On October 7, the last day of the long holiday, Liao Fanyao took an afternoon flight back to Beijing.

Liao Fanmin took time to have a long talk with Liao Fanyao, because Liao Fanyao was in love.

The man's name is Tan Yuanhua, a native of Beijing, also from Peking University, staying in school for graduate studies, just graduated, teaching at the Chinese People's University, it is said that he is preparing for the doctoral examination, his father is a university professor, and his mother is an employee of a state-owned enterprise.

When Xu Wenqing went to Beijing, he saw Tan Yuanhua, and it was said that this boy was very good.

Liao Fanyao is about to be twenty-three years old, and personal problems can be considered.

Liao Fanmin didn't give much advice, just talked about some of his own experience, he thinks that in today's situation, girls don't need to pursue careers too much, because this society is not very tolerant, and once girls become career-oriented, it is difficult for the family to be happy, after all, the idea of male and female protagonists has lasted for thousands of years, including abroad.

Liao Fanyao agreed with Liao Fanmin's statement that after graduation, she was going to enter Beijing Foreign Chinese University to teach, and because of career restrictions, she would definitely want to study for a doctorate in the future, but she would not be completely immersed in work.

In fact, the main reason is that Liao Fanyao's conditions are already very good, and he has two houses in Beijing and an imported BMW car, so he doesn't need to struggle too much.

Sent Liao Fanyao to the airport, Liao Fanmin told again that there is less than a year to go, Liao Fanyao will graduate, and he will definitely consider marriage at that time, he must be assertive, and listen to the opinions of his father and mother.

On the way back, Liao Fanmin received a call from Liu Tao and Ma Yanhong.

Liu Tao and Ma Yanhong are already married, and their wedding was very lively.

Back at home, Liu Tao and Ma Yanhong were already sitting in the living room.

After the two got married, there were some small disputes, it was about family life, Liu Tao wanted to have a child, but Ma Yanhong's work was very busy and she didn't want children for the time being, in comparison, Liu Tao, who taught at the University of South China, had a relatively easy job, and the management of the university was loose, and after Liu Tao went to class, there was nothing else.

Liao Zexi and Xu Wenqing went out with Liao Yuanhao in their arms.

Shen Yaling was sitting in the living room, chatting with Ma Yanhong.

After sitting down, before Liao Fanmin had time to catch his breath, Ma Yanhong spoke.

"Liao Fanmin, you help me comment on the reason, Liu Tao always wants children, but there are so many things in the company, the things in the Business Valley, and now the things in Happy Valley and the Film and Television City, I can't be busy, where do I have time to take care of the children, I think it is still necessary to delay for a while. ”

Liu Tao looked at Liao Fanmin, with a lot of helplessness in his eyes.

Liao Fanmin did not answer Ma Yanhong directly, but looked at Liu Tao.

"Liu Tao, what do you think. ”

Liu Tao turned his head to look at Ma Yanhong, and reluctantly spoke.

"I thought that the grade was not young, and it was time to have children. ”

Shen Yaling looked at Liu Tao and Ma Yanhong and did not speak.

Liao Fanmin looked at Ma Yanhong.

"Ma Yanhong, then tell me, when are you going to have a child. ”

"I don't know, I haven't thought about it, there are so many things in the company, Mr. Qin can't be busy at all, I can't help much, I can't make a mess, if I have a child, I can't do things with peace of mind, wouldn't it be a mess for the company." ”

"Do you mean that Mr. Qin doesn't want you to have children too early? ”

"No, Mr. Qin doesn't care about our family affairs, I just think that Mr. Qin is so busy. ”

Liao Fanmin looked at Ma Yanhong and shook his head slightly.

"Ma Yanhong, maybe you don't like to listen to what I say, since you ask for my opinion, then I'll tell you the truth, now it's half the sky for women, and there are many women who pursue careers, but there is a premise, that is, on the basis of not affecting the family, otherwise the family will be difficult to get alike, I admit that this understanding has the meaning of patriarchy, but this is a fact. ”

"Your grade is indeed not young, and if you decide to get married, you have to have a family plan, and you have to think about when you will have children, and you don't plan to be a Dink family. ”

"When it comes to the company's affairs, it depends on how to say it, Ma Yanhong, when I asked you to do things in the company, I would never think that you would pay the price of family harmony, we are all college classmates, if I do this, I will not have the face to see you. ”

"There will be more and more things going on in the future, and if you want to make the company sit down, it's impossible, and in this case, when do you plan to have children? ”

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Shen Yaling is very smart, she knows the past between Liao Fanmin and Cheng Yahui, and it is precisely because Cheng Yahui pursues her career that she broke up with Liao Fanmin.

"Xiaohong, what Fan Min said is that you also have to think about having children, if you feel that there are too many things, let Fan Min adjust it for you, go to a more idle department, that is, three or five years, and wait until the child goes to kindergarten, it will be relaxed, and Liu Tao has more time, so he can take care of things at home." ”

Ma Yanhong was a little unconvinced and looked at Liao Fanmin.

"Liao Fanmin, you are still the best graduate of the University of South China, and you look down on us women, I don't dare to compare with Yaling, if I don't work hard, where will I get so much salary. ”

Liu Tao's face changed slightly, and Liao Fanmin's face also changed slightly.

"Ma Yanhong, don't think like this, yes, I have a lot of money, but I usually use so much, Xiaoling's money is also a lot, but look at it, she has three meals a day, and she has to go to work honestly every day, I think for you, family is the most important, even if you work hard, what will happen in the future, if Liu Tao wanted to make money, then stay in the United States, and will not return to China, and your income is already very good. ”

Shen Yaling probably knew that she was wrong, so she hurriedly spoke.

"I don't mean that, I mean I can pursue a career as well. ”

"What are you pursuing, do you want to make more contributions to the company, then if it is me, Yaling don't think about meeting me every day, I need to work seriously in the unit, and I have to think about the company's affairs, both ends have to take care of it, where do I still have time to accompany Yaling, but I think that the family is still the most important, I can no longer eat out, I can give up many things in the company, and even ignore some things in the unit, but I have to go home every day, I have to walk with Yaling every day, I definitely don't want to snub the family, if I do that, then I am selfish, just thinking about myself。 ”

Ma Yanhong looked at Liao Fanmin and was speechless.

Liao Fanmin turned his head to Liu Tao and spoke.

"Liu Tao, you were the president of our student union at the beginning, studying abroad, the best among us, and now you are back to teach at your alma mater, I think you also have a lot to do, the teacher in the university is very strict, I heard that you are still a lecturer, the next step is to evaluate the associate professor, then the professor, and the first-level professor, while taking care of the family, you should also pay attention to the career, if a man does not have a career, he really can't raise his head. ”

As soon as Liao Fanmin finished speaking, Ma Yanhong immediately spoke.

"Liao Fanmin, I love to hear you say this. ”

Liao Fanmin turned his head and glared at Ma Yanhong.

"Don't raise the bar, even if Liu Tao is thinking about running a career, will you support it, in front of us, we all say that there are many things in the company, and they all say that women want to pursue careers, if you and Liu Tao both go to pursue careers, what should you do at home, do you just follow your career every day, don't I say you, look at Yaling, and your choice is completely different, I really want to know that you have such thoughts, I shouldn't have let you enter the company in the first place, I don't believe me said here, if you go back to work in the TV station in your hometown, now children can go to soy sauce。 ”

Liao Fanmin's words made Shen Yaling couldn't help laughing.

Ma Yanhong was also embarrassed.

Liu Tao and Shen Yaling took their leave.

Shen Yaling lay in Liao Fanmin's arms.

"Husband, you just told the truth today, it turns out that you are thinking about women taking care of their families, and men are working hard outside. ”

"Yes, I think so, it's not just my thoughts, the society knows like this, you look at those women who pursue careers, many of them have not married and started a family, because they also know that if they get married and start a family, then they have to take care of the family, and it is impossible to focus on the career, rather than this, it is better not to get married and be busy with their own careers. ”

"That's too unfair, why can't women pursue careers, and men can't take care of their families. ”

"The truth is so, but the reality is like this, I can't reverse it, you think, if you pursue your career every day, do it well, I do housework at home, I have a nest, do you like me, even if you are willing, after going out, can you endure the strange eyes and sarcasm of outsiders. ”

Shen Yaling nodded.

"Husband, what you're talking about is that the eldest sisters in our unit usually talk about things at home, whoever has the ability in the family can raise their heads in the unit, and whoever has an average performance at home can't raise their heads. ”

Liao Fanmin hugged Shen Yaling with strength.

"Wife, don't worry, I will definitely let you look up forever in the unit. ”

Shen Yaling smiled and nodded, lying peacefully in Liao Fanmin's arms.

When Liao Zexi and Xu Wenqing went home, their faces were not very good.

Xu Wenqing complained when he entered the door.

"I haven't brought a child, I really don't know the depth, you see Hao Hao's face with sweat drops, you have to untie Hao Hao's clothes, so how to do it, children in the confinement should not go out, I don't know what those experts on TV say, what children want to take out to breathe, I don't think I can go out in the confinement. ”

Liao Zexi opened his mouth a little unconvinced.

"That is, walking around the community, in less than ten minutes, I saw that Haohao was a little hot, and I planned to take off the package outside, but I didn't really take it off. ”