilled in business and works for the boss. ”

Not being jealous is a mediocre talent, whether it is in the past life or in this life, Xiaoqian's side has never stopped gossiping.

Including after she set up her own studio and had her own team, those people talked about her in private.

If she was angry one by one, one by one, she would have been angry with herself.

The management team is by no means the one who goes along with me and the one who goes against me dies, but to maximize everyone's role, and squeeze out everyone's surplus value to create the greatest profit.

"Although the big boss has a bit of a virgin's heart, but the people who can be selected by her are at least one in a hundred, if you don't have any shining points on your body, she won't accept you, although there is a little mistake in this treatment, but you should know what to do next. ”