258. Mental Abuse (Part II)

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It's like a chronic venom that erodes the human body, knowing that it will destroy a person after a long time, but just sucking it, which is the paradox of human nature.

Human nature is fragile.

The love and affection that arises from this are also fragile.

But Feng Ziqing doesn't think so, in her heart, love and affection are sacred and cannot be blasphemed. It is precisely because of this understanding that as long as anyone dares to woo her, they will be hit by her without exception.

It's not that she doesn't want to love, it's that she won't easily agree to someone's love.

Some men, seeing a love for one, -- this kind of man, to be precise, should not have love, but it is precisely this kind of man who is often able to get the love of young girls, and the reason is very simple, that is, he dares to express it.

Love needs to be expressed.

But expressing is not necessarily love.

It's like a man and a woman meet in one place, and they say "I love you" to each other, but in fact, it can't be fake, because true love doesn't need to be said with mouths, and true love is always in action.

None of the people who say "I love you" when they meet someone of the opposite sex will carry out their love to the end.

Or to put it more bluntly, that's pan-love.

Once love is overflowing, it can cause irreparable damage to others.

For example, the love triangle in life, stepping on two boats, junior, cheating, etc., all belong to this kind of pan-love. In fact, everyone hates this kind of pan-love person, but there is always no shortage of this kind of person in life, because this kind of person can't be idle for a moment, as long as there is a chance to catch the opposite sex, he will say it from his mouth.

It was as if he or she was going to die as soon as he or she said that.

Therefore, the person who loves this today and loves that tomorrow is actually a human being at all, and there is no difference between them and animals. Animals are like this, as long as they meet the opposite sex, they will immediately shine with their eyes, and then run to the mysterious part of the opposite sex to smell for a while, and then look up to the sky and crack their mouths for a while to be self-intoxicated, and then they will ......

Is this love?

This is not love.

This is due to the breeding of offspring.

People can't do this, because people have thoughts, feelings, seven emotions and six desires, and have a different way of life than animals.

Men and women are not united just for the sake of procreation. If it is just for the purpose of reproduction, it is no different from livestock, because people still need emotional communication between people, they need to comfort each other, and they need to support each other.

If men and women were like animals, then life would lose its meaning.

Just as ** sells his body, a man prostitutes, and pays a lot of money after the fact, the meaning is that the man is to solve the physiological needs, and the woman is to get it for nothing, and no one owes him anything.

But as a person in a society, you can't do that, because this society still needs to develop, and if both men and women do this, then this society has no meaning to exist.

After all, in addition to satisfying basic physical needs, it is more important for people to meet spiritual needs. After all, animals are different from humans, no matter what animals do, they are instinctive, while people have to think about sociality.

It's just an authentic straw bag, no matter how ridiculous he helps, he will always think of a simple question, whether this or that thing he does will be opposed by others.

In the same way, when we say that we love someone, we should also think about why we should love? Love is not a simple thing, nor does it mean that we love when we say we love, and we don't love if we don't love it.

If love were so simple, then there would be no one in the world to sing about it.

Love is great, noble, and holy because it enlightens one's mind and gives strength to one's mind.

Turning the pages of history, you can see everywhere how powerful the power of love really is.

Tang Xuanzong wasted an era for love.

Wu Sangui is for love, and he has troubled an era.

Hong Xiuquan lost a country for love.

…… Love should not be said lightly, and if it is spoken, it must be responsible.

Tang Xuanzong was in charge.

Wu Sangui is responsible.

Hong Xiuquan is responsible.

But their responsibilities are all based on their selfish interests, and their love is beyond personal feelings, because his love should be built on the basis of working for the welfare of the people of the world, but because they only consider expanding their loneliness to love someone, the world has condemned them.

It's a little love.

They don't know how to love.

Little love entertainer.

Great love and protection of the country.

No matter who you are, you should remember that with the change of a person's status, love must also change, and you must learn to love a person from loving a person to loving this society, in order to keep a person's small love, because without big love, naturally small love will lose the possibility of existence.

Love in troubled times, although unforgettable, is often short-lived, the reason is that great love does not exist.

Big love does not exist, and small love cannot last.

So while loving someone, you also learn to love the person you love, and in doing so, love your environment and country.

Although the Gone with the Wind is desirable, the suffering in it is clear to only those who have come through the troubled times, as for the kind seen in novels or on TV, it is the product of literati processing.

Love in troubled times, like love in times of peace, is great, noble, sacred, and not to be blasphemed. Therefore, especially in peacetime, love someone, but also allow it to be plain.

Plain is true.

The same is true of love.

Over-hyped love often can't stand the test of time. Only plain love can withstand the test of time. The big waves rush to the sand and see gold, which is what is said.